Life is short for decades, why can t it be bland?

Whether it is an objective reason or a subjective reason, it is necessary to maintain a state of mind and a thought. People's path needs to be walked by themselves, and the direction of development of some things cannot be determined by themselves, but keep a good attitude and a healthy mind, whether you are rich or poor, famous or advantageous, you will have a dull life.

If you know what you want, do it and don't overthink it. Everyone can find peace in one thing or one person. Plain ** than calm.

There are very few people who think like this, and they all hope that their lives will be better, and if they are too bland, they will be ridiculed and said that they are self-contained. So...

In fact, as long as you can look down on all fame and fortune, you can live a plain life.

It's up to you to live an ordinary or vigorous life, it's a personal choice, and it's not about others.

But it can't be flat, why go through this in vain" Don't be too flat.

Of course, life can be lived in an ordinary way.

Although they all understand, but the display is too cruel.

Calm your mind, adjust your mentality. At this time, mortals must have thoughts.

If life is too dull, there will be no taste.

So what's the point of coming into this world? It's just a matter of alignment with your own mindset ...

If you want a dull life, try to ask yourself if you have plain capital? It's not that it's just a matter of lip service, people in the world still have to rely on material and spiritual support. Therefore, communication with others is indispensable.

Since this is the case, there is the exchange and impulse of thoughts and actions, and it cannot be dull.

Yes, as long as you want to, it mainly depends on your own attitude towards things, people, and society.

There are no bumps in the road of life. A person's life is destined to have bumps.

This is everyone's wish, but due to various external reasons, it cannot be realized.

For the sake of the so-called dignity, self-esteem.

If life is dull, there are no ups and downs, no twists and turns, no success, then what is the meaning of life?

Fame and fortune are only temporary, and indifference is the truth.

If fame, fortune, power, affection, love, hate, and hatred can all be let go, then your life will be dull.

Knowing the ups and downs, Fang does not regret a trip to the world, knows how to advance and retreat, knows how to put it away, and then can feel bland.

Do whatever you want, don't think too much.

Life is not unlimited. The meaning of life is not about the length of life, but about the contribution to society. We must cherish life, let the limited life shine, and make unremitting efforts to extend the value of life. Wouldn't it be nice to be like Galileo and leave a name forever?

The pursuit of material things first will lead to spiritual satisfaction.

I agree with them. There are so many people, then I won't answer.

It mainly depends on your attitude, different people think differently.

Bland, everything you need in the world, you need capital, life is bland, what else ... To be dull capital is to be vigorous and not dull, and to experience a lot.

An ordinary life is suitable for seclusion, in today's society, you won't live a dull life, and trouble will come to you!

Then what kind of plainness do you want?

Everything is for people, I want to be plain, but I am unwilling.

This society doesn't want you to be bland.

I remember a famous CCTV host said: "Life is often dull, life is composed of 5% happiness plus 5% pain and 90% blandness" Think about it carefully.

Some people envy celebrities who come in and out every day, some people hug each other, and countless people are looking for autographs. Actually, it's not, because their arms are actually very painful and they are afraid that they will find their signatures again. Some people worship that corporate celebrities can face different people and things every day, enter and exit the company at a high pace, and take a BMW and Mercedes Benz by plane.

Is it true that they are always objects of worship and imitation? Actually, no, they are also human beings, their lives are also ordinary, they are running for their work every day, and they have no more time to experience happiness or pain, but smart people will rely on a little more happiness for 90% of the blandness, so they feel very happy.

In life, we give ourselves new goals every day, and every day we feel nervous, anxious, and sad about our goals, but these goals are basically not achieved. Then our nervousness, anxiety and sadness become meaningless. In fact, when our goal is never achieved, just a little progress every day, in this short and long decades of life, we are spent in the dull, that shows how boring our life will become, if you do not have a good life psychology and state will be a terrible thing, therefore, only the correct understanding of the dull, your life will become undull, will really go through their own life; If you are comparing wealth and status with others every day, and there will always be someone better than you, it means that you will always be behind, if you can't understand the plain correctly, even if life seems to be beautiful, it is actually very unsatisfactory.

So, only with a proper understanding of the blandness will your life be real and meaningful.

Life is uneventful, and the key depends on how you understand and face it.

1. Identify a few things that you think will be most valuable in your life and focus on doing them.

When people are at a low ebb, to anything. None of them are interested. Always thinking about those sad things. So, in order to get rid of this emotion, you should first let yourself not always think about these problems and divert your attention.

2. Accept a fact that cannot be changed.

Sometimes, there are things that people can't change. Now that it has become a fact, don't always think about how to make it nothing, try to accept it, and face the reality. It is impossible for one person to change the whole world, and things will not change because of you.

All we can do is adapt to the world. The so-called natural selection of the physical environment, the survival of the fittest, if you want to make yourself happy, you must first make yourself less extreme, and not to drill the horns.

3. Life should be simple and interesting.

Don't always be dissatisfied with your current life, and don't always compare yourself with others. Your life should have your wonderful. Sometimes, a happy life is not piled up with a lot of tickets.

4. To forgive others is to forgive oneself.

Tolerance is a virtue, a redemption for those who make mistakes, and a sublimation of one's own heart. Don't always think about how the other person has offended you and how much damage has been caused to you. Think about whether the other party is worth asking you to hold and get angry early.

Did he do it intentionally or unintentionally? How do you treat you on weekdays? To give the other person a chance is to give yourself a chance.

For some people, forgiveness is far more effective than punishment. Maybe it's just a momentary mistake, maybe it's just a fleeting thought. There are times when people make mistakes, don't be too harsh.

5. Resist the destructive emotions that haunt the mind, such as resentment, sorrow, anxiety, guilt, self-pity, and so on.

Is life too dull? Is it bland or not?

I think what he wants to express is an extraordinary person's Zen ruined life, not ordinary life.

1.No one likes to be alone, it's just that they've had enough of being disappointed.

2.It's obviously lonely, but it's good to say that it's good to be alone.

3.Loneliness is not to do something without one to accompany you, but to do something without anyone to understand.

4.One person is lonely, but he doesn't want two people to settle.

5.After experiencing true isolation, you will understand that tears are the most useless thing.

6.The deepest loneliness is standing in the middle of a crowd and being speechless.

7.You pushed everyone around you away with your own hands, and said that you were afraid of loneliness.

8.You are lonely because you want someone to care about you and you don't want to be overly disturbed.

9.Lonely because you have no one in your heart, and lonely because you have someone in your heart but not around.

10.You'll never see me when I'm at my loneliest, because I'm loneliest only when you're not with me.

11.Loneliness is that there is no one to accompany you, and loneliness is that no one understands you.

12.I'd rather be lonely than have anyone perfunctory me.

13.You may really not understand the feeling of being so lonely that you want to cry and are afraid that no one will comfort you, swallow your eyes and continue to smile at He Hong.

14.The most painful thing is not parting, but the memories after parting.

15.He said that he was happy to be single, but he envied the happiness of two people in his heart.

16.The loneliest times make you the strongest version of yourself.

17.I could only let my memories and laugh at how lonely I was.

18.I sit across from loneliness, and the absurdity is that I am more lonely than lonely.

19.Lonely people who like to pretend to be busy the most.

20.Lonely Yu Lu is not that there is no one to accompany him, but that there are obviously many people around him, but there is no one to talk to.

21.Memories are a bridge, but they are a prison to loneliness.

22.The glitz fades, and people are lonelier than fireworks.

23.Forgive me for being calm and inviolable, just because there was no one behind me.

24.Loneliness is buying a cup of coffee or milk tea and walking on the road, suddenly wanting to go to the bathroom, but finding that I don't know where to put the cup in my hand.

25.There was never anyone standing behind me when I was lonely and helpless.

26.Loneliness is about giving you time to think about yourself.

27.You pushed everyone around you away with your own hands, and said that you were afraid of loneliness.

28.You won't understand the feeling of being so lonely that you want to cry and you're afraid that no one will comfort you, so you swallow your tears and continue to smile.

29.Loneliness is a severe cold with no one to deliver porridge.

30.Looking back, every step of the way is so lonely.

Could it be that such a life is too dull, I think it means that it is not bland, she is unwilling to live an ordinary life.

Dear friends.

Don't worry about the fate of life, everyone will have this or.

Life like that.

Troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with a sockish and optimistic thing, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you.

It's okay.

Cherish them and be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you.

You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone has a responsibility to judge things! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. External, its own double pressure to rush to the circle. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life?

In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.

Go with more interest and curiosity.

Discover life. Let's get a little bit of it! ~

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

So much to the point that I have said to you!

You should work harder to face life.

Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)