Is the reality of love in the 80s and 90s?

It is our great sorrow to fall in love but not be able to love each other. I also believed that there can be eternal love, and all the tests of reality can be calmly faced by those who love each other. In the end, I compromised.

is no longer young, he has learned to be realistic and rational, even in love. After seeing the infinite wind and moon, my heart is still like water. Jun has deep self-affection, and there is great love under deep affection.

Love her and let her go. I wish you a good fortune.

I think you should give up, it's not that the girl is bad, but time can change everything, she is too young, she has not yet been exposed to the society, and when she enters the society, his outlook on life and values have not yet been reflected, and you are not small, if you want to find a marriage partner in the future, spend your life together, it is best to think clearly!

I can only say that your love is too far away, first of all, it is a matter of age, and secondly, it is a matter of thought and background.

Think about it, that girl is only 17 years old, can he really understand what love is? I think he's just loving freshness and having fun with you. One day, when she gets tired of it, she'll leave!

If she also comes out to work, I think age is not a problem, after all, some of my friends and her husband also have 10 years of age problems, but women came out of society earlier, so their thinking is more mature, and it seems that they are quite happy for the time being!

But your situation is very different, and I personally advise you to end this love early! If you wait a few years to find out that it's also empty, then why bother?

This kind of thing can only be taken as it is, it's useless to talk too much, not to mention that she is still a high school student, and she has so many ideas about the future, if you don't believe it, ask her, she will definitely say that I haven't thought about it.

I also want to say that I am also born in the 90s, and my thoughts should be similar.

It's too small. I'm 86 years old, and I'm looking for a 90 year.

The age is not too big, it's just 93 years, and I'm only 17 years old this year, which is still the age of study. High school bar!

Give up, people nowadays are realistic for both men and women.

I think it's so impossible, like you say, it's not the same world at all!

The main thing is that she doesn't understand anything yet.

Let's not make another cup......

Eat all day long and do nothing.

After that, the crystal clear dew on the grass is like dew.

The post-80s love concept should be realistic and stable, more mature, and they have higher requirements for his love, because they think that once they fall in love, they will be responsible for the other party, and in their love concept, they think about the future; For the post-90s, their love may be a game, almost no one can directly enter marriage from the first love, this is a rare situation, in their opinion, while they are still young, talk more about a relationship, they will enrich their own experience, they are more focused on their own feelings, and rarely consider the future.

People born in the 80s believe in love, many of them will never forget their first love after experiencing early love, and they will hope to find true love in a place far away from daily life, and they are more willing to run in longer, so sometimes they will encounter some conflicts between husband and wife in the family; 90 The latter is different, then they have grown up under the pressure of competition and huge social participation, they live extremely disadvantaged, they separate their lives from literature and art, they know that travel is travel, and they can't change anything, and they will come back to work as soon as the holidays are over. From this point of view, the post-90s generation is more realistic, and the post-80s generation is more romantic, this is because the social environment in which the two generations live is different, and there are always people who say that the post-90s generation is the beat generation, but in fact, with the development of the times, the post-90s generation is also the middle force of society.

The post-80s concept of love tends to be stable and tolerant, and when two people get along, they generally learn to care for each other, tolerate each other, and respect each other, so they go longer in love, because the most important thing in a relationship is mutual tolerance and mutual respect; And for the post-90s, they need more freshness in a relationship, and they are experiencing all kinds of fun and experience, they don't care about the length of time they have been in love, all they care about is what they can gain in this relationship?

In short, the post-80s and post-90s generations have very different love patterns because of the different social environments in which they live.

Compared with the post-80s, I think the post-90s outlook on love is more realistic and self-conscious. In fact, the post-90s couples are closer to friends and will get along more harmoniously, and they will rarely give each other too much burden.

80's are more conservative in love, they follow the rules step by step. And 90's love is bolder than them, dare to love and hate, and don't care about the eyes of the world.

The love of the post-90s generation is more publicized and distinct. Love is love, and if you don't love, you won't wronged yourself.