When love collides with reality, when love collides with reality, will you?

Love is very important to us, you are having problems now, it is normal, its sweetness means hardship, you can ask yourself, do you really love him?

Love, go on without hesitation, don't love, give up as soon as possible.

It seems that you love him, so what are you worried about?

Maybe you should consider whether your mind will change, no, go on without hesitation, will, give up.

I'm a guy and I've had some problems with that, I'm poor, we're far away, she's good, I love her very much, but we're still moving forward, love needs persistence, it needs to be understood, it needs to be considerate, it needs to give together.

Of course, necessary material considerations are also necessary, and you can give him your considerations and say that you should solve them together.

Trust me, you have a way out.

Let's be honest with him. You shouldn't decide the future of two people alone.

Let's talk, know what he thinks, see if you can agree, if you are both determined to make a film in the world, then why not work together?

If he also feels that the future is uncertain, then maybe.

There is a kind of love called letting go.

Anyway, don't think about things so desperately, the world is full of miracles, and no one knows the next second's surprise.

If you like him, you must not give up, it is worth paying for love!

If you have a lover, you will eventually become a family, so let it be. Don't be too deliberate!

Yes, believe in your love, okay?

Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Choosing love can be improved, and the second one seems to have less burden in the future, but it is more troublesome when there are many children!

The first one is the perfect choice for you!

It's really a problem, I think it's my choice, it's to insist on the first, after all, it's love. I don't think you're on a firm foot. That's why I think about it.

I think you should choose the latter, after all, the former doesn't last long, and you should try to like the latter girl. After all, marriage is a long-term thing, not overnight.

As a boy, you know best how much you are capable of. If you feel that you have the ability to give happiness to the girl you like, then choose love.

Hehe, I have a friend who has a similar experience to yours. A few days ago, you were looking for me to drink, and I was very drunk. When he got drunk, he still thought about the girl he loved.

I think this question depends on whether you have the courage and strength to conquer each other's parents and gain their trust.

Choose love, people still have a long time to live. The shared experience will only make people feel fulfilled and happy when they look back on it when they get older.

This society is so realistic! There are many times when it is difficult for lovers to marry! This is also the sorrow of China and the world!

But according to what you said, you and your girlfriend both love each other dearly. The latter can bring you a comfortable life, but if you think about it, who will share it with you in your future work and life, and fate is not determined by whom. Let's say you have failed in your career.

Who can accompany you to the end?

To be honest, it may be better for the family to ask you to pick up the burden, but the future life is still very long, marriage is a matter of two people, and it has nothing to do with other people, so in my personal opinion, it is to be bitter now, work harder, fight for your ideal love, and let your ideal husband recognize you.

My friend has had this problem, but I haven't, because I have a younger brother, and I think you can carry the burden, because your parents won't want much from you, but only for your sake. This is my idea, I don't know if it's available or not.

My humble opinion: be with the person you love! No matter what the environment, you won't be afraid! The power of love is greater than material!

Two people work together as one, and nothing in this world is difficult for you.

I will persevere, I don't know if she will persevere, look at her own eyes!

Let's talk about my personal opinion, I still think it's more appropriate for you to break up, first of all, you don't have a deep emotional foundation, you haven't even known each other for less than 1 year, and it's half a year to fall in love, and the reason why you don't want to break up is just because you feel that it's very irresponsible, and I think the opposite of you, and when I find that a love is not suitable, I immediately propose it to my lover, and make a decision immediately, which is just a very responsible performance, because this is responsible for both people, but it drags and drags, and it is not good for both people, which is irresponsible.

Love is not directly related to money, but money is the foundation of everything, and there will be a superstructure Only when there is a foundation We are not writing fairy tales or idol dramas, and in idol dramas, the heroes and heroines should love each other very much to break through many obstacles and come together, and I don't see any signs that you love each other very much.

So let's give up, and my point of view has always been that I can accommodate friends, because there can be many, many friends, but lovers must not be forced, because that person is going to be with you for the rest of your life.

I think you can't accept this kind of life, growing up in such a high-quality environment, those habits that have accumulated over time, maybe you can temporarily abandon your habits and pampering for your boyfriend, but for a long time you will find that you are out of place, your habits, your clothes, your senses... He can't give you the security you want. Why do you feel irresponsible when you want to break up, if you feel that it is not suitable and being together for so long will only hurt you deeply, then it is not just irresponsible.

You will quarrel more and more, and the hurt will inevitably be, and it will be difficult for you to break up with the quarrel and feel that you have chosen to make the wrong decision with him, so that it will be too late, and the relationship is not something that can remain uncracked with warmth. In today's society, love is difficult to survive without economy and ability, and the affection and warmth mentioned above are bullshit. When you are interested in all kinds of firewood, rice, oil and salt, when you basically don't sacrifice in your daily life, you will find how much you miss the days when your hands are not stained with spring water, and you will find that love without economy to keep you food and clothing is bullshit (you can't rely on your parents for the rest of your life).

At that time, unless you endure it and you become a superman to try to achieve what you want to buy and do and protect him under your umbrella, I think you can endure it, and he can't bear it; Unless you have the determination to create a future with him, it must be hard, but you guarantee that he will still be like that when he has the ability and money in the future, people say that when a man has money, he has the capital to raise a junior. Unless, unless you are confident enough, you can be so sincere and unchangeable to move him, accompany him, and have enough confidence that you are still his only one in the future. If not, choose carefully.

It makes sense to be the right person. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will respect your choice.

Love without results It's too much of a difference You can write it has proved: you care about your gap Don't deny it In fact, it's still very important to be the right person Find one that suits you There's no need to make yourself so hard.

First of all, tell you that there are no friends, and pure love is still there, even if there are not many of them. You have to see if he has the idea of fighting. If so, I will support it.

People are selfish, and your situation makes you have to take the time to reflect and think about your future life Make a decision, and be sure to stick to your decision. I think you should be a girl with few eyes, don't be confused by temporary happiness, take a long-term view, think about your family after thinking about it, there are still many excellent men. I still don't know much about your situation, so I can't say much about it.

Give up! Reality is much crueler than love. Beautiful love only exists in fairy tales.

When the prince meets Cinderella, there will be a happy ending, and that is because the prince is a man and can afford to raise Cinderella. Your boyfriend can't meet your material needs, and even if you can make a lot of concessions, will you be happy when your boyfriend is happy? Happy love is when both people are happy.

So make a decision and find a beautiful love again!

The reality is like this, sometimes you are always forced to separate, but if you really love him, you still strive to fight together.

Since you have decided to do it, you will do it, and the long pain is better than the short pain, and don't say until the end that the reason for the pain is the pursuit of the wrong thing. Second, it is not so much that others make you miserable, but that your own cultivation is not enough. 3. If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you.

Because of your own heart, you can't let go.

The key is to be happy? Do you care? Afraid of losing each other?

If you don't feel well, you can leave the relationship to calm down first... Time will tell!

Like me, when love met reality, we persevered for three years and finally broke up. He's tired, and I'm tired. Think it out for yourself.

First, no one can choose their origin, her father is a murderer, and she is not responsible for not following her to hand over the knife.

Second, there is indeed a difference in the difficulty of asking people to accept a murderer's daughter as a wife and asking someone to accept a murderer's daughter as a daughter-in-law.

Third, however, a person's marriage is first of all their own decision and then their family's, whether the family can accept it or not, as long as you don't squat at home, they don't force you to accept their decision.

Fourth, the key to the problem is still you, if you can stand your own ground in front of the family, then time is the best lubricant, your parents will only start to gradually accept her if persuasion is completely ineffective, if you hesitate and waver, then don't blame the family for having ideas.

In this era, there is no smoke and war, Huang Jiguang's unrelenting hero can only appear in family disputes like yours, although it can't be as great as serving the country and the people, but it is valuable to be able to protect the love in your heart, and to be brave and strong.

It was his father who killed the killer, not her, and besides, the murder was not inherited.

Whether you want to continue or not depends on the wishes of you and her, and the parents' opinion is of course for your good, but for your good, is it really good??? There is a fundamental difference in this.

And you are also an adult, you should think about your own life, no one can decide your life, only yourself.

Your parents' acceptance or not acceptance is secondary. The key questions are:

1. Your personalities are not compatible. And not a question of love and not love. From the above examples, I don't see that you have a good personality.

2. If the personality is compatible, it is love.

3. If you have love, you want your parents to accept it or not, and it doesn't matter if you don't accept it, because you have the right to choose. You can live alone, and there is no need to have conflicts with your parents all the time.

This may be that your children in the future will not be able to become civil servants, but what good is there about civil servants.

The most important thing is to live happily, and if you are not happy, it is useless.

You have to fight with reason, and don't retreat.

Life is only once, and missing it will not come again

It is true that the reality is very cruel, the older generation in the past are more traditional, they definitely can't accept that kind of thing, although it is difficult, I still hope that you will persevere, not only you, but you also have to do a good job in her ideological work, so that the two of you can work together.

In fact, I found that your relationship is not strong, you have been together for so long and you know so little about her (at least you have nothing to do with this matter), this is very irresponsible to yourself, to her, you take your family, your future, your descendants are burdened with the price of your impulse, what are you? I just don't think you can afford a home! And I don't think you really love her, it's just a personal feeling, and it makes you feel like she's okay with everything, but what if it doesn't feel like anymore?

If I were your parents, I would never approve of your marriage, you are too unrealistic and irresponsible, and you still want to build a family, isn't that a joke?! Now that you are under the influence of external forces, the "Romeo and Juliet effect" will make you even more blind. If you were a mature man, you would know what I was talking about.

I have said so much that I know it must not be to your liking, I just hope that brother, you can be sober, marriage is not a joke.

My words, landlord, can change your situation.

Are you afraid that you won't be able to get married even if you make your girlfriend belly bigger? My bad idea! Don't be surprised! Please forgive me for making a mistake!

For your love, be brave and persistent.

Let his parents see how good he is.

It's right to set a deadline for yourself, work hard, and if you can't do it, just follow the fate.

Dude, don't be discouraged, love is not so perfect Work hard Use your sincerity to impress your parents Parents are also thinking about your future So don't complain too much Work hard I support you Because I just like this kind of vigorous love Come on!!