Why did the boyfriend s ex girlfriend start panicking as soon as the current girlfriend appeared?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because what you can't get is always the best, I'm afraid that my boyfriend will eat back grass, and I can't forget my ex and ex-girlfriend getting back together. As long as the ex breaks up and is not particularly ugly, basically with the passage of time, he will often remember the happy times of the past, if he invested a lot of time and energy in the last relationship, the ex-girlfriend can easily become the same existence as Bai Yueguang.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's because your boyfriend doesn't give you enough security, you always think that he still likes your ex, and then there are all girls who face their boyfriend's ex, and none of them will be calm.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because the status of the ex-girlfriend in the boyfriend's heart definitely still exists, once it appears, the current girlfriend begins to lose confidence, and the whole person begins to panic.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because as soon as the ex-girlfriend appeared, they were afraid that their boyfriend and her old relationship would rekindle, after all, they had an emotional foundation, and they were also afraid that their boyfriend would step on two boats, and they would not be able to forget their ex-girlfriend and let go of the current one.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As soon as my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend appeared, I felt a little panicked, this was because I knew that my boyfriend had not forgotten his ex-girlfriend, and deep down, I was still missing him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because a man has an ex-girlfriend plot, and with the appearance of his ex-girlfriend, the current boyfriend is afraid that his boyfriend will change his mind and abandon himself to get back together with his ex-girlfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because this boyfriend didn't give his current girlfriend a sense of security and didn't get enough trust from the other party, he started to panic as soon as his boyfriend's ex-girlfriend appeared.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The reason for this situation shows that the current person is not particularly confident, that his strength is not enough, and he feels that he has not captured the heart of a man.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because the current girlfriend is generally very afraid that the boy still has feelings for his ex, and is not confident in their feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because many boys feel that their first girlfriend is the best, they will regret breaking up with their first girlfriend later, and then even if they have been in love many times, there is no soul in the world that is completely in tune, and it is necessary to run in slowly, so don't mention the ex, just cherish the current one.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think this kind of behavior is very silly, because you will anger your current girlfriend and it may lead to very serious consequences, such as a breakup

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Whether it's the ex-girlfriend's good or the ex-girlfriend's bad, it's all unclean. It's over, it's over, and I always have to bring it up again, and if I want to, I'll go back to my ex when I want to. Mouth owes.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think the purpose of these guys is to satisfy their vanity, and they want their current girlfriend to know that they are not as good as their ex-girlfriend, and they still broke up with their ex-girlfriend, so they also want their current girlfriend to know that if you treat him badly, he can replace you at any time, and he can find a better one himself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, most people will have a past relationship experience before they meet a new relationship. I think as long as there is no problem with the other party's character, you don't have to care about the other party's past emotional experience. The premise is that you can accept it yourself, and if you can't accept it, don't insert it into this new relationship.

    People can only become more mature when they have experienced their past love lives. Understand what you need so that you will cherish the relationship more.

    Some people don't mind. If you love someone enough. Then you just have to care if he cares about you or not.

    And you just have to care about what's in front of you. Everything goes with the flow. I treat it with a normal heart.

    Have a good attitude. If he only cares about you, he only cares about living with you in the future. So why do you keep worrying about his past?

    Everyone has a past, and there must be a past to be considered a good life. to know how to cherish each other. It's okay.

    Don't get tangled. Many men and women in a relationship will struggle with one question - whether they should care about each other's past. Especially a woman with a strong possessive desire in love, from how many exes the other party has talked about to everything she has experienced and wants to know clearly, she can't wait to peel off the man's past layer by layer, as if only in this way can this man completely belong to herself.

    Actually, you can't say that you don't mind or don't mind in generalizations, after all, everyone has their own inner thoughts. In fact, if a person cares about you very much, she will understand your past, the more she cares about you, the more jealous she will be of your past girlfriend or others, but she will not mind because she cares about you, but if your relationship with them remains as stable as before, she will be jealous, but will support your approach, so it doesn't matter, as long as you treat her seriously and give her enough sense of steadiness, it will be fine. In fact, girls don't have such a small belly, the reason why they mind, the reason why they are stingy, is because she loves you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. This is the most normal reaction, how can I compare the current one with myself? Why do you think your ex-girlfriend is blind? Of course, if he is obviously much better than himself in all aspects, such as appearance or money, he will feel that his ex-girlfriend is too superficial and materialistic.

    2, angry, you must be thinking in your heart, we just broke up and you have a new boyfriend, did you already have a wishful thinking and don't want to stick to our relationship? The former vows, the once incomparable, are just the past, and now that you have a new person by your side, I am no longer that caring person.

    3. I am relieved that I have a new girlfriend for so long, and she finally has a new boyfriend, so I don't have to worry about her pestering me in the future, and you don't have to worry about whether she can eat and sleep well, and whether anyone cares, so you see that when most boys learn that their ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend, in fact, sometimes there is time, and the situation of getting along and breaking up is different, and the reaction will naturally be different.

    In fact, the best breakup state is to stop paying attention to each other in the future, and there will be less troubles, of course, unless you don't really want to break up, then it's another matter. I just want to tell everyone that after a breakup, you should be responsible for the choices you make, and no one will always stand still and wait for you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think it's necessary to care, because the past is gone. But you can understand and learn to let go. Otherwise, it will have a great impact on the relationship between each other.

    Everyone has a past, objectively speaking, you can't participate in his past, you and he can only have a future, and this past has a light or heavy position in everyone's heart.

    Everyone, in the face of a beloved, for their own past, his past, the way of choice will be different, some people choose to force erase, thinking that the past can be forcibly wiped, just like a person with dirty hands, will force himself to keep washing his hands, and in fact, if the past can be forcibly wiped or forcibly erased, it is so good that it is like drinking the water of forgetfulness, every time you can start again, but in fact, how many people can be freed from the past hall, and how many people can really let go.

    I think when you first get along, you should know about the past of the opponent, if you don't mind if you can be together, don't mind if you are together, if you only learn about his past after being together, then as long as he doesn't miss the past, you don't have to mind, but if he always shows that he cares a lot about his ex, then you have to think about your relationship.

    Follow your heart's thoughts no matter what. Life is a life, grass and trees are autumn. Flowers have a reblooming day, and no one is in the youth. In this life, you should do whatever you want. Otherwise, the relationship between the two will be very tense, and they must learn to cherish the present.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Question: Is it because her ex-boyfriend still has me in her heart? It's been a year since we both broke up, and I haven't forgotten him, but it never came to me again.

    And you care that she pays attention to you.

    You certainly haven't let it go yet.

    At first, I didn't think I would be, but as long as they were together, my boyfriend and I were separated, and now I'm a little suspicious, anyway, my ex-boyfriend was very cruel to me, and I didn't let go, and the person in my heart has always been him.

    Question: The sense of security he gave me was probably that in this life, he only loved me and spoiled me very much, but after the separation, he really never came to me again, and then I looked for him, and he was very ruthless, and when he heard my voice, he hung me up.

    I'll tell you my story.

    Kind of similar. I like a girl and I confessed to her.

    Be together for a while.

    Later, I slowly found out that she was getting better and better-looking.

    I'm constantly discovering my flaws.

    Finally separated.

    I never looked for her again.

    Occasionally, the tone of speech is not very good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because she has something to say to you.

    An ex-boyfriend can also let the current girlfriend know about his ex-girlfriend, and the current girlfriend finds the ex-girlfriend accurately, which is a tacit understanding between the words and deeds of the couple, and the most realistic you are the contact person of the current girlfriend.

    You didn't contact your ex-boyfriend, your ex-boyfriend didn't contact you, and his current girlfriend contacted you, so contact you.

    Anyway, you didn't destroy a girl's sense of existence, and you didn't have the heart to understand her love presence, she was willing to find you is willing to meet you, she can express whatever she wants, as long as it is a friendly way to meet to satisfy her curiosity.

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