Is academic background important when looking for a target? Do you look for someone who values their

Updated on society 2024-05-11
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Forehead. Don't look down on yourself, everyone's upbringing is very different, and not everyone is smooth sailing.

    In terms of academic qualifications, I think that if the girl doesn't mind, and both parents and herself don't mind, don't think about it. But it mainly depends on the opinion of the girl, because you will spend many days together in the future.

    Nowadays, people are actually very realistic, and women are more accustomed to climbing upward, that is, girls with a high school degree may marry into a doctor's family, while boys with a high school degree rarely marry a doctorate.

    I don't deny this, but I don't have confidence in myself, so I can't help it. You should learn to use other areas of expertise to make up for this deficiency, people will not be happy in everything, and that life will not be complete. If you're a high school graduate, but now you're an entrepreneur, or even the richest man, or just a big boss with a little bit of fame, I don't believe girls care about your education anymore.

    People have to learn to look high, not long, can grow ability

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What's wrong with the self-examination The effort to be able to pass the self-examination is much more than the effort required to successfully graduate from the unified enrollment undergraduate. Except for a few people who have very goals and work hard in college, the rest, such as me, are all players who copy exams every day. Be confident, the main person is good and motivated, I'm afraid that girl is not worthy of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Finding a partner to choose the other half needs to look at the other party's academic qualifications, but it is definitely not the most important.

    Falling in love and marriage need to be the right person, which not only refers to the family, background and economic status, but also includes the education of two people, so in a relationship, you must pay attention to each other's education, education represents the time when a person receives education, there is no good or bad, just to know whether the future lover or lover is at the same frequency as himself.

    Education represents people's cognition and that experience, if two people have the same education, they will be more compatible in terms of three views, and there will be more common insights when facing problems in life. Especially girls must not find a boy with a lower education than themselves, if such a story happens, one day in the future, the two have a quarrel, the boy may feel that because of his low education, so the girl looks down on himself.

    When looking for a partner, the education of the other half is not the most important, the important thing is whether he is a person who loves to learn.

    Education is just a person's learning results more than 20 years ago, and his learning ability is the basic guarantee of two people's lives in the next few decades, even if a person does not have too high a degree of education, but has a strong learning ability and self-reflection ability, he will also mix well in society, very good, such as Guo Qilin, although his education is not high, but his emotional intelligence and cultivation are very high.

    The higher a person's education, the longer the education time, and not necessarily the better, after all, life is more about firewood, rice, oil and salt, rather than studying for exams to get a degree, so a person's social survival ability and emotional intelligence may be more important, so when choosing objects, education is not the most important, and people who love to learn, have strong learning and self-reflection ability are what we should choose.

    Looking for a partner who values the other party's academic qualifications is only one of the conditions for contacting that person, and it also requires two people to get along.

    You can't generalize about the object by academic qualifications, but different academic qualifications represent different cognitions, visions and three views, so if the educational background of two people is too different, you may not even be able to find a common topic for chatting, or it is very embarrassing to get along.

    Back to real life, if the circle and background of the two people are comparable, and the cognition, vision and three views are also very similar, then the two people will get along very well, at this time the education is not so important, as long as it is about the same, it is OK, so the most important thing to find a partner is to look at the circle, cognition, vision and three views of the two people.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I won't read it, because I don't think it has anything to do with academic qualifications at all, and the most important thing is the relationship between the two people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, because academic qualifications determine his future job opportunities and his future work situation, so this aspect will be taken into account.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I attach great importance to academic qualifications, because I have a relatively high academic background and I want to find someone to talk to me, three views are the foundation, and academic qualifications are also a manifestation of intelligence.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, as long as you like it, no matter what education the other party has, you will choose the other party, although the education is very important, but if you like someone, you really can't let go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is probably going to be seen, after all, if you graduated with a master's degree or a doctorate, you won't easily find someone who didn't graduate from junior high school.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Many people feel that academic qualifications are very important when looking for a partner. If there is a very large difference in education between two people, then there is no way to communicate together.

    In fact, I think academic qualifications are very important, if the other party is a doctorate, and you are just a person who went to elementary school, there must be a big problem in communication between two people. When the other party talks about lofty ambitions, you are always talking about firewood, rice, oil and salt. Even if two people want to be wronged together, but after being together, they will find that there are too many problems to solve.

    It is recommended that if the educational background of two people is very different, it is best not to be together, because the worldview, values, and three views of two people are different.

    In fact, as adults, we all know that love can't last long. After two people are together, there will often quarrel, and this ridiculous love will disappear, so it is also recommended that when choosing a marriage partner, it is best not to put love in the first place, in fact, love is really not important, the important thing is whether the two people are suitable. When we are in love, we can choose the person we like, but when we get married in our family, we must choose the one who is suitable for us.

    It's not that we look down on people with low academic qualifications, but we all know that if the difference between the educational qualifications of two people is really very big, then the two people have no communication language at all. When the other party tells you that they have fun in school, you can't experience it at all. If the other party has a high degree of education, and the two of them are together, what you talk about every day is nothing more than this dish, which has risen a few cents and that dish has become a few cents cheaper.

    We can think about it, even if two people have to be together, will they be happy and happy in the future? I think you can think about this issue carefully, if you think about everything yourself, and you don't think it matters, it's okay to be together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When looking for a partner, I think academic qualifications are very important, two people will have a common language when they are on the same level, and if the difference between two people is too great, it is difficult to communicate with each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think academic qualifications are particularly important, as the saying goes, the right person is the most important, if the other party's education is particularly high, then the other party will definitely require their own education.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, academic qualifications are not important at all, the main thing is that the three views of two people must be the same, so that two people will not have conflicts when they live together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Education is only a part, it can't be said to be dominant, after all, there are well-dressed beasts with high education and warm men with low education, this depends on whether the other party loves you or not, and then they will try to get close to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it matters, love is beautiful, it's good to be happy with each other. Liking each other is more important than anything else.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In today's era, generally speaking, young men and women with relatively high academic qualifications, or even those with the same academic qualifications but in better schools, will have better cultural attainment, economic income, and contribution to society. Don't you see, Shanghai has opened a green channel for graduates whose first degree is Tsinghua University and Peking University in terms of household registration, etc., and it stands to reason that the lifelong event of finding a life partner can ignore the diploma degree?

    Suppose you are a regular full-time college graduate, and someone introduces you to a boy who graduated from high school, will you agree to marry him in a vague way? I don't think so; Even if you are satisfied with all aspects of his life except for your academic qualifications, and the two of you get married and start a family, when the enthusiasm of the two of you in love and newlyweds slowly subsides, won't the difference in your perception of things due to the difference in education and cultural literacy become a potential threat to the harmony of your daily life?

    I often hear the neighbor's son blame his daughter-in-law and say"It's terrible to be uneducated! "Fortunately, this daughter-in-law doesn't care much about this sentence, otherwise, the so-called uneducated daughter-in-law can stand her husband's ridicule like this. The educational difference between husband and wife is still as small as possible, and contemporary young people still yearn for high education.

    We often say that couples should be matched. That is to say, there should not be too big a gap between husband and wife in terms of appearance, economy and family background, and of course, there should not be too much difference in academic qualifications. I must have seen the popular TV series "Desire" in the early years, Liu Huifang is so virtuous, and Wang Husheng loves Liu Huifang very much, but Wang and Liu are too different in terms of family background, culture and education, etc., this kind of marriage formed under specific historical conditions cannot withstand the test of environmental changes, and Wang Husheng, an intellectual, and Liu Huifang, a worker, are still Lao Yan.

    In the actual marriage cases, we can find that generally male students can accept girls with the same or slightly lower educational qualifications, but generally do not look for girls with significantly higher educational qualifications than themselves; Girls can accept boys with the same or higher education than themselves, but generally do not look for boys with significantly lower education than themselves. The choice of mates between male and female students in terms of academic qualifications proves that contemporary young people are very concerned about the harmonious match of culture and education between the parties in marriage.

    Of course, we emphasize that both parties to the marriage must pay attention to the matching of culture and education, and it is definitely not the matching of culture and education as the only criterion for choosing a mate. Besides, highly educated people are not necessarily excellent in all aspects, no one is perfect, and highly educated scumbags and scumbags also appear from time to time. It is only advocated that men and women should recognize each other's character, appearance, health, economic income, family background, etc., while not missing the consideration criteria of culture and education.

    Looking for a partner, of course, character comes first; Factors such as appearance, health, economic income and family background are also very important, and diplomas must not be sloppy. I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it's important. Because of this educational gap, it is generally reflected in real life, that is, the perspective of looking at the problem is different. If you look at problems from very different angles, you are prone to quarrels and disagreements.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's very important, because two people have different educational backgrounds, they have different educations, and many ideas are different, and it is difficult to have some common language.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it's really important to find someone with a gap in education, because if the gap in education is very large, the two of you will have different insights and worldviews.

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