My boyfriend split his legs, and the object turned out to be my best friend, should I continue to as

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Absolutely not, this kind of man even dares to touch his best friend, and it will be even more terrible in the future, and he should be resolutely told that byebye good men are everywhere.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First, make sure he really has a split.

    Misunderstandings can sometimes be scary.

    If he really splits his legs.

    Look at your feelings.

    Is it true to love him.

    Yes, then find a way to recover him.

    I don't care about his split.

    Of course, inclusion is not unconditional.

    Make sure he doesn't split his legs again.

    Otherwise, no matter how much you love him.

    Keep saying goodbye.

    If you don't love him, you have to him.

    Well, say goodbye decisively.

    Better a finger off than always aching.

    Be generous and dashing.

    Everything depends on your heart.

    Trust your own heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do you love him? Sometimes you know he's making mistakes, but you can't be ruthless on key issues. Women are usually so contradictory.

    knew that it was his fault, and he really stupidly asked himself if he wanted to have a relationship. Listen to me and stop dating. He's had once, he's got a second.

    In other words, even if you forgive him, is there no longer as much trust between you and him as before? Do you want to overwork him in the future to beware of his change of heart? Peeking at his text messages?

    Don't let him associate with anyone else you suspect will ruin your relationship? Too tired. Women, learn to be free and easy.

    People who don't value themselves, breaking up is the best option, and you're not someone you want. Why bother for him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's all split, is it necessary to continue? Even if you're reconciled now, you don't have to worry about him hacking you again, so forget it, there's no need, I think.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Why are you still dating, it's best to think about even your best friend, whether you should continue to be friends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Just say, you don't care much about him, I guess your girlfriend likes your boyfriend, and you don't care much about your boyfriend, or else they would be together?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If he really likes you, he won't play with splitting legs

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The people on the 6th floor have said everything that needs to be said, and I can only tell you that I believe that the 6th floor is right.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is a difference between men and women, this is the education we have received since childhood, and it is also the mainstream cognition of our society, and there should be no one who does not understand this. Opposites attract, this is the law of nature, if it is pure friendship, you should understand that men and women have a minimum respect and moral distance, should not be too close to cause people to misunderstand, they can ignore these then can only be opposites attract! I think you can tell your girlfriend that you don't like this behavior and don't approve of it!

    If that's still the case, you just leave! Living like this, I don't know how tired it is, this one puts a hat on you, maybe another male girlfriend wears a hat for you.

    Women can't go out casually, so the friends who can be invited to the boudoir are girlfriends, and girlfriends must only be women, if it is a man, in ancient times, it is to invite a man to his boudoir, so can it be simple? It is said that there is no absolute friendship between men and women, I believe in this sentence, absolute friendship can't be talked about, let alone girlfriends, and absolute possessiveness, making friends, chatting about these is still no problem, if you are like your girlfriends, eat together, go shopping together, talk together, this is unacceptable.

    What male girlfriends and female confidants, what friends of the opposite sex are, the best way is to let the other party also feel it, love is selfish, if the other party doesn't mind that you have, it can only mean that he and she don't love you! If I have a boyfriend, I will distinguish it very clearly from other members of the opposite sex, firstly, to have a stable foundation for this relationship, to avoid the suspicion and distrust caused by the opposite sex at the beginning of the relationship, and to establish a sense of security with each other; Second, when the relationship development is not smooth, avoid the participation of a third party leading to the occurrence of untidy and chaotic situations.

    So don't tell me anything about having a good relationship with male girlfriends, you can get tired of being together every day, I have a lot of female friends with good feelings since I was a child, but I know how to "be friends" with them, and there is a problem with the crooked cliff every day.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, this is completely putting the cart before the horse, if you want the relationship to go smoothly, two people must respect each other, and being too good to other members of the opposite sex will definitely affect the relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no way to continue this kind of relationship, because there is already a third person in the love between two people, and it seems as if you are the third party, which will be difficult to accept.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think there's really any need to continue a relationship like this, her heart may be more important to her best friend, and yours may just be a spare tire.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Such a relationship should not be continued, because the girlfriend's feelings for you are not unique, so the two of you are not very suitable, so you should break up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't quite know the details of the relationship between your best friend and her boyfriend, but I can offer some advice based on common sense and moral principles.

    First of all, if your girlfriend is in a relationship that is harmful, such as she has been abused, cheated, hurt, etc., then you should persuade her to break up, because it is to protect and help her.

    Secondly, if her relationship is not too problematic and she just broke up because of some minor conflicts or misunderstandings, then you can try to help her communicate with her partner to solve the problem, rather than directly suggesting a breakup.

    Finally, we need to respect everyone's decisions and choices. If your best friend insists on breaking up, then you can give her some support and comfort, and the state is not trying to persuade her to change her mind.

    Further, we need to consider the specific situation of the girlfriend. If there is violence, abuse, or other serious problems in her relationship, then we should strongly persuade her to break up. Because this relationship will have a serious impact on her physical and mental health, and may even endanger her life.

    In such cases, we should actively help her to seek professional help, such as through women's protection agencies.

    Secondly, if the girlfriend's relationship is not too problematic and only breaks up because of some minor conflicts or misunderstandings, then we can try to help her communicate with her partner and solve the problem. At this time, we can act as a listener to her girlfriend, listen to her, and at the same time act as her "matchmaker" to promote communication and understanding between her and her partner. If she and her partner still have a relationship foundation, then we should encourage them to overcome difficulties together and get back together instead of giving up easily.

    Finally, we need to respect everyone's decisions and choices. If the girlfriend insists on breaking up, then we should respect her choice and give her support and comfort. We can accompany her through this sad time and help her regain her confidence and courage, while also respecting her privacy and personal space and not forcibly interfering with her decisions.

    In short, when we persuade us to break up, we need to be based on the specific situation, do not jump to conclusions, and at the same time respect everyone's choices and give them support and encouragement.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should decisively choose to break up if a man can't control his feelings, especially with the people around him. This kind of man is not worthy of your cherishment. Don't tempt anyone in this way.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At this time, you can communicate well with your boyfriend, and tell your girlfriend not to contact your boyfriend again, and then you have to shush your boyfriend every day, so that your boyfriend can feel your difference, so that he will feel guilty and will no longer think about splitting his legs.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since you have tried it out, this result must be unexpected by you, then you have to choose to break up, obviously knowing that your boyfriend will be a caring person, you don't want to break up so you shouldn't test him like this, since your choice is actually obvious.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is understandable, because if you use a lie to verify that what you really get is a result that you can accept, and when this result appears, you either accept it or choose to break up, but there is a voice at fault.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since he is a very attentive person, it will not be very happy to be with him. You won't feel safe with him. It's okay to leave his life and start over.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When you deceive her with a lie, what you get will be a lie, or you deserve the result, because you should never tempt people's hearts.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let a good girlfriend test your boyfriend, her boyfriend wants to split his legs, you can see your boyfriend's character through this incident, I think you should choose to let go.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    So don't tempt people's hearts, because after the temptation is over, it is likely to disappoint you, and now this result is really what you want? If it's really what you want, it's better to break up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Be sure to choose to break up, such a person has no feelings for you, even if there is no this time, there will be a next time that will split legs.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This kind of inattentiveness to feelings can directly choose to break up, because sooner or later, there will be a split.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should reason with him, because only in this way can you better ensure the stability of your emotional life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Try not to talk too much about this kind of private emotion, if your girlfriend doesn't know, you will bring her troubles if you pierce it, if your girlfriend already knows and intends to forgive the other party once, your celery Lu persuasion doesn't you have to believe in the guilt of the girlfriend and the man is a friend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1.are all out of friendship, why bother with whether they are real girlfriends? If you don't do anything, she can break up with you for someone else, and you don't have to think about it anymore.

    2.Under normal circumstances, if a girl has a boyfriend, she will not break up with other girlfriends.

    3.The probability of the big reed wheel is to stop her from thinking that your Jane is there, or some of your behaviors have affected her relationship with her boyfriend, such as your girlfriend is not as good-looking as you.

    4.It's obvious that it's not a real girlfriend, if this girlfriend can't do it, change it, and find another girlfriend, and the girlfriend is not like a couple, there can only be one, and besides, some couples don't necessarily have only one.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes. She may only be a temporary love brain.

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