Can a husband be relied on Can a man really be relied on?

First your question,"Can a husband be relied on? "

Mine is that a responsible man is a man who can be relied upon.

I feel that your problem is how to get along, so I suggest you read a book, "Men from Mars, Women from Venus".

It is a book about how to get along in the life of a couple.

I will summarize the general content of the book, men's emotional needs are mainly: affirmation, trust, acceptance, gratitude, praise, encouragement; A woman's emotional needs are: care, understanding, respect, loyalty, recognition, comfort.

You are separated from your husband, live with your in-laws, and have to take care of your children, which is indeed a difficult situation.

But I think the point of the problem is not your situation, nor is it that your original idea is unrealistic, but that you misunderstood your husband at the beginning.

You think you have a loving marriage, but you can't tell from your narrative that your husband has feelings for you.

It's normal to worry about your parents being tired, but it's also natural to worry about your wife, if he doesn't ask if his wife is tired, it means that he doesn't have you in his heart.

I think in this case, you should be separated for a period of time, see how he and his parents live without you, if it is still the same, this feeling should be over, I know you also have children's concerns, but who said that after becoming a mother, you can no longer pursue your own happiness?

Your experience is very sympathetic, in fact, since you have chosen, do you have to complain so much? It's normal for you to have so many feelings now, life is such a so-called grind, your husband is really not doing it right, because a husband must first take into account his wife's feelings, ask for warmth, and husband and wife respect and love each other like this!!

In fact, everyone is realistic. Anything you encounter is inseparable from money.

He must not be the one who knows [love] you.

For the sake of the children, for your future happiness, there is no money in your hands, and it is only temporary. I wish you all happiness.

How so?

I feel so sorry for you, he just doesn't know how to be blessed in the midst of blessings!

Actually, I have a lot of couples around me.

Sometimes my husband can rely on it, but I still have to rely on my own best in everything, so that it is the most reliable!!

Men treat women like a treasure before marriage and like a root after marriage.

I guess that's the same for me myself.

But I realized it, and I was changing.

But no woman loves me.

Need to empathize, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

Men are not omnipotent, you are!

Good man straight to lean. Some have something to rely on. This is something you need to discover from your life.

The marriages of many classmates, friends, friends, etc., at first were all young grandmother-like lives that everyone envied, and they were all supported by their husbands.

On the contrary, those who are busy looking for jobs as soon as they graduate, know and run in at work, have a common language, and work hard together, although it is very difficult at the beginning, but with the efforts of the husband and wife to work together, the relationship is getting deeper and deeper, and the wealth is accumulating more and more. This is a portrayal of sharing weal and woe. The author believes that girls, at the age of hard work, should not be comfortable, at least have to learn a survival instinct, completely rely on their husbands, that is risky.