When I met my husband, who was busy every day and didn t come home, I was desperate

1 On the other hand, is it different from what you are doing now? You can't stand living alone, so why do you have to get divorced and really live alone?

2 Your life has just begun, and he is the same, in the process of growing up, you will definitely encounter all kinds of problems, slowly run in, solve them one by one, and your married life will slowly get better And it is not advisable to refuse to face problems and avoid problems like you are now

3 Everyone is working hard for this family, your patience and his running and tiring are all for this family There are complaints and shortcomings, you should be honest with him, communicate more, no one is born to understand the needs of the other party, right?

4 Don't think about divorce easily If marriage is not a prudent thing for you, then please think carefully about divorce before acting After all, you are an adult, don't play house games, right?

Your husband is just busy with work and hasn't made mistakes in principle, so why should he think about divorce?

Men put their careers first, and in order to succeed in their careers, they often have to give up a lot of their original things. In this male-dominated society, men have to bear too much pressure, and as a wife, you must understand him and help him.

Talk to him in depth and ask him what he's up there to do. Name your distress, your loneliness, your thoughts, but also ask him what difficulties he has outside? How to solve it?

Let him feel that you care about him, and he will care more about your feelings at the same time, which is communication. It solves the problem and enhances the relationship.

At any time, a woman must not lose herself, she must have her own career, she must be financially independent, and she must be independent in thought, so that her husband will not despise you and she will be happy and fulfilling.

If you have been married for a long time and feel that life is too lonely and dull, you can also consider having a baby, and the child will give you a new life!

Divorce is not as simple as you think; The days after the divorce are not necessarily better than they are now, or even better. Now, there is still someone to miss, is it really gone??

I've thought of a way for you, but I don't know if it's going to work. Send him text messages every day, reminding him of three meals a day, and at the same time tell him that he only eats instant noodles because he is alone; Tell him about the weather, the road conditions, your condition, get his attention, and arouse his guilt. Then in his very little rest, create a comfortable and relaxing environment, cook for him, tie him to the house, and slowly make him not interested in going except for the place of work and home, I think the two of you will have more time to communicate.

You have to communicate well with your husband, why is he so busy? Don't ask directly, you can care more about him and let him notice your existence. Don't be discouraged. Or, give him a dart and say that if you do it again, we'll divorce and see how he reacts.

Think about how to keep your husband's heart.

The most important thing between two people is loyalty and trust.

Sometimes try to understand.

What are you still nostalgic for such a husband, life is just a few decades, why waste your youth on someone who doesn't cherish you, divorce him quickly, as far as the current situation of serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women is concerned, as long as you have the heart, it should not be difficult to find someone who loves you and cherishes again.

Despair has probably happened to everyone. But the main thing is how to overcome it. In desperation, I will find a place where there are few people to relax my mind.

Because at that point you will be very lost. Very disgusted. It's like the world is lonely.

It's empty. At this time, you should reminisce about the happy life you used to have. can give you a sense of relaxation.

You can also find someone you like to chat with. It's also good. The most important thing in times of despair is not to lose faith in life.

Because your tomorrow will be better, friend.

If it were me, I would feel bad. Without the warmth of family, is this still like a family?

I think both sides have to sit down and have a good talk. When you talk to your husband about your difficulties, you must pay great attention to the following: first, show that you support his work.

Second, bring a bit of humor and warmth to your home. Third, as a wife, you should also review why your husband does not come home and whether there are any personal reasons for you. Fourth, everything should be discussed well and quarrels must be avoided.

Look what he has to say. It's really not good, if he doesn't go home, you can go directly to his company to see him. Otherwise, your family will soon be cold.

Not bad, I hope you adopt it.

yes, why don't you ask your husband to change careers? This kind of work is not good for life and family, and many things at home have to be coordinated by your husband, but because of his work, you are very passive.

It is recommended that two people sit down and discuss and analyze what you are encountering, otherwise, your pressure is too great, which will cause conflicts in the family, and you have a seven-year-old child, you also want him to have a good living environment, right?

If you have time to analyze it with your sisters and friends, discuss a solution, and relieve your depression!

You have to think twice before you act! Life is a lot of tribulations, but impulsiveness is the devil, think about it and do it again.

I don't have the same high consciousness as other netizens, I just express my opinion as a married woman. Judging from the situation of the landlord, I only sympathize with you, the man wants to work, but the reason why the work does not care about his wife? If a man's purpose in working is not to make money so that his wife and children can have a better life, but only because of his own interests and hobbies, he is selfish!!

Many times women are soft-hearted, and when they feel that their husbands don't care about them, their in-laws are very good to them, so they can also give us a lot of comfort, but your in-laws are like this!! I just want to persuade the landlord to have a good talk with your husband and tell him your grievances and your sadness, otherwise he wouldn't know. If there is still no improvement after talking about it, then go and find other happiness, even if you live with your parents forever in the future, it is convenient to be filial to your parents, and it is better than now.

Marriage is nothing but love, sex, and responsibility; The way of husband and wife is tolerance, understanding and communication. Your idea is very strange, people are actually burning their own lives when they live, and if they don't dedicate themselves, can they live for hundreds more than a few hundred years if they keep them? Every family has its own difficulties, marriage is difficult, and if you choose such a husband, you should think about ...... in advance

Don't divorce easily, divorced you are still the same, you have to take care of your own children, stick to it, there will always be a difficult period in life, we have to work hard to face it, don't want to escape as soon as you come, divorce and then knot, or encounter similar problems, is it difficult for you to leave again, try to communicate with your husband, although it has little effect, but at least let him know your hard work, slowly boil, since you have chosen, don't give up easily. There will always be sunshine.

People's lives are spent in busyness, and now young couples are not desperately busy, but life goes on. Your husband is too busy with work to take care of the family, and it is understandable that you must be working hard as a wife. Compared to some unhappy families, you are still very happy.

Will divorce solve the problem? Is it because you can't bear the burden of the family now or the relationship between the husband and wife is gone, and there are always more ways than difficulties to talk to your husband.

Just grit your teeth and get through it. If possible, you can get him to change careers.

Divorce? Think twice! Besides, you have a seven-year-old! If it really doesn't work, you can ask your husband to change careers!

Why are your in-laws like this! Your own grandchildren don't want to care, and they can only rely on themselves, you should discuss with your husband to let him change jobs, after all, he has been married for many years, the children are older, and the divorce is not very good.

Look away, yes, he has a husband and children, he's just busy.

The salary is not enough to have any children, if the in-laws urge them, they should say it at that time, if the parents of the children don't have time, they have to help bring it, in the end, it's still stupid.