Should I continue to be nice to him? Am I going to insist on being nice to him?

Then you can snub him for a while and see how he reacts. People only know how to cherish when they have lost. If he doesn't react after snubbing him, maybe he doesn't care much about you, then you don't need to waste time on him anymore.

If a guy really cares about you and wants to be with you, he won't always be so vague, unless, as the upstairs said, he may treat you as a spare tire, then is such a person still worth your trouble? A man's guilt is useless, you definitely don't want his guilt for you.

You can try to make some other friends, maybe you don't feel the same. In fact, the relationship between men and women is only a part of personal life, don't let it encroach on all of you, you can take it away from participating in other social activities and the like, which can soothe the body and mind.

The problem of feelings is the most difficult problem in the world, it belongs to a problem that can't be solved with money, whether to continue, I really don't know, I know that if you have feelings for each other, give each other a chance, if true love will not be separated... Bless you all ...

When you confess, he's still like this. Maybe he's a spare tire for you. It's not all the man's fault that caused this, it was you who didn't cherish it yourself, but pretended to be indifferent.

Like he is doing this to you now, are you very uncomfortable (that's why I say when you're a spare tire plus a maybe)? But seeing that sentence you wrote, he said that he was guilty of saying to you, so the chances of using you as a spare tire are greater. In my opinion, it's better to give up!

It's an immature love. If a man really likes a woman (and both acknowledges the relationship), then he will not give up like that. And you?

Although you have advantages as a woman, you also have to care about the feelings of others (just like how you feel now, do you feel good) that is not wood. The thief is uncomfortable! Put it down!

One step forward is happiness. When looking for a boyfriend, you have to think clearly about what kind of mood you are, is it because of the emptiness in your lonely heart, or if you really want to find a man to live a good life, then you have to learn to pay for him, so you can get rewards? Some women want to marry a rich man and want him to be good to themselves, how can you have both the bear's paw in his most difficult period You didn't spend it with him, you will have a heavy weight in his heart You know yourself, if you don't have to pay, there will be a return, so how can there be the word tragedy in the dictionary!

I'm a boy who doesn't read much, although I've never been in a real relationship! But I understand that either I don't love it, or I love it fiercely.

In fact, in this case, either he hasn't thought about it in his own heart, and he is afraid of hurting you; Either his liking for you is not love at all, because he is not loving enough, so he is not resolute enough; If a person doesn't love you enough, it's not that you treat him well, he will love you, and the better you treat him, the more he will become a burden and make him more distressed and entangled. In fact, the best thing is to be yourself, to be the best yourself, to be the kind of person who surprises you, and you will see a lot when you walk a lot.

Ask him one more time in person, not through text messages, so that you can tell from his tone and expression whether he really has no intention of you or wants to have an affair with you and use you as a spare tire.

If he still insists that you are just good friends, then be his good friend and stop revolving your focus around him.

You can let him continue to do the above 6 things he is doing, but don't focus on him.

For example, if he calls you to go out to play, you can go if you want to, and if you don't want to go, don't go, don't push other things because he calls you, or you must go even if you don't want to go.

He invites you to dinner, and if you are bored, let him invite, but if there is an activity, say that you are not available.

In addition to him, you can also expand your circle of friends and try to hang out with other friends, although you may not be used to it at first, but after a long time with new friends, you won't always think about him.

In fact, if you can be more decisive, confess to him in person and he refuses again, just hurry up and tell him, you can't be boyfriend and girlfriend, we can't be good friends, everyone still goes their own way, you don't come to have an affair with me again, it will make me have a delusion.

Actually, I personally still believe in the relatively simple friendship between men and women, if he says that he regards you as a good friend, then you will also treat him as a good friend, but you have to make sure that he just treats you as a good friend, and girls are still self-focused!