How to write a confession letter when confessing to a boy and still wanting to be good friends with

I love the feeling of being with you.

I think that whether or not you can be friends after the failure of confession depends on the personality and temper of the two people

If the other party rejects you after you express their intentions, and has a very bad attitude towards you, and all kinds of bad words are used against you, then this kind of person can ignore him and her. Because this kind of person is not good at dealing with people, even after being with her, you will be in a lower position than her everywhere, and feel that everything you do for her is what it should be, it is difficult to find your good, and it is impossible to be good to you, two people will easily have conflicts, and life will naturally not be pleasant. There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but you can't like the wrong person.

To love someone is also to love with dignity, no one is inseparable from anyone in a person's life, and there is no stipulation who is to serve whom. Life is neither long nor short, and you must live your own posture to live this life in vain.

What kind of person is worth making friends with is the person who should not look at you differently no matter what happens, and still maintain the same relationship with others. If you express affection to her, she may reject you, but in a tactful tone, if he and she regard you as a friend, then whether he has feelings for you or not, will take into account your feelings and will not hurt you, because she doesn't want to lose your good friend in such a beat.

So when such a person rejects you, you don't have to mind too much, just keep the same way you get along before. Awkwardness is inevitable when getting along, but if you care too much, it will make both people awkward, which will increase the distance between two people. Maybe she really doesn't have feelings for you now, but if you continue to be yourself, maybe one day she will find out what is good about you, and the opportunity will come.

Let's talk about it! Many people have different opinions and opinions, but I think that after the confession fails, whether you can continue to be friends completely depends on your heart, if you feel that the other party is worth dating and can bring you growth, you should not give up easily, you can still continue to be friends, if the other party makes you miserable and makes it difficult for you to sleep, then you can consider giving up contact.

When we go forward to confess to our beloved, there are generally only two endings, Shizhi becomes a sweet lover if he succeeds, and he becomes the most familiar stranger if he fails. But many also believe that confession is a clarion call for victory, not a gamble. It does make sense, only when you know enough about yourself and the other party, or when both parties are silently maintaining this ambiguous relationship, the confession can be successful!

But the reality is that there are many people who have a crush on each other without the other party's knowledge, and they are afraid that they will lose each other if they laugh, so they will always take a certain risk to try to confess. Needless to say, the odds of such a confession winning are almost small. Not only will you not get the approval of the other party, but you will also lose a precious friendship because of this.

After the confession fails, it is difficult to take the initiative to contact the other party, first, you will feel that you are interfering with the other party's life, and second, you will feel that you are licking a dog, which is undignified. There is nothing wrong with this feeling, but what we have to be clear about is that it is a question of whether we can be friends after a failed confession, not whether we can be friends after a breakup! The two are not the same, and it is easier to continue each other's friendship than to confess defeat than to break up.

Don't let this friendship come to an end because of your wrong feelings of lack of dignity or so on.

Before the confession, the two sides have endless topics, but after the confession fails, there will be an inexplicable estrangement between the two parties, and the key to whether you can continue to be friends is to see how you deal with this estrangement.

In my opinion, I think a friendship worth cherishing is more important than the so-called face, and a person who is worthy of your confession will definitely have something for you to appreciate, and such a friend should not be given up easily. Lao Shengmin, we should be rational about love and friendship, love and friendship are separate, no love does not mean that there can be no friendship.

Life is short, it is rare to meet a lover, and having a friend is an important network resource, so I advise all friends who confess failure, love is gone, and friendship must be firmly controlled!

It is very common for boys and girls to have feelings for someone after staying together for a long time. Many of my classmates have had this experience. Maybe this is the legendary love for a long time.

Boys, they are all more courageous, maybe he feels as if he likes you, so he wants to tell you, very direct. Say it if you like it. Unlike girls, sometimes I really like someone and I don't dare to say it.

If this guy is your best friend of the opposite sex, then you definitely don't want to fall out with him. So, you have to look at the situation and see what kind of character he is. But one of the most important things is that if you don't like him, he has confessed to you, don't think about not saying anything, not understanding anything, and continuing to put yourself and him in an ambiguous period, which is really unfair to him.

You are delaying him like this, making him think that there may be a possibility between you, and then he will spend his time with you, and he will not be able to find a new person to love again, and he may fall deeper and deeper, and then you will tell him again, you don't like him, it is impossible between you, and even if he wants to get out, it will be difficult to get out, and make him miserable. Do you think you're right?

So no matter what, you have to reject him. If he is the kind of cheerful personality who usually jokes with you, then you can tell him directly, saying that it is impossible between you, you really don't like it, but you still hope that you can still be good friends. Generally speaking, a boy with this kind of personality, when he confesses to you, his feelings for you are not very deep, so if you explicitly reject him like this, he will generally give up, and then he will still be friends with you.

But if he is the kind of person who is very introverted, you have to be tactful, not too direct, it will break his heart, you can say that you will always be good friends between you, so that he will understand, and he will usually give up. If you reject them and they still don't give up, then you can do it.

I think that feelings are something that cannot be forced, even if you will be a couple with each other and do not have the urge to be with the person you like, I don't think this kind of relationship will go long. The better the guy treats you, the more guilty you will feel, so if that's the case, it's better to make it clear to the other person at the beginning, it's not possible for you.

You can tell the guy in a more tactful way, your feelings for him are not the kind of love that couples have with tissues, you treat him as a very close friend who can talk to his heart, you hope that you can continue to maintain a good friend relationship, but if the other party feels that it doesn't matter if you can't accept it, you will feel honored because you have had such a good friend.

I think after you show your heart to the boy like this, the boy will also try to understand your feelings, maybe he is willing to be a good friend with you again, so you will feel comfortable, maybe he feels like you can't continue to be friends with you after you confess, then I think it should be better than the harm you reluctantly agree to be his girlfriend to him, you may lose a friend because of this, but to a certain extent, you can avoid the embarrassment when you meet again.

Therefore, my advice is to meet a good friend who confesses to you, but you only have friendship between friends to this good friend, then the best way is to choose to tell the truth to the other person, and express it as tactfully as possible, not too bluntly, it will seem very hurtful.

Don't force your feelings because you are afraid of losing a friend, which will not only make you feel uncomfortable, but also bring a lot of harm to the other person.

In response to this situation, since you don't like it, you should clearly refuse, don't give the other party ambiguous hope, procrastination is not good for both parties, and you may at least be friends if you say it clearly.

Tell him clearly that you only want to be friends with him and have no other ideas. Don't let him have hope.

Actually, I think if he has already confessed to you, if you don't like him, reject him! But I think you might be friends, and it's unlikely that you would have it, because that would break the connection.