After more than half a year of marriage, my husband scolded me for being cheap at every turn

You are not worthy of being a man.

A husband who scolds himself and swears a woman is simply a bastard.

You shouldn't bear it, find a chance to talk to him about this matter, if you can't move, just find someone who can convince him.

If you really can't do it, just divide it, I hope he can realize that he is wrong.

This bad character of his, may have been gradually developed from childhood to adulthood, when you fell in love, didn't you find that he had such bad habits? If it is not found, it proves that he is well hidden.

After marriage, he felt that everyone's relationship was stable, no accidents would happen, and his true nature was slowly revealed.

Have you really looked for the right opportunity to talk to him? Let him understand that his character will seriously jeopardize everyone's hard-won marriage.

You can also help him gradually change this bad habit in life. In addition, you also have to self-reflect, in your life together, will you do something wrong, and you can take the initiative to admit your mistakes to him.

The quality of married life, most of the time, is actually in the hands of both parties.

If that's the case, you should talk to him well, because everyone has dignity, and women also have dignity, and such swear words can't appear on a man, especially a good man, if it appears, it means that this man will not be a good man, a man who will not take care of his own woman, and I have time to talk to you.

Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, I don't think so, modern women should not be afraid of these, marriage is just a marriage letter, what can it represent? On behalf of him, can he insult me? Scold me?

Or even hit me? If you don't get along, you can file for divorce, it's not a big deal, only let him lose, and he may think that you are the best.

Husband is like a spring, if you are weak, he will be strong, you should learn to resist, otherwise you will get divorced, what age is it.

There is no regret medicine in this world! Who made you choose him, I guess communication is not very useful! The best thing to do is to live apart for a while.

You're really cheap enough, otherwise you wouldn't marry such a man. Unlucky..

Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, it seems that there is nothing wrong with it.

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1. The psychology of inferiority: Don't look at many men who are very strong on the surface, but in fact, they are very unconfident or even inferior people inside. He scolds, beats and punishes people, but in fact it is a process of suppressing low self-esteem and building self-confidence, especially as the closest, most knowing, weakest and most defenseless person around him is his wife.

2. The embodiment of self-superiority: Of course, in addition to the inferiority complex mentioned above, men's superiority is sometimes very terrible. When a man is always accustomed to comparing himself with his wife, and can compare a little excellent, he is also easy to be paranoid in scolding his wife.

3. The psychology of revenge: more terrible than the psychology of superiority is the psychology of revenge, many men can show submissiveness before marriage, and they are obedient to you, but after marriage, they completely change as a person, which cannot rule out the possibility of revenge.

Maybe i's words and deeds make your husband feel disgusted, you should communicate well and change each other.

First of all, you can't express who is right and who is wrong, what is certain is that your husband has a violent sandbag and smashes a big bag.

If your husband doesn't love you, you can try the following:

Communication: Communicate openly with your husband, tell him about your feelings and concerns, try to understand his thoughts and feelings in order to find a better solution.

Encouragement: Encouraging him to try new hobbies, learn new skills and expand his social circle can improve his self-confidence and self-esteem, which can lead to more self-love.

Give support: Give him support and encouragement when he encounters difficulties or setbacks, help him find solutions to problems, and make him feel cared for and loved.

In addition to looking forward to the love of your husband, you should also learn to take care of yourself and love yourself, which can increase your self-confidence and self-esteem, so as to be happier and more satisfied.

Seek professional help: If your husband's problems are more serious, such as having a psychological disorder, you can seek help from a professional psychologist who can provide effective ** and advice.

If you've experienced domestic violence, here are some tips for coping:

Protect your own safety: Domestic violence is a crime, and the first thing is to protect your personal safety. If you feel in danger, you can try to flee the scene of violence and take refuge in a safe place by calling your local police on 110** for help.

Seek professional help: If you are unable to face this problem on your own, you can seek help and support from professional psychologists, lawyers, social workers, and other relevant institutions. They provide counselling, counselling and protection services to help you escape domestic violence.

Defend your rights: Victims of domestic violence have the right to protect their legal rights, including reporting to the police, applying for injunctions, filing for divorce, etc. It is necessary to understand the relevant legal provisions and protection measures to protect their legitimate rights and interests.

Do a good job of psychological adjustment: Domestic violence causes great harm to the physical and mental health of the victim, and psychological adjustment is required. You can seek the help of a professional cardiologist or social worker, or you can try some stress-relieving and relaxing activities such as yoga, meditation, reading, etc.

Remember that domestic violence is an act that should not be tolerated, and the victim should face it bravely, without blaming themselves or being afraid to ask for help, believing that you have the courage and wisdom to get through it and find your own happiness and safety.

Surely there is something wrong with him, and if you can't change him, you stay away.

It depends on whether it's your problem.

Reflect on yourself often.

Tell me the reason and let me judge it.

The woman may propose to the husband to dissolve the relationship between husband and wife on the grounds that her husband has been verbally abusing her for a long time, and the husband and wife who have divorced by agreement can go to the marriage registration office to go through the divorce formalities; or if the people's court files a lawsuit for divorce, and the people's court makes a judgment granting the divorce, the marriage relationship will be dissolved when the judgment takes effect. Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to no loss of affection; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

1. Find out your own reasons.

There is no such thing as a gratuity, it is best to ask your husband why he is always scolding, is it your problem or because of his mother's problem, or because of something else. Isn't it, when he wants to communicate with you, you ignore it. That's why he used this way of scolding to vent his anger!

If it's because of the mother's problem, such as bride price money or other rough things, etc., it's best for the two of them to sit down and talk about it, assuming that it really can't be solved, you can tell your husband that you are you, and your mother's family is your mother's family, as long as the stool allows the two of us to live a good life.

2. Separation. If you can't continue, you can try to separate first. Feel it again during the period of separation, if you really have no feelings, you can divorce by agreement or sue for divorce.

I suspect that the reason for the vicious circle of this incident may be because you care about your work, so you ignore his business, and even if he insults you, you will not return the favor, which is like the feeling of the other party punching and hitting the cotton ball.

How could he have stopped so easily? That's why I will keep scolding.

If you want to calm down, you should respond and learn to communicate. You should also know that at the beginning, the two got married because of their love for each other, and they would have feelings more or less, so it was better to sit down and communicate well.

If there is a problem with the tone and attitude of the two people, you can pay attention to your tone and attitude. If the man really deliberately scolds, he will see if there is a child, and if he has no children, he will divorce decisively, if he wants dignity. Because, why doesn't he scold his friends, why don't he scold the leaders?

Scolding you, because the price of scolding you is low, you can scold without thinking.

If it is really the man who deliberately scolds people and has a child, you can't let the man scold you in front of the child! Because, if it is a boy, he will be exposed to disrespect for girls, and it is more likely that he will scold his wife in the future. If it's a girl, you may feel that it's natural for a girl to be scolded!

You can only educate your children in the future, don't make friends with people who are in a bad mood! Marriage has to be the right person, at the very least, when it is reasonable, it is possible to listen.

Besides, you just got married, if it were me, I wouldn't live with him, it should have been sweet at first, if it was not good at the beginning, it won't be too good in the future, or even worse.

Maybe he has formed such a way of communication when he is growing up, so you don't have to be too sad and sad, because he is such a person, and you have not yet reached the level where he can get rid of this "bad problem" because of you; But if he is not a person who is "dirty", but because of the so-called small things in life, he can yell at you and say ugly things, then there is only one possibility, he doesn't love you so much, and he doesn't cherish you so much.

When we can't convince others to change, then we should improve ourselves first, and in this matter, more or less you have your own reasons, and you also said that your temper is not very good. When you become a better version of yourself, I believe that your husband will see it in his eyes, and it will also change, in short, if the two of them are bent on living a better life, the stumbling will always pass, who hasn't come over like this.

It is not right to scold people, in this humane and high-quality society. So try to convince people with reason, and hope that the rest of your life will be good to you.

This is because the company hides his true colors in love.

It was originally a state search for people who loved and cursed people.

After getting married, you will gradually show your original stupid face.

This is also the reason why you will really get to know a person after you get married.

The true nature is exposed!

This means that when you know him well enough to get married, you get a license with him.

He will also expose the shortcomings or vices of selling more and more fun, and you should be fully mentally prepared, including psychological preparations for divorce or preparations for the safety of your property.

Zen ruined the marriage, the husband loves to scold, this habit is not good for sleepiness, before marriage, I feel like a different person, right, this foot has been a habit for a long time, it's really bad, love to scold, it's really a bit too much!

Is it a problem of its own quality?