What it s like to fall out of love There will really be heartbreaking moments

When we fall out of love, we always ask, "How can I forget him?" I wanted to forget him, but I just couldn't.

If you can't forget him, don't forget him. Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him.

Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant. Excuse me, what do you have in mind? You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget. It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed. Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:

I've forgotten about him. However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself. One day, you'll forget about him.

True forgetting doesn't take effort. One day, you came out of the bathroom and took a shower, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered that you once loved someone, ah, it turned out that you loved this person, it seemed to be a very distant thing, and you didn't feel it at all. That's forgetting.

One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember. That's forgetting. What's the point of the lost years if time can't make you forget those you shouldn't?。。

If you really love, your heart will break.

<> "Heartbreak of Broken Love, Feel the Feeling of Have You Experienced It Too?"

Scientists have done an experiment.

Using instruments to scan the brains of people who have just broken up for a long time, scientists have found that whenever an observer sees or remembers something related to his ex, he or she will have all kinds of strong emotions from it. For example: angry, angry, nervous.

And the neurons connected to these emotions are highly overlapping with the neurons that people actually feel pain.

In other words, the "heartache" that people often say after a breakup is not a rhetorical thing, but a real physical pain. The heart hurts so much that our brains think we've been physically harmed, and the hormones secreted from this affect both your sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems until our body experiences immediate pain.

Difficulty breathing, chest pain, and lack of energy.

The above real heartbreak feelings, the medical term is "heartbreak syndrome", and the longer the last relationship, the more intense the painful feeling.

Because there are already thousands of neurons in your body that belong to him, it takes a long time for these neurons to fully accept the fact that he is gone after a breakup, and once you encounter something related to your ex, these undercover agents will still come out from time to time to make you uneasy.

Thousands of neurons in our body are completely forgotten, and it takes at least 3 months for a person to do so. So from a scientific point of view, time is indeed the best medicine for heartache, physical and emotional metabolism takes time, during this period you need to shift your attention, try not to stay a first-time person, participate in group activities more, find yourself again, as an independent individual in the crowd The most important thing is to tell yourself that the most important thing is to tell yourself that it is me who needs warmth the most at this time.

The most sad moment after falling out of love was the moment when she turned back and left without love.

Once a vow. This is the end of it. As if the previous ones were all mistakes

I was so heartbroken at that moment after falling out of love, I didn't dare to sleep, because I closed my eyes and thought about her with all I could think about, and I didn't eat well, and I felt that there was no hope for the whole world.

After falling out of love, the most sad thing is. All together. Liang Liang is reluctant to go to that end.

It's the other party who says that he has never loved, just playing. At that moment, not only sad, was collapsed!

It's not your fault that I didn't choose you, it's just that the time passing by is locked. The moment we met, it was a loss destined by fate.

I don't want to see the things you buy together, the places you eat together, and every place you go to together.

Seeing her laughing and playing with other boys, she didn't look sad at all.

It's his presence that still throbs in my heart, but he already has a woman by his side.

I can always catch a glimpse of him in the crowd, but I can't find it at a glance, just the outline of my heart. After you leave, everyone is you, and everyone is not you.

The most sad thing after falling out of love is that all the good and bad of the other party has nothing to do with you.

I have never fallen out of love, I have never experienced the bitterness of love...