At the age of 35, I don t have a girlfriend and I feel lonely.

Updated on society 2024-05-14
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's nothing. Calm. Me too. Striving to grasp the youth to struggle is more important than anything else. Feelings are such a thing, only looking for them while watching, relying on marriage, and not forcing them.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    35 years old no girlfriend I just want to ask you whether you don't want to find it or can't find it Is it because you are busy with your career Or if you can't find it Then I can only say Maybe you are too impractical I ask you what you have You only use your value in exchange for the value of another person who is equal to you If you are not very capable then you can only find a woman who lives a stable life and is good to her family and parents Isn't this exactly what most people hope for family harmony...If you don't want to look for it, then let me ask you, have you succeeded in your career, if not, then you should think about your parents, and your parents' wishes...You also have to think about your son, you are getting married now, and when your son gets married, you are almost 60, how much pressure can you share for your son, and when someone else's son gets married, the parents are tough, and they won't drag down your son

    Not much more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's mainly caused by your introverted personality. If you are a loner, others may think that you are withdrawn and difficult to get along with. It's not good for your work or for your personal problems.

    Let's do our part to make a difference. For example, expand your social circle, hang out with friends, make more friends of the opposite sex, and slowly let go. Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The most effective way is to become rich.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Find out why. Or maybe the fate hasn't arrived. Be patient.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't have a girlfriend at the age of 35, it can be said that you are destined to be single before the age of 35. But it cannot be said that you are destined to be lonely all your life. It can only be said that your fate has not yet arrived. Maybe you can get off the list after the Chinese New Year this year!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are 35 years old, you don't have a girlfriend yet, one is you, maybe because you are too busy with school and work, and you don't have time to do it, but this can't doom you to be lonely all your life, because looking for a girlfriend, this is also a matter of fate, it is two people who communicate and understand each other, can pull up, have common interests, and now in big cities are generally in their 30s before getting married, you have to believe in fate, find a like-minded person, and you have to understand yourself, is your character a little stubborn? When looking for a girlfriend, you have to have a magnanimous attitude, know how to take care of people and care about people, so that your girlfriend feels that you have a good sense of superiority and is a motivated boy. You are 35 years old, you don't have a girlfriend yet, one is you, maybe because you are too busy with school and work, and you don't have time to do it, but this can't doom you to be lonely all your life, because looking for a girlfriend, this is also a matter of fate, it is two people who communicate and understand each other, can pull up, have common interests, and now in big cities are generally in their 30s before getting married, you have to believe in fate, find a like-minded person, and you have to understand yourself, is your character a little stubborn?

    When looking for a girlfriend, you have to have a magnanimous attitude, know how to take care of people and care about people, so that your girlfriend feels that you have a good sense of superiority and is a motivated boy. You are 35 years old, you don't have a girlfriend yet, one is you, maybe because you are too busy with school and work, and you don't have time to do it, but this can't doom you to be lonely all your life, because looking for a girlfriend, this is also a matter of fate, it is two people who communicate and understand each other, can pull up, have common interests, and now in big cities are generally in their 30s before getting married, you have to believe in fate, find a like-minded person, and you have to understand yourself, is your character a little stubborn? When looking for a girlfriend, you have to have a magnanimous attitude, know how to take care of people and care about people, so that your girlfriend feels that you have a good sense of superiority and is a motivated boy.

    You are 35 years old, you don't have a girlfriend yet, one is you, maybe because you are too busy with school and work, and you don't have time to do it, but this can't doom you to be lonely all your life, because looking for a girlfriend, this is also a matter of fate, it is two people who communicate and understand each other, can pull up, have common interests, and now in big cities are generally in their 30s before getting married, you have to believe in fate, find a like-minded person, and you have to understand yourself, is your character a little stubborn? When looking for a girlfriend, you have to have a magnanimous attitude, know how to take care of people and care about people, so that your girlfriend feels that you have a good sense of superiority and is a motivated boy. You are 35 years old, you don't have a girlfriend yet, one is you, maybe because you are too busy with school and work, and you don't have time to do it, but this can't doom you to be lonely all your life, because looking for a girlfriend, this is also a matter of fate, it is two people who communicate and understand each other, can pull up, have common interests, and now in big cities are generally in their 30s before getting married, you have to believe in fate, find a like-minded person, and you have to understand yourself, is your character a little stubborn?

    When looking for a girlfriend, you have to have a magnanimous attitude, know how to take care of people and care about people, so that your girlfriend feels that you have a good sense of superiority and is a motivated boy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you don't have a girlfriend at the age of 35, you will definitely be destined to be lonely for the rest of your life. If a 35-year-old man does not have a girlfriend yet, it proves that he is not suitable for getting along with the opposite sex and has developed a habit of loneliness. Such a person, if a person of the opposite sex intrudes into his life, he must be wandering in his heart about how to get along with the other party, let alone think from the other party's point of view, and he does not know how to take care of the other party.

    The saddest thing is that if at the age of 35 he has been busy with his career, then he must be a workaholic.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    35-year-old does not have a girlfriend, if this situation is in the sixties and seventies of the last century, it is likely to be lonely for a lifetime, which is caused by the general environment at that time, but in the current environment, boys in the city in their thirties abound, and many people are almost thirty years old after graduation, so now, it is nothing to have a girlfriend at the age of 35.

    In addition, most modern people have more only children, and their ability to live independently is poor, and many have not matured until they are in their thirties, causing everyone to be reluctant to start a family too early.

    However, if you don't have a girlfriend at the age of 35, it is recommended that you don't need to rush to find a girlfriend, and make your career successful first.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Now there are a lot of people in this society who are 35 years old and don't have a girlfriend, not that you are destined to be single for life, maybe in 2020 your peach blossom luck is coming, and the girl who likes you will soon come to your side.

    I wish you all your wishes come true, your dreams come true, you get married and have children as soon as possible, and become a happy family.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Some people are late bloomers. Not having a girlfriend at the age of 35 can only mean that your previous career was not successful and your previous marriage did not come. But if you work hard, you will naturally become famous, and you will not be lonely for a lifetime.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't have a girlfriend at the age of thirty-five, will you be doomed to be lonely for the rest of your life? My answer is no, the key may be because your conditions are too harsh, or that your love and your fate have not yet come, I think maybe in a short time, you can find your girlfriend, or your lifelong partner, so you can't give up on yourself, you should be brave to move forward, after all, there must be a road in front of the car to the mountain, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village, I believe you, although you are 35 years old, but you will not be destined to be lonely all your life, unless you don't want to get married and have children in this life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    At the age of 35, there is no female yet.

    Friends are not destined to be lonely in this life, because people are now 30 years old, and there are many more who don't have girlfriends, and they don't have girlfriends for various reasons. Maybe your fate hasn't arrived yet, and you can't get rid of it. You work hard to improve yourself and don't worry about finding a girlfriend who suits you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The fate of people is a bit predestined

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe fate hasn't arrived, or maybe I haven't met the right one yet. At the age of 35, I don't have a girlfriend yet, I haven't met the right person yet, my fate hasn't arrived yet, I am not destined to be lonely all my life, and I won't be eliminated by the national society.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    35-year-old without a girlfriend will not be destined to be lonely for a lifetime, maybe, it's just that your fate has not arrived or you haven't met the right person until the fate is right, you will naturally find your life class, some people may start a family later, because some people may be 50 years old in 40 minutes, they will find the other half of their lives, some people may be three years earlier, and they may find their other half in their 20s, but just find it, and it does not mean that they will be together for a lifetime, I won't be sure I'm old. Or that person will be with him, or he may be lonely when he gets old, this is uncertain, it can only depend on everyone's fate and fate.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your question: 35 years old and no girlfriend yet, are you destined to be lonely and lonely for the rest of your life? No, because it's too late to get married now, he still hasn't met his soulmate, if he meets true love, they will definitely have a good girlfriend, so he will not be destined to be lonely all his life, he will have a good girlfriend with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Whether you have a girlfriend or not has nothing to do with the country.

    At the age of 35, you don't have a girlfriend, and you have been lonely all your life, and there is nothing directly related to what kind of person you are, is it possible for you to have a more compatible partner? It doesn't have much to do with your age, gender, or even your background, but a lot of people don't understand that.

    This has a lot to do with yourself, your outlook on life and values, your attitude towards life to reflect, give others a kind of something that belongs to you, this is the most important thing.

    If there is no such thing, even if you have a girlfriend and a family that seems to be quite happy according to secular standards, your own heart is still empty.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, there are still many people who don't have boyfriends and girlfriends at the age of 35, but it doesn't mean that they are destined to be lonely all their lives, because now everyone has to study and then work, so the age will lag behind a little bit. The key point is that your fate may not come.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    That's because you haven't met the right person yet, fate hasn't arrived yet, it's not destined to be lonely all your life, you still have a chance. You have to seize the opportunity, after all, the age is not young, lower your own requirements, find someone who really likes you, so that you can live the rest of your life happily. True love has not yet been met, and I think that as long as you have the right attitude, you will soon meet your true love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You are not destined to be lonely for the rest of your life.

    Maybe your marriage hasn't arrived before, maybe happiness will come knocking on the door soon.

    Be hopeful about life and appreciate yourself.

    Low self-esteem, giving up is not the partner of the strong.

    Be confident and strong, and you will usher in the dawn.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Oh! There is no "destined", it's just that fate has not arrived.

    In fact, you are also lucky that you were not "imprisoned" in the "siege" and were free for so many years.

    Don't worry, fate is coming, and no one can stop it. Girlfriend will have! 2020 may be your big year.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Not necessarily.

    There is no need to be pessimistic about the future of your marriage.

    Not necessarily.

    It could be for a variety of reasons.

    You're still single.

    Then please believe that the person who is suitable for you may also be waiting for you to work hard to improve yourself before he comes.

    Make yourself better, more mature, and more able to take care of yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it was a few decades ago, and you didn't have a girlfriend at the age of 35, you would probably be alone for a long time. However, it is common for people who do not have a girlfriend at the age of 35 now. You can't conclude that you are destined to live alone. It can only be said that the fate that belongs to you has not yet arrived!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    35 years old, no girlfriend yet, not destined to be lonely all his life, maybe fate has not arrived, this is not to worry about you will definitely meet a person you like and also like you, I wish you happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When looking for a girlfriend, you should not only look at fate, but also strive to seize opportunities.

    Now you may not have ...... fateDon't be in a hurry! Once you come across the right one, you should strive for ......I am sure that I can make my dream come true and pursue my ideal partner!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love is just the icing on the cake, and it's not a charcoal in the snow, it won't be good if you can't find it, and it's better to make a living if you can't find it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't be in a hurry, be the best version of yourself, it's not time yet, all the waiting and hard work now is to meet her better.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It doesn't matter, after the age of 40 you will get used to living alone.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, maybe fate hasn't arrived! ~

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You can live well on your own.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You're destined for it, and you haven't met it yet.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If it's ugly, forget it if it's ugly.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    A person's success is not said in that aspect alone. from careers and so on.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    1.In the face of pressure, the first thing to do is to recognize your own situation. If you are not married at the age of 35 and have no career plan, you may be under pressure from your surroundings and society.

    But that doesn't mean you have to live according to other people's expectations. You need to recognize your own situation and be clear about your goals and directions.

    2.Seek professional help and advice. If you are unsure about your career plan and life direction, you can seek professional help and advice.

    You can consult with career planners, psychologists and other professionals to understand your career strengths and weaknesses and clarify your career direction.

    3.Actively explore and experiment. The age of 35 does not mean the end of life, there are many opportunities and possibilities. You can try different careers and lifestyles, explore your interests and potential, and find your own positioning and value.

    4.Build good relationships. In the face of stress and difficulties, good interpersonal relationships can give you support and help. You can expand your social circle and establish good interpersonal relationships by participating in social activities and joining interest groups.

    5.Take care of your physical and mental health. Physical and mental health is very important when facing stress and difficulties. You can pay attention to your physical and mental health and maintain a good attitude and physique through exercise, relaxation and rest.

    To sum up, when you are not married at the age of 35 and have no career plan, you need to recognize your own situation, seek professional help and advice, actively explore and try, establish good interpersonal relationships, and pay attention to your physical and mental health. In the face of pressure from the surrounding and social pressures, we need to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and we believe that we have the ability and opportunity to create a better life.

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