Please help me with the emotional family thing

I can only say my opinion according to what the landlord expressed, and I don't know anything else, although you awarded it to my father, but the fact that the child support is my mother, does my father give you child support? Secondly, the house matter, in the end, your mother refunded half of the money to your father, or in the name of your schooling, the money was all given to you, in fact, I just want to know if your father has a sense of responsibility for you.

In fact, this year is really not suitable to go back for the New Year, just when this kind of thing happens, your mother will definitely not agree, if you know that you ran secretly, will your mother feel that people all over the world are sorry for her, after all, you are the center of her world. But you miss your grandparents, so it is recommended that you go to see the two old people before the Chinese New Year, but spend it with your mother during the New Year. As for seeing if they discuss it with your mother before the Chinese New Year, you can explore it first.

Try not to hurt your mother, because it is your mother who has been paying for you, even if you are divorced, even if you give it to your father. She is also taking care of you, spending money to raise a child and taking care of a child yourself are definitely two different concepts.

It's a must-see, right? It's just a question of how to face mom.

1, cut first and then play, that is, go to see it first, and then come back and tell your mother about it.

2. Tell your mother that you have grown up, you are going to be independent, you know how to do it, and you will go after you have discussed.

You can talk to your mother and tell her that a person who is always full of hatred in her heart is not good for herself, that people should not be too narrow-minded, that there is not always too much resentment and blame, and that if you are also infected by her, too many negative emotions will have a very serious impact on your future life. No matter how hard a mother pays, she must not teach her children to hate, and if she has too much hatred in her heart, she will not be happy.

It's okay to say New Year's greetings. But don't stay long. It's just a simple meaning. If the second elder still likes you from the bottom of his heart. Then you can still communicate more. How the events of the previous generation affect the next generation.

You are a kind girl, although your parents are divorced, but they are your dearest people after all. Let's discuss it with my mother, get her approval, and go to celebrate the New Year with my grandparents. Otherwise, maybe in the future you will regret your decision.

Use blood relationship, family affection, and filial piety to convince her that it's okay, don't be afraid.

Go see your grandpa and grandma and don't let your mom know. Otherwise, he will be angry. Love both ends, it's just hard for you! It is very difficult to change the problems left over from history.