The matter of marriage is the same thing as getting married

You've been with your girlfriend for five years, and your relationship must be good. I hope that when you encounter such a thing, you don't have to worry, you are unbelievable about her parents' affairs now, but with your relationship with your girlfriend, there should be a solution.

The more this time, the more you have to be calm, you must communicate more with your girlfriend, after all, you have been together for five years. It can be said that the feelings are deep and there is nothing to talk about. You have to find out from your girlfriend why her parents have this attitude.

When you communicate with your girlfriend, it's not too late for your parents to come forward. I think her parents may have had a problem with money and material things or a bride price. The reason why her parents didn't know what they were talking about was what they thought.

I hope that you can solve this problem, so as to avoid making trouble for your family at present, and wait for you and your girlfriend to figure out the problem, and then let your family come forward.

If you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, you have to solve the pressure of your family by yourself, don't escalate this pressure to your relationship. The reason for the prevarication, the two of you have a good talk in private.

Communicate well with her family, there must be something wrong, what is the use of you in a hurry, you can't solve the problem.

The two families find a time to sit down and have a good chat, and there is always a way to solve things.

After all, marrying a daughter is also a big deal.

Have a good chat with your girlfriend first, maybe there is something hidden in it, first figure out the original situation of the matter, and then discuss, don't be blindly impulsive.

Are you stupid???

You take her home and then you take her belly.

Do you know???

Will her family disagree???

When the time comes, take your son back and see what her mother says!

Getting engaged is not setting a date for marriage.

Engagement means that both men and women have to make a marriage contract, and announce to the parents and friends of both parties that they are about to enter the wedding hall, which is a confirmation of the relationship between the two parties and is also to get the approval of each parent. At the time of engagement, most of the two families will draw up a few suitable wedding dates, but they generally do not decide on the spot, and then they need to carefully calculate the auspicious date with the newlyweds' birthday.

Marriage is usually a man to the woman's house, when you need to bring tobacco and alcohol, pork, fruit filling and clothes for the woman, etc., in order to be festive and auspicious, the gifts are even, depending on the economic situation. Under normal circumstances, there are two cigarettes, two bottles of wine, and there are also four cigarettes and four bottles of wine; pork is 4 catties, and there are also 6 catties and 8 catties; The fruit filling usually comes with 24 pieces, and there are also 48 pieces. Of course, if you bring more, you will be called rich and generous by everyone; If you bring less, you will naturally be seen as poor and stingy.

Something that is going to be prepared by Yun Tong for engagement

1. Retainer. The amount of the bride price is generally determined according to the economic level and customs of each region, but most parents will choose an auspicious number.

2. Jewelry. First of all, there are three golds, and some regions will require hardware, which is determined according to the man's economic situation. Secondly, an engagement ring is also indispensable and represents a commitment.

But if the man has proposed before and put on an engagement ring for the woman, then the engagement ring can be bought again and the meaning is the same.

3. Dowry. Cigarettes, wine, tea, sugar, these must be double, as well as cakes, fruits, fish, meat, etc., all gifts must be wrapped with red thread or red paper, festive and auspicious.

4. Relatives and friends.

When getting engaged, the man should bring 6, 8 or 10 relatives and friends to the woman's house, reflecting the importance that the man attaches to the engagement.

The differences are as follows:1. The purpose is different: the marriage proposal is that the man brings gifts to the woman's house to express his desire to marry their daughter, and under normal circumstances, the man's parents go to the woman's home with him to express the idea of marriage to the woman's parents, and it is also a formal occasion for the parents of both parties to meet.

Engagement is the finalization of the marriage, that is, the marriage contract between the man and the woman, which is the prelude to marriage.

2. The process is different: the proposal is relatively simple, and the families of both men and women discuss marriage matters and understand each other. The gifts that the man brings when he proposes marriage are also relatively simple, usually some souvenirs, such as tea gift boxes, fruits, etc.

Engagement is more complicated, requiring engagement ceremonies, engagement banquets, etc. At the same time, the man should be slightly more expensive in preparing gifts to show the man's sincerity. Generally, in an engagement, the man will prepare a dowry, a bride price, and an engagement ring, while the woman will return the favor according to custom.

3. The link is different: the proposal is a step before the engagement, and it is also the first official meeting between the parents of both parties, mainly because the man expresses his willingness to marry the woman. Engagement is an important process before marriage, and it is also a ceremony for both men and women to enter into a marriage engagement.

Generally speaking, a man and a woman will get along for a while and then rush to the palace of marriage. Whether it is a proposal or an engagement, it is an important part of the pre-marriage process, so it should not be ignored.

1. Marriage. Confinement is a marriage contract entered into orally or in writing by the parties whose physical condition, working capacity or professional conditions are equal or recognized. In many parts of China, there is still such a marriage custom, and the marriage is usually a man to a woman's house, and when he goes, he needs to bring his ID card, gifts, gifts, etc.

In ancient China, weddings were the three types of "six rites", such as Naji, Nazheng and invitation.

2. Engagement. Betrothal, also known as marriage contract, according to Chinese folk customs, usually precedes marriage with an engagement ceremony: making a marriage letter, exchanging gifts, or setting up a matchmaker, etc.

However, according to the current laws of our country, engagement is not a necessary procedure before marriage, and a marriage without engagement does not lose the validity of its marriage.

To sum up, getting married is getting engaged, it's the same thing, it's just that the saying is different. Betrothal is mostly used in ancient sayings, and engagement is a modern saying. In addition, it is possible to get married first, and then get engaged, and hold an engagement wedding.

Engagement and engagement are the same thing, but different words mean the same thing.

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Engagement and engagement are the same meaning. Generally speaking, the marriage is that the woman agrees to your marriage proposal, and the woman's parents agree to marry their daughter, and then start to arrange everything, tell all relatives and friends, and announce the relationship between your man and the woman. An engagement is a ceremony for two people, and it is also the correct determination of marriage, and the registration of wine is put on the agenda.

A few characteristics of the engagement:

1. The conclusion of the marriage contract shall not be effective, otherwise it will not have legal effect; In other words, a marriage contract can only be formed if both the man and the woman agree with each other.

2. Only those who have the legal ability to engage in engagement can engage in engagement. The legal definition of betrothal capacity is based on age: a man is 17 years old and a woman is 15 years old.

If a marriage contract is entered into in violation of this provision, the marriage contract is not invalid, but the parties or legal persons may apply to the court for revocation. Because, for minors under the age of 20, their marriage contract must be approved by the legal person.

3. The marriage contract shall not be enforced. The marriage contract should be observed, but it should also be in accordance with the wishes of both the man and the woman. If one of the parties is unable to perform, it cannot be enforced.

Parents on both sides get together for a meal and explain the matter.

Both parents meet and eat.

Discuss marriage.

The difference between an engagement and a tie getter:

1. The ceremony is different.

Engagement is actually the most traditional marriage custom in our country, the man and woman will hold an engagement ceremony at a certain time, in which the two parties will make a marriage book, exchange engagement gifts, choose an auspicious day for marriage, and so on. However, engagement is only a process in folk customs, but it is not a necessary process for marriage in modern society. Young people who are not engaged are also able to get a marriage license and have a grand wedding.

2. The betrothal relationship is not protected by law.

Although the two links of engagement and marriage are only one word apart, the meaning of the two links is completely different. Although they will be married in the near future after the engagement, they will not be protected by the law at this time, and the state will only have the effect of protecting the marriage after the parties have registered their marriage with the Civil Affairs Bureau.

3. Marriage is subject to the law.

During the period of engagement, if one of the couples breaks up the relationship for some reason, then both parties do not have to bear any legal costs. However, if the marriage is broken down due to the wrong actions of one of the parties, then the strong and powerful legal protection of the state will definitely stand on the right side and administer justice for it.

If you ruin the stupid grinding fruit, my help to you, remember to light it up, thank you!

Marriage is a wedding and a family wine, or relatives sit together at a family banquet, if it is said that the wedding wine is the time to put the family book and officially get married, it is different. When the marriage was decided, it was not said that it was going to be married, and it was only when the banquet was set up when the marriage was married.

After the man's family Bu Heng took it, he would not directly let you get engaged under normal circumstances, and the two parties would be engaged only after they had to discuss it.

There is a matchmaker, and in general, it is the matchmaker who pulls the line to talk and talk about the specific engagement steps.

No, no one, two people are in love freely, Dou Gai can call the parents of both parties to sit together, chat, see when they are engaged, when they will get married after the engagement, and then discuss.

After the man's family takes you over, it will be married, not married. The correct way to get married is like this, first of all, your boyfriend's family sends the dowry to your home, and then you go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate, and then you set the time for the banquet at the woman's house and the man's house, after the woman's family has done the banquet, the man will pick up the kiss the next day, take the girl to the man's house, and carry out the marriage ceremony, which is the wedding spine.

The normal engagement customs of Nongjingbu Village are as follows.

First of all, the parents first agree, and then the children carry out a period of communication and running-in, and finally the man's parents give the bride price to the woman through the matchmaker, and then set some specific days to hold the marriage.

Before getting married, it must be a blind date first, and then the two people are in a period of time to get married, and after the marriage, the man finds a specific date, and then the two waiters bend each other to talk to each other during the New Year's Day and take a look at each other's homes, and finally they can get married.

The steps are to get married first, and then get married, after the men and women confirm the relationship between the good feelings and boyfriend and girlfriend, the family meets or celebrates the elders and agrees, you can get married, after the engagement ceremony, see whether to quickly find a day to get married or let both parties get married after a year or two, depending on what young people think, of course, there are also those who are not engaged, and those who get married directly, no matter what, the most important thing is that the two people communicate well and live a good life.

If it is said to be married, Yiling thinks carefully and wants to determine it before marriage, then the cover is engagement, and the marriage after the engagement is not rented, and there are times in the back, which is negotiated with both parties through the introducer, because if it is to take all the things in the marriage at the time of the engagement, at this time to get married, maybe the south will note some things in the south of the house, all the things have been engaged at the time, the woman has already taken them, which needs to be respected by the woman to produce these things.

If both parties are interested, then the parents of both parties will be able to know each other and go to each other's homes to understand each other. However, after talking about selling eggplants, choose a suitable day to set a marriage, and when you set a marriage, you will receive close relatives and friends of both parties, and you will give a part of the bride price. After the marriage is decided, the wedding will be completed on the day of marriage.

According to local customs, some places are engaged first, and then make a good day and auspicious day to hold a wedding, we are there to first meet the in-laws, and then choose a rough day to get married stupidly, book a hotel, designate a wedding card, happy sugar, and then on the wedding day, the team set off early to go to the bride's house, pick up the bride or the town to arrive before 12 o'clock, and hold the wedding.

Our northern custom is called the string gate, that is, before the formal wedding, the woman goes to the man's house for the first formal visit, generally the parents of both sides talk about the bride price and marriage, to rent and rent the house, gold and silver jewelry, household appliances, cars and these disadvantages of the problem. Proof that the parties have agreed, usually half a year before the official marriage. The ceremony is much simpler than getting married, usually the parents and relatives of both parties are present, set up a few tables, have a meal, my engaged mother-in-law gave a ring, and my boyfriend gave a ring.

Then there is the south to the woman's house, that is, the woman's family presides over the banquet, will invite the woman's relatives, friends, classmates, etc., and the south is generally attended by parents and herself.

Under normal circumstances, it is the two families who are engaged to Xun Youheng, basically the woman goes to the man's house, and the two acres of adults sit together for a meal to tell the lead, first make the marriage down, and then discuss a date, and then hold the wedding.

The man takes it, the girl looks at the family conditions, and then the man takes the bride price to get engaged, buy gold rings, etc.!

Then choose a date to get married!

I don't know what other places are like, only God knows the local engagement, make sure to set it and then look at the date, the engagement is on the day of the man to pick up the woman (and a few family members) to his house, he will set up a banquet at home, and then take the woman to call people one by one, people will give red envelopes, and then send the woman home, the man will bring the gift money and the promising wedding day three gold and other things to the woman's house.