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Yes, sometimes, at least single people will not be entangled in whether to choose love or dreams every day because of the differences in their dreams; When you are single, you are alone, open your heart and make more friends without being constrained; You can do what you want to do without thinking about it so much, and you don't have to worry about whether the other person will be unhappy; When you are alone, let yourself toss your own room, and don't think about whether the other person will blame you for not knowing how to clean; I won't be entangled in what to eat for dinner, I can eat if I want to, and I won't eat if I don't want to; No more chattering over little things.
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I've also thought about this question, it's actually mutual, there are advantages and disadvantages to being single, and one of the benefits is freedom. As for the disadvantage, I feel that a person's words will have no psychological support, and if there is a major incident (I don't want my parents to worry), no one will consult, and I will be psychologically wronged. And no one is going to let you scold like a boyfriend.
Although two people will encounter many problems together, this is the stage that every love must go through, and it cannot be solved by escaping. You can imagine a person walking aimlessly on the road and seeing the loving appearance of couples, what would you do at that time? I was very sad and then very jealous.
So if you can double or don't single it's better. You have to know how many men and women are left now.
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Hehe, if you want me to say it, it's good to be single, and it's okay to be 2 people. It is good to be single and 2 to be single. In this world, there is giving and giving. You want to get it and you lose it. You lose and you gain. It's all about what you get or what you lose.
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At least there are fewer emotional problems... Don't bother.
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Less bickering, more loneliness. ,
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An invincible state in which one person is fed and the whole family is not hungry.
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I think so . . . It's good to be alone.
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Many people say that there is only one trouble with being single, yes, there is nothing wrong with being single, and that is to end being single. And it is not wrong to have countless troubles after ending singleness, because when we end being single, we will quarrel because of differences in the living habits, hobbies, interests, personalities, family, friends, etc. of the two people, resulting in countless troubles.
There is only one trouble with being single, and that is that there is no object. After all, when you are single, you can go to ** if you want to, when you don't want to work, then you can ask for leave directly, and if you see that the boss is unhappy, then leave directly, too much is a comfort. However, when you are single, you will be urged by relatives, parents and other elders and the experience of ridicule from friends, which will cause the troubles of single friends, that is, the only trouble, that is, there is no object!
And after the end of singleness, there is more than one trouble, although relatives and friends will not urge you to find friends, but will ask your object about the situation, if the situation is good, let your object take them, and if the situation is bad, they will find an opportunity to ridicule you, this is a trouble; It is a trouble for two people to live together and not earn enough money, and it is also a trouble to earn more if you earn more; When two people are going to get married, the bride price, the car and the house are all troubles; When two people have children, the child's food and clothing needs to be considered by two people, which is also a trouble; When the elderly on both sides are sick, they need to be taken care of and need a lot of money, which is also an annoyance. There are too many such troubles, so there is more than one trouble after marriage.
In general, two people together may be troubled by such and such things, after all, the road of life is very long, when two people face all kinds of troubles together, they need to work together to solve their troubles calmly, not to be self-centered but to two people as the center, not only to consider themselves but also to consider the other half, so that two people will be together for a long time, happy.
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Personally, I think it's because when you have an object, you're troubled by the restriction of your freedom, and when you don't have an object, you're worried about a lot of trivial things in life.
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Because after the end of singleness, you will find that you will face a lot of problems, and your life is not so good, not as perfect as you imagined.
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Because after the end, you will encounter a lot of things, and you will have a lot of problems in your heart, so this kind of thought will appear.
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When you end up single and have someone you like, you may encounter a lot of emotional problems every day, so there will be a lot of troubles.
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There are no love troubles, family lock-up troubles. I think it's good to be single because I see a lot of things going on after the people around me get married. These things made my friend physically and mentally haggard, and it was originally because of love that he went to marriage, but because of marriage, he became more unhappy.
From time to time, he would envy my single life.
When you are single, you can do whatever you want. You can spend your own money when you make money, and even if you can't afford it, you can save for a few months, and you can buy what you want. There is no need to think about the other party in terms of time, there is no need to be reciprocal, waiting for the other party to come back.
A person doesn't hate himself, he reads books when he's bored, chases dramas, and watches movies alone, which is good, and I often do these things alone. Sometimes I don't even want to make friends, I don't want to be angry with anyone, and I'm the kind of person who likes to hold things in my heart, so I don't like that feeling very much. But I can't resist the joy that my friends bring me.
So my heart is contradictory.
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Life is monotonous, lack of companionship is more lonely.
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<> recent years, many people will feel that more and more people are single, and the number of people who are married is gradually declining. Is this trend really there? We can approach this question from the following aspects.
1. Data analysis.
According to the National Bureau of Statistics, the marital status in our country has indeed changed in recent years. In 2019, the marriage rate in our country decreased compared to 2018. At the same time, the divorce rate is also rising, and the divorce rate in 2019 is higher than in 2018.
These data show that the marital status of the defense in our country is changing, and the number of single people is indeed gradually increasing.
2. Social background.
There are many reasons for the increase in the number of single people, but one of the important reasons is the transformation of modern society. With the progress and development of society, people's lifestyles, concepts and values are also constantly changing. For example, modern women are becoming more and more independent, and they are more willing to pursue their own careers to ease their interests; In addition, the economic situation is also one of the factors affecting the marital status, with the development of the economy, the economic pressure on young people will become more and more great, and problems such as buying a house have also become one of the constraints of marital status.
3. Psychological pressure.
Being single is not a bad thing, but in the minds of some, being single is still seen as a "flaw" or "incomplete." Sometimes, the social values of marriage and family are overemphasized, making some people feel lonely and isolated when they are single. This psychological pressure to be single can make it more difficult for many people to find a romantic partner, and it may also cause them to stay single for longer.
To sum up, there are indeed more and more people who are single. While there are some objective reasons for this trend, we also need to recognize that being single does not equal failure and should not be overemphasized. On the contrary, being single allows people to have more choices and freedom, which is also a state of life worthy of respect.
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Nowadays, young people, especially those living in first-tier cities, have the lowest demand for love compared to other needs. They have no basic living security, no skills, and dare not fall in love easily.
This is actually a very real problem, and it is not so hypocritical, what is not hopeful about love, does not believe in love, is not a reason not to fall in love. The real reason for this is that most young people nowadays have a much lower desire for love than their ambition for a career, both men and women.
In fact, most people do not have any desire for love, nor do they lack the courage to pursue the opposite sex, but they are worried about having a fruitless relationship. In fact, everyone understands a truth: if you spend all your time and energy on self-improvement in love, the benefits you will get are far greater than that of love.
Because as long as you enter the love book empty love relationship, you must pay a certain amount of time, energy and money, and you will invest a lot of sunk costs, of course, you can go smoothly to the end, then it is the best, in case you talk about it for one or two years or even three or five years, and break up, then not only delay the development of your career, but also make yourself older and miss some good opportunities.
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People who actively choose to be single can have a variety of reasons and characteristics, and here are some common types:
1.Independent: This type of person pays more attention to his career and life, is usually very self-reliant, and does not like to be constrained and restricted. They believe that being single can make them more free and independent.
2.Self-development: This type of person is more focused on self-development and growth, and usually puts more time and energy into learning and improving themselves. They believe that being single allows them to focus more on self-development and achieve their ideals and goals.
3.Spiritual freedom: This type of person usually pays more attention to spiritual freedom than Zixiang, and they like to be alone and enjoy their time and space. They believe that being single allows them to be more spiritually free and not bound by romantic relationships.
4.Higher concept of love: This type of person pays more attention to the purity and ideals of the relationship, and they want to be able to find a true soul mate, rather than falling in love for the sake of falling in love.
They believe that being single allows them to focus more on finding a true partner without having to be distracted by other aspects.
In short, people who actively choose to be single may have different characteristics and reasons, but what they have in common is that they are more independent, focus on self-development and growth, and pursue spiritual freedom and idealized love concepts.
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When you get married, have children, become a housewife, and experience the "bitterness" of life, sometimes you have paid hard, and in the end only you are moved. More and more people think that it is good to be single, precisely because their hearts are gradually becoming stronger, and you are the real self when you are no longer attached to others and live. In today's society, the marriage rate is declining, the divorce rate is rising, and more and more people choose to be single, and they can run their single days colorfully, which shows that fewer people are getting married for the sake of marriage, and people pay more attention to their true feelings.
It's like I have some friends around me, they read books, travel, exercise, bake, take the initiative to socialize, buy flowers from time to time to please themselves, and periodically add small items to the family, but they are single. Some of them are already in their third year, but they have not chosen to find someone to make do with because of their age. You say that they are asking too much, but I think it is a good thing to have requirements, which proves that they are responsible for their own choices and responsible for others.
In my opinion, people who are able to confidently and calmly say "It's good to be single" are spiritually satisfied.
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