Why do you like it more and more you want to dodge, and why do you like it?

I met in online games, and I often fight monsters together and chatTalking I don't know how to like him anymore. One time I plucked up the courage to tell him and he said I was too young

Maybe it's impulsive, it's been 1 month now, I still like him very much, he thinks a lot more than me, we are in different cities, he is very introverted and doesn't talk much, he doesn't like me to always mention the problem between him and me, just say it for a while, I don't understand whether he likes me to think about me or in indirect refusal, often text contact, but he never takes the initiative to call ** and send messages, once I didn't get him for two days, and then at 11 o'clock in the evening he called ** to say miss me, I really don't understand What kind of attitude does he have towards me, please help me analyze it, please.

He is 9 years older than me, and if he liked me, I think I would be desperate to overcome all the difficultiesI want to overcome difficulties with the people I like, and it's also a kind of happiness.

He's always worried that I'm going to regret it, or that I'm going to fight and get angry when I'm with him, and I'm going to worry about being homesick and I'm going to find out that I'm not what I thought I would be with him.

But I never thought about what we would be like when we were together, why should I think about what would happen after we were together, what I always thought about was that if I liked someone, I wouldn't be calling for shortcomings, and he always said, "I'm like a child, but I'm really not 20 years old."

Do I really fall in love with him now, I used to be a person who didn't know what trouble was.

But now I'm so confused, I can't laugh at funny things, I can't eat well, I can't sleep well, I'm always thinking about him.

Help me analyze whether I'm really in love with him.

Question addendum: I'll be happy for days when he sends me a message Do I really fall in love with him?

Why do you say dodge?

I don't think so, because I like to always look at him from time to time, and when my eyes collide inadvertently, I will immediately avoid it, but in my heart.

Sweet. The corners of his mouth will rise inadvertently, and when he has the opportunity to speak, he doesn't dare to touch her gaze, because he is afraid that he will be able to see through his heart, but he is very contradictory to look at his eyes, and there will be a lot of little rabbits jumping in his heart, and he will feel satisfied.

But the deeper the feeling I like, the more I want to escape, because I'm afraid!

I'm afraid that he will refuse, I'm afraid that I won't even be able to be a friend in the future, I'm afraid that I won't be able to watch him silently in the future, I'm afraid that he will be hurt because of this, I just want to keep him quietly in my heart, and the slow argument has become evasive

In fact, you should learn to respect his privacy.

In fact, you have to know that in many cases, no matter how close people are, they should keep a little bit of their privacy, which is a little secret of their inner world that they don't want others to see or know.

When people get along, it is also necessary to pay attention to a perfect distance, for example, the ** ratio mentioned before is also applicable to the distance between people.

It is also true that distance produces beauty and simplicity.

Sometimes it's not a question of whether your friend's relationship is good or not, I think the content of your good friend's phone at this time may be the topic of some secret discussion between him and his girlfriend, which is not suitable for you to see, or it may be his work matter, he doesn't want you to interfere too much, it may be a problem of his family, he doesn't want you to worry too much, etc.

In fact, including the relationship between friends, husband and wife or the relationship between relatives and children are the same, we must learn to leave a certain amount of privacy space for each other, which is beneficial to others and to ourselves.

When two people get too close, they will inadvertently expose the shortcomings of both parties to each other, which is sometimes not a good thing, and will accelerate the relationship between two people to the end, because it is likely that they will not tolerate those shortcomings in each other.