My boyfriend is younger than me. The more we get along, the more I find out his immaturity and vario

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think as a man, you should be more mature, at least take care of your girlfriend, give her support and warmth.

    Here's an article titled "Twelve Things Women Will Never Know> which may be of some help to you.

    1. Women never know why men should learn to be strong?

    Because they themselves know. They are strong on the outside. But the heart is fragile. They always want to make her feel like the best around them.

    2. Women never know why men don't shed tears easily?

    Because they themselves know. It's not that they don't shed tears. It's just that he understands. Once the tears fell. This relationship is over.

    3. Women never know why men like to smoke so much every time they are upset?

    Because they themselves know. Only in the smoke can they recall their good old days and seek a little balance in their hearts.

    4. Women never know why men will shush her after a breakup?

    Because they themselves know. They don't want to be friends with you. just wants to redeem this relationship that once belonged to him.

    5. Women never know why men are so crazy every time they hear that she is being bullied?

    Because they themselves know. Even if the fight is lost. Lay down. He will also be happy. Because they'd rather be hurt themselves. I don't want to see you cry either.

    6. Women never know why men get drunk every night after a breakup?

    Because they know. If you don't anesthetize yourself tonight. Then tonight can only be spent in thoughts.

    7.Women never know why men are so generous every time they go out?

    Because they know. They would rather be alone to save their own food and inspection. I don't want you to see you looked down upon by others.

    8.A woman never knows why a man loves to lose his temper with her so much?

    Because they themselves know. Losing your temper with her is not that you don't love her. I just hope that she will not be deceived by others on the road ahead.

    9.Women never know why men care so much about your former boyfriend?

    Because they themselves know. It's not that they're not confident. It's just that they're afraid that one day you'll leave him.

    10.Women never know why men listen to you so calmly after reading the diary you wrote for someone else?

    Because they themselves know. It's not that I don't want to get angry. I just hope to know from your mouth whether he is important or someone else's is important?

    11. Women never know why men don't say a word to her I love you?

    Because they know. It's not that I don't want to say it. It's just that they themselves understand. Ten thousand words I love you are not enough to use on your body.

    12.Women never know why men come here to post?

    Because they know. Hopefully one day this post will be seen by you. Use this as proof that you don't understand him.

    Only he understands it in his heart. If no one responds to this post. Soon it will be gone.

    You don't know that a man's happy life is not easy to come by, and that's because he has topped every post he has read.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Ay... Why do people nowadays break up at every turn?

    Why not work together?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In other words, there are many kinds of immaturity. Some immaturity is just a lack of life experience, and it will get better with a lot of polishing. Poor housework, confusion about the way out in the future, wanting to love but not knowing how to love, poor communication when getting along with girlfriends, such immaturity can be gradually dealt with through running-in.

    Some are immature, to put it bluntly, either they have different views, or they are the guise of character defects, which cannot be changed in a lifetime. Isn't that negative energy sentence a good one, it's not that you're immature, it's that you're mature and that's it. It's about some people.

    Regarding the former, I measure whether I am willing to grow up with him (about me, if I love him, it is 10,000 willing); Regarding the latter, the sooner they separate, the better. To put it bluntly, the most important thing is to know people's talents, and lack of enough love. Think about it myself.

    Maybe this man is a potential stock who can go from immaturity to maturity. Maybe this man is so naïve, like a child all his life. Because you provide too little information about your boyfriend, if I can reach out, I can basically help you determine whether this man has potential.

    But it doesn't need anymore.

    It's just that I want to say that if your love needs to be told that you can do it, you will continue to do it. Then don't want this love. Because, love never exists for the sake of third-party advice. He belongs only to you alone, to your inner feelings.

    Each of us is emotionally weak, and when you feel that your boyfriend is not mature enough, he must also feel that you are not paying enough. Many times, the choice before you is not whether I should continue or leave. When you see the essence, you can find the solution.

    I think if this guy is willing to change, then really everything is easy to say. If he really loves you, I believe he will work hard, from the initial clumsiness, in the slow polishing experience, to become sleek, gentle, no longer say the wrong thing, no longer tolerate you to be angry, learn to consider reality, and finally become your ideal person.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The boyfriend is not very mature, in fact, in this case, if you love him very much, you can still wait for him to grow up. But if you can't wait for him to grow up, or you don't have any faith in him anymore. It is understandable to choose to break up at this time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your boyfriend is not very mature, should you choose to break up or wait for him to grow up, this kind of need for you to make your own decisions, and immature boys may be more difficult together, but you have to cultivate interestingly, it is possible that the other party is a treasure.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't particularly like and love your boyfriend, it's better to break up, because it will definitely take a long time for him to grow up, and you will definitely not be happy and happy with her during this period of time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your boyfriend's immaturity is due to the fact that you have not guided him properly, you can communicate more with him so that he can change himself. You shouldn't just choose to break up, you should give him a chance to change.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The decision of these two choices is in your own hands, if you feel that the other party has a lot of room for growth, the other party is also working hard to grow, and the character is also good, you don't want to miss it like this, then you can be more patient and wait for him to grow, if the other party does not seek to be motivated or is poor in the world, then breaking up will be a better choice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think a person's maturity is completed by a total of one or two years, as long as you go through the ups and downs with him in love, she will become mature, so there is no need to choose to break up, and wait for him to mature before being together, because this is very irrational.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your boyfriend is not very mature, I think you should still choose to break up, after all, when you grow up, this is still a very long process.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Both. Where is there no grass at the end of the world? The process of waiting for him to mature is too long. There is no need.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you grow up with him like this kind of immature boy, when he grows up, he thinks you are a special person, that is, he thinks you have seen his well, when he is down, so at this time, he will not be grateful to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    To be honest, it's not very mature to be honest with a boyfriend, and in itself, I think I should choose to break up, but I think I can give him a chance to grow up, and grow up slowly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your boyfriend is not very mature, should you choose to break up or wait for him to grow, I think don't break up first, you can accompany him to grow up, or tell him what to do, and teach him to grow.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Boys have a growth process, boys of the same age are not as mature as girls, but after a long time, after a lot of experience, he will also learn to grow, people are not afraid of immaturity is afraid that they will not change.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is best to wait for the other person to grow, if two people are emotional, and the other person is willing to change for you, you can wait for the other person to grow.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's okay to wait if your boyfriend isn't mature, don't change your boyfriend easily, it may not be so good if you change something else.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your boyfriend is not very mature, I think he should wait for him to grow up slowly, and break up now, I think it is unfair to him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In my opinion, whether to break up or not depends on two aspects. On the one hand, whether you are willing to wait for the boy to grow up - in other words, whether the subject is in love with the boy. If you want, maybe this boy will be able to do it after he matures.

    On the other hand, whether the boy has an attitude that is willing to change.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    See if you can wait until he matures. If it is difficult for you to grow up with him, then just choose to break up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you really love your boyfriend. That personal suggestion is that you still need to give him some room to grow. Try to make him what you like.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think we should break up decisively, because when he grows up and matures, the person he is loving is not necessarily you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Are you waiting for him to grow up, are you waiting, he has been mentally immature since he was a child, and growing up with him is his parents and family, how to accompany lovers, and they are all big men, and they are not mature when they reach the age when they can fall in love, that is not big, just that character.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think your boyfriend is very mature, I think you can take your time to get in touch with him, and if he doesn't change all the time, then you can break up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    With the extension of time and the increase of age, he will slowly become mature, and besides, the more things a person has experienced, he will naturally mature, so as long as he feels that he is okay in other aspects, he can continue to socialize.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The price you will pay for him to grow up is a bit big, so it is recommended not to do so, what if he grows up but doesn't want you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are already adults and your boyfriend is still not very mature, you will not be happy with him because you need to give a lot.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your boyfriend is immature, you can accompany him well to mature, don't break up easily, you know, you can wait a little longer.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Men are raised by boys, if you have true feelings and expectations for him, then accompany him and help him grow, so that your relationship will be more sincere.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The boyfriend is not very mature, I think he can slowly change by getting along with each other, after all, if the two people get along, the boyfriend is not very mature, then I should take the initiative to correct the boyfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Thanks for the invitation. found that your boyfriend is too immature, whether you choose to wait for him or choose to break up, this has to ask your heart, in fact, your boyfriend still has many advantages, if you want, then accompany him to "grow up"; If you feel that your boyfriend's immaturity has made you very tired, then it is better to choose to break up, otherwise it will be more troublesome to continue!

    My friend announced that she had been in love with her boyfriend for more than three years, and she wanted to get married, but she became hesitant, and when chatting, she always complained that her boyfriend was too immature, for example, she especially likes to play games, and she always ignores her, and lets him do things, which is also procrastinating, and quarreled many times, he promised to resolutely correct it, and his attitude is very good, but he doesn't change, and he feels very unreliable when he talks about it, but he gets along for three years, and he is reluctant to give up this feeling, if he gets married, he doesn't feel appropriate, we tell her that if it doesn't feel appropriate, don't get married, Make do with it, the future will not be easy, let go when it's time to let go, if you can't change him, if you continue, you can only suffer yourself!

    The psychological age of women of the same age is more mature than that of men, and when they are in love, it is not terrible for men to be immature, but it is terrible that they don't know that they don't know how to do school, they don't know how to control their emotions, and they are moody; Don't keep promises, say one thing, do another; Playful, not motivated; never know how to tolerate each other; Always like to be calculating, and you have to argue that one of them is wrong for you; Don't know how to accommodate each other; Always go your own way, super self-conscious, and don't care about other people's feelings. Psychologically immature men, their hearts are still a child who has not grown up, and they do not know how to consider and plan their future lives, just imagine, which woman will accompany such an immature man out of childishness and accompany him to "grow up" and mature!

    Many women want to find a mature man to spend their life with, because they are gentle, generous, keep promises, optimistic, cheerful, positive, and responsible......But no one is born mature, who hasn't gone through hardships and setbacks, and slowly grew up and matured step by step! It doesn't matter if your boyfriend is immature, if he is willing to work hard to change and know how to cherish the feelings between each other, then give each other a while, because happiness requires hard work, struggle, learning, and ...... timeLove will last forever!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    After discovering that your boyfriend is immature, as long as your boyfriend loves you deeply, and he disturbs He's single-mindedness and responsibility, and he can accept his own suggestions, then it can be shown that he still has a slow time to grow, so he will not quarrel and break up, and he must be taught to grow up.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After regretting that Duan Xian's boyfriend is immature, it depends on what happens to him, if everything is immature, then he definitely won't want to be with him You go and teach him to grow up, so it's very tiring to dig before demolition.

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