When did you find that the gap between people is too big to be crossed, tell me about it?

When I had a quarrel with a friend over a problem, I found that the three views were different, and I could never have the same argument.

When I was investing, I found a concept of many rich people, if he is really rich, he will become richer, and if you don't have money, you can't keep up with the gap before him, and you can't cross it.

I once talked by chance that the children of poor families are getting poorer and poorer, and the children of rich families are getting richer and richer, and they are destined to be different from birth, and the moment I feel that there is a big difference.

As far as my roommate can do it for a week without taking a shower, and then she doesn't listen to what you say, I feel that the gap between people is really very big, and some people really don't love hygiene.

This feeling may arise when jumping out of this circle of friends and coming into contact with others. Of course, it is not excluded that there are other situations where the gap is felt. And when the test results come out.

I feel that the personalities of people have changed, and people feel that they can't figure it out, so there is a big gap.

For me, when I found that the gap between people and people was too big to cross, it was when I was under great pressure because of the mortgage and car loan.

When I was in high school, I found that from birth, the gap between anyone is very large, and the children of rich families and children of non-rich families have different worldviews and all their troubles.

It's after working your own. Then it was still less than one-tenth of others, and I felt that I was particularly incompetent and frustrated. It feels like an unsurpassable gap.

After going through a college entrance examination, I found that the gap between people and people is too big to cross, I have a classmate, we were in elementary school when the two of us often went home together, at that time she was not very good at studying, but her brain is smarter, and although I am not smart, but I study hard, so, the grades are temporarily ahead of her. The first time I met her, she told me that she was a student bought by the chairman of our school for 200,000 yuan, and she also promised the principal that she would be admitted to Peking University after three years. In the three years of high school, she was immersed in her studies every day, and her academic performance was very good, she lived up to herself, and three years later, she was really admitted to Peking University in the college entrance examination, and I failed.

When I learned the news, I really felt that the gap between people was too big to bridge. She went from an inconspicuous girl to a counterattack on Peking University, and her experience really surprised all of us. Her hard work is a height that others cannot achieve, she not only has excellent grades, but also a relatively good person, and her ability in all aspects can be recognized by the people around her.

Sometimes the gap between people is really too big to bridge.

Seeing this scene, a wave of sadness suddenly welled up in my heart. Because I am also a migrant worker, a few years ago, I also worked in the city, and I hope that everyone can be less discriminatory, more understanding and tolerant. In 2014, I started working in Shanghai.

I remember that I took the subway from Xinzhuang Station to get off at the Aerospace Museum Station. Since Xinzhuang Station is the departure station. After getting on the bus, there were a lot of empty seats in the carriage.

I'll just find a random seat and sit down. I remember getting off work a little late that day and having not eaten dinner yet. It was true that my body was a little tired, and I fell asleep before I knew it.

I don't know how many stops I took. Suddenly, someone kicked me twice. I opened my eyes and saw that the carriage was packed.

In front of me stood an uncle about 60 years old. He beckoned to me and motioned for me to stand up. I thought he was telling me if I was there.

Instinctively, I stood up. The uncle was just about to sit down, but was pulled by a lady next to him. Say; Dad, wait a minute, I'll wipe it for you.

At this point, the lady pulled a tissue out of her bag and wiped it twice on the seat. I reacted at this time, and subconsciously said, uncle, you are almost at the station. The old man sat down and calmed down for a moment, but pointed at me and said, you migrant workers just don't have quality, your clothes are so dirty, how can you sit on the seat.

At the same time, many people were watching, and my face suddenly turned red. I retorted that my overalls weren't dirty, just a little older. Our company has a rule that it is not allowed to wear dirty work clothes and enter public places.

How not to get dirty? Your clothes make me uncomfortable to look at. That uncle, the more he talked, the more energetic he became.

When I heard this, I was silent. Later, his daughter said, "Forget it, don't be like a countryman." Hearing this, I turned around and left the carriage and stood in the other carriage until I reached my destination.

There were seats in between, and I didn't do it. The construction of buildings in the city, the greening of the city, the sanitation of the city, and the sewage discharge of the city, which one does not have the figure of our migrant workers? We do the dirtiest and most tiring work, but we don't enjoy equal treatment.

We all live in the same city, why is there such a big gap between people?

This question reminds me of my college classmates, 13 years! A college classmate in a company gets 400,000 yuan a month, which makes me think about how this money is so easy to earn, so I also want to try it, and I entered a company with my classmates, only to find that the money is not so easy to earn, and the pay is proportional to the money. In the end, I found that although I was not in a district, I knew at a company meeting that the students' efforts and reflection problems were, each problem was reflecting, and the team requirements were relatively high, and finally their team was high, and the students directly became rich presidents, and then to the presidents, the gap is not only money, positions, etc., everything has changed, not to mention the worth.

I found that the biggest gap between people is actually like standing at a fork in the road, people with a sense of proportion know how to choose. Many people's beginnings are similar, the key is whether they have chosen a relatively appropriate path with their own proportions, rather than the so-called right or wrong. The gap is also getting bigger and bigger in the sense of proportion.

When I was looking for a job after graduation, my classmates found a job with little work intensity and a lot of money through their family connections, and I tried my best just to support myself, and at that time I knew that some gaps were destined from birth, and it was difficult to change.

Let me tell you briefly, everyone's situation is different! I joined the work in 2013 to study civil engineering, to the construction site for internship, and I came with 3 people, one of them is very hard, no matter what time, as long as he is free, he will study, the noise on the construction site is very large, he still insists on learning, not due to the change of the environment! I participated in the training of educational institutions in 2015, and I found that other lecturers can recite pi 1w upside down, how powerful do you say!

Today's colleagues are very knowledgeable about computers, and can write their own programs to calculate very complex data!

After going to work, when the company is about to be promoted to manager, I feel that the gap between myself and the manager candidate is too big to cross.

After going to college, some students are picked up and dropped off by luxury cars every day, and they are still different luxury cars every day.

1. Chatting with friends can't keep up with the rhythm.

Chat with friends** some professional and thinking questions. I organized a lot of language in my brain and I came up with a lot of ideas from my professional point of view. But when I opened my mouth, I found that I didn't know what to say.

And he talked endlessly, like a river, and I was enlightened.

2. IQ and talent are crushed.

At the reunion of the elementary school classmates, most of the graduates of 985, civil servants, and graduate students were seated, and those with only a college degree could only bow their heads in shame and eat silently. Education is a hard injury, some people can play a bad hand well, and some people, holding a good hand, but how not to play well.

3. Different patterns and different visions.

When I was still worried about whether I could catch the night bus after working overtime, and even calculated how much it would cost to call a taxi, others were enjoying the car ** and red wine in the Mercedes Benz. When I was still thinking about the deception in the workplace, others had long since dismissed it. Patterns are not something innate.

I can't see Mount Tai in a blind eye, and eventually I become a person who does nothing.

The life of the rich is good, and the life of the poor can only be forced to live.

After understanding that "poverty limits your imagination", you find that the gap between people and people is too big to bridge.

At work. At the same time as entering the company, he was promoted and raised first. I'm still standing still.

Centurion card, commonly known as black card, I guess I won't see it in my next life.

When entering society, many times the gap between personality and personality cannot be crossed.

1. When I bought a house last year, because I bought a second-hand house, I took out a provident fund loan, and the down payment ratio was really high. Fortunately, in this second-tier city where I am, the housing prices are not particularly high. But the whole process of buying a house is really tangled.

The main thing is that there is not enough money! If it's all used to pay the down payment, then life will really become very tight! Rich people just like that house.

2. When buying clothes, some people's clothes can buy a car, while some people's clothes are only enough to buy a cabbage, and the gap between the rich and the poor is too big to imagine. They are all the same people, why is there such a big difference, the rich die of wealth, and the poor die of poverty. However, this is also the result of the efforts of others.

Like those rich second generations, it is very excessive, and they get it for nothing.

3. When visiting shopping malls, rich people buy what they like when they see it, and the more difficult life is to consider what they need and what they don't need, and they have to shop around for the same product. People's supermarket is to take it casually without looking at it, and poor people go to the supermarket, no matter what they have to see**.

I found out when I was a freshman, no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't catch up with Wang Sicong and having a good father.

After getting married, I found that there was a big gap between me and the other party because of my family and growth environment, and I was very helpless.

My sister, my sister's family belongs to a high-class family, and our family belongs to an ordinary family, although my sister's academic performance is not good, but the family has money for her to study abroad, and the university she studied in is much better than the university I studied hard for.