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Actually, you are very similar to my wife, I have been with him for 5 years, and I am ready to get married, but now I often quarrel. Because I can earn more, I spend less time with her at home, but I love her in my heart, and I believe that your husband also loves you. Because now that everyone is middle-aged, the values are not the same, some time ago, the two of us basically quarreled every day, and in the end I couldn't stand it, so we sat down to negotiate, and finally reached an agreement on the result, admitting each other's mistakes.
We're also in a good relationship now, with occasional small fights.
In fact, like you, I suggest you find a job by yourself, or enrich your spare time, my wife didn't go to work before, and waited for me to come back at home every day, and I was tired after I came back, and I couldn't stay with her for long, she would get angry, and, especially a woman, when she was alone and lonely, she was the most likely to be suspicious.! Therefore, I suggest that you first set your own mentality, don't think about it, you have said that you have experienced a lot of things, so you should be more considerate of your man, and don't force him, discuss it with him, just imagine that you keep asking him when he comes back from a hard day. What would he think?
The last thing a man can stand is being forced to be coquettish with a woman. You see which one you need to choose.
Finally, I wish you happiness, you will definitely be happy!
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It's just a bit of a gap, just try to adjust it. It is recommended to care about him, find someone to ask what is more supplementing the body, get something he likes to eat every time he goes home, see if he needs to buy clothes, so as to change the attention.
Maybe it's just sexual discord, this one is simpler.
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It is a common occurrence for a man to work hard and neglect his wife, you need to support him from the bottom of your heart, don't put pressure on him If you don't adapt right away, try to find another dependence, such as chasing TV series, playing games, or playing cards with neighbors, it will be better to distract yourself
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1. Know how to show weakness.
Don't have a cold war with your husband, learn to show weakness, and talk to him well, so that you will feel where you are doing, and will you take the initiative to admit your mistakes.
2. Learn to be coquettish.
Women are too strong, and it is easy for men to stay away, so you must know how to be coquettish after a quarrel, try to hold his hand and talk, so that you will be soft-hearted.
3. Humor can better resolve problems.
After the cold war with your husband, you can talk to you first so that the contradictions between you can be resolved.
4. Hug. Give each other a hug, let the conflict between each other be resolved, and it may make the other party feel that they are wrong, and then take the initiative to admit their mistakes to you.
5. Kiss. No matter what contradictions happen to him, he takes the initiative to give his husband a kiss, believing that his heart will be melted soon, and then he feels that he is wrong to fight coldly.
Of course, this is okay, because your husband's sister is also your family, and if it is your husband's fault, he will definitely help you, and through your sister to your husband's Hua En is a little better, indirect, otherwise, you will have to quarrel directly again, and your sister must have a little more life experience than you, so that your husband and you may have a better effect, everyone is relatives, these things can be said, As long as it's not a shame on your husband.
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