How can I live with a boyfriend who has a habit of cleanliness?

As far as I know, people who have a habit of cleanliness usually doubt whether others are washing cleanly, and most people choose to wash themselves instead of instructing others to do it, because they think they will wash more cleanly. So I think your husband is probably not a cleanliness fetish, but a machismo habit. Or rather, laziness.

Most of men's laziness is used to by women, think about whether you are an absolutely virtuous and good woman, your husband usually just says that **** looks a little dirty and does not say that you must wash it when you take it immediately? Or would you put it in the washing machine when he only wore it for a day and then didn't wear it anymore and just threw it aside? Then he happens to be happy to wear clean clothes every day?!

Or will he just say that he wants you to wash this and that?

You can't go on like this anyway, or you're going to drive yourself crazy. You should let him understand that the family is two, and the housework should also be shared by two people, so that he understands that he also has the obligation to do housework; At the same time, you can let him do housework when he is unwell or comes home too late from work, because he has the so-called cleanliness fetish, and he must not be used to seeing the dirty things at home, so that he can do housework for a few days in a row, understand the hard work of housework, and know how to be considerate of you; It is also possible to go out for a while without coming home for work or other reasons, and let him do all the housework by himself; Otherwise, just explain it directly or simply do nothing, see if he can bear it, in short, you can't get used to him.

First of all, you yourself at least can't be too sloppy, and then you can care more about him, as long as he really loves you, he will slowly tolerate you, hopefully.

Cleanliness isn't a bad thing

Think about it better than a dirty person who doesn't like to be clean, right?

And if you live with her, clean and clean things like that, don't you have to be tired Even if it's a shortcoming, it's cute, not to mention that cleanliness is not a shortcoming You tolerate him a little, he humbly lets you a little, and the two of them slowly reconcile, so that they can be happy

Clean frequently, love to be clean, and bring wet wipes with you.

First of all, you should develop the habit of cleanliness yourself, or let him change the habit of cleanliness.

Cure him of his cleanliness ... Or you are more hygienic than him, making it difficult for him to accept your hygienic fetish.

Love to be clean anytime and anywhere!

You have to act like you love cleanliness more than he does.

Mutual understanding and understanding! You can also go and cultivate .........Trust the ...... He will change for you

Then let yourself become clean. . . It's very old and hot with those who have a habit of cleanliness. . .

Mutual tolerance does not touch each other's bottom line.

Like him, it became very clean.

I also develop the habit of loving cleanliness.

Show your sloppy side.

This will take things in extreme directions.

Either because he loves you, he's also sloppy.

Either he can't stand you, so he takes the initiative to break up.

Either let him give up the habit for you,,, or you have a habit of cleanliness.

If you're in him, learn to accept his habits.

It's okay, just love to be clean.

It's up to your boyfriend, what does he ask of you?

You've become a bit cleaner, too!

He also has a cleanliness fetish, and it is said that the cleanliness fetish will not dislike the --- of the person he really loves

You won't be able to stand it without him.

I think you can get along with him in a measured way, if he is particularly worthy of attention in some places, you don't get too close to him, and you can get along with him with proper respect.

When you get along with him, you need to pay attention to your own hygiene, and you also need to change your boyfriend in terms of ideology.

You can make yourself very clean, so that you will have a good relationship with the other party, and the other party will not feel particularly sloppy.

When getting along with him, you should ensure that it is clean, and you should also let him dispose of his own supplies, so that the two of them can get along better.

You should try to meet some of the other person's requirements, and you should also maintain the same life status with the other person in your life, so that you can get along with your boyfriend.

In fact, being with this kind of boyfriend is sometimes quite painful.

There was a time when my boyfriend also had a certain cleanliness habit, so at this time he basically couldn't touch his things casually, if you insisted on touching his things, he would become very angry and unreasonable at this time, all the things you touched he would be very serious to wipe clean with a tissue, and then put there at the end of the serious warning to you, you can't touch these things again.

Introduction to cleanliness:

Generally speaking, cleanliness is too much cleanliness. It is good for a person to love cleanliness, but if he pays too much attention to cleanliness and affects his normal study, work and life, especially social interaction, he is a hygienic disorder.

There is a distinction between severity and severity. Milder cleanliness is simply a bad habit. It can be corrected by desensitization**, cognition**.

The more serious cleanliness habit is a mental illness and is a type of obsessive-compulsive disorder. A psychiatrist should be sought for help. Cleanliness is not exclusive to girls, some boys suffer from it, and some boys even worse.

For me, it's just constant forbearance.

The clothes are changed every day, and the clothes that have been bought for two weeks have already been washed out. Wipe my phone every day with a tissue (which he thinks is clean), wipe his phone, wipe the doorknob, wipe anything that is taken out of this house (data cables, car cards, bank cards, these are also wiped).

The first thing I do when I get home is to ask me to wash my hands and feet and face (regardless of the season), and I can only touch the doorknob and other things after washing (he just wiped it, if I accidentally touch it as soon as I get home and I don't wash my hands, he will wipe it again) The contents of the bag need to be wiped by him before he can use it, if I don't wipe it clean, I have to wash my hands if I touch it, if I also touch the clothes, the clothes must also be washed, and if I touch other places, other places must also be washed, anyway, it is washed.

If he passes by the trash can when he goes out, he will think about whether I have touched the trash can for three minutes, and if he thinks he has touched it, he will not continue to walk side by side with me.

When I meet someone who sneezes or spits outside, I always feel that someone else has vomited on me or him, and when I get home, I take a shower, wash my hair and change clothes. At home, you can't be too close to the trash can, he thinks I touched it (in fact, I didn't touch it, half a meter away from the trash can) wash my hands and change clothes, wash all the things I bought, and wash the unopened cigarettes, if it is an opened cigarette box, take out the cigarettes, and throw away the cigarette box.

The plastic bag that goes out to buy things needs to be raised above the waist (self-brain replenishment dumbbells), even if it is too heavy on the way or can not be placed on the ground by taking the subway, this plastic bag can be thrown away directly after going home, or buy two and lose the one outside the cover.

I can't touch him until he comes home and doesn't take a shower, touch his clothes or **, wash my hands; The body touches, and the bath is showered. When I was sleeping, I kicked the quilt and felt that I had kicked under the bed, so he didn't let me kick, and he felt that after kicking under the bed, he continued to wash all kinds of things.

After living together for half a year, my hands have been peeling, very dry, and I can't keep up with the rhythm of washing my hands with hand cream Really, very desperate, it has nothing to do with love or not.

We get to know a person, to know a person in a real sense. In fact, this is a very long process, it is impossible to say, it is achieved overnight. We are slowly discovering many things in the process of getting along.

He just,For example, you will find some strange things about the other party. So at this time, you may be more resistant, or more preferred. Then everyone will feel that they need to think about the problem after resisting, and then think about how to solve it.

Therefore, in the face of the cleanliness habit of boyfriends, in fact, everyone will have some of their own problems. For example, when we face ourselves. I don't know how to solve some of the problems that will exist in the other person's lifeEspecially for some of the problems that were caught off guard.

Even when faced with a variety of reactions. It is impossible to predict the appearance of some unknown things, but we must find a suitable solution after it appears.

In fact, if you were in love with each other deeply, you could have made some simple quirks later. You can try to understand and tolerate him. But there are also people who feel that some things are unacceptable, so at this time there will be some unacceptable, because of certain lifestyles, or personality discord and other reasons to break up.

When you meet, if you really love each other. That's something you can get familiar with from his point of view. Unique ways or something.

Don't exclude too much. When you really can't end it, you can make some decisions decisively.

The most important thing is to look at yourself, how to understand and how to deal with this relationship. The key is that we all say that it depends on our own thoughts. As long as you look at how attentive you are to this relationship, and how much you can accept this person, you can ask yourself how much you can accept it?

It's about your own inner problems, trying to accept that you deal with problems in many situations.

In fact, the boyfriend has a cleanliness problem, depending on the degree of distinction, if it is mild, it should be supportive, able to improve the quality of life, if it is excessive, it will be difficult to get along.

I also try to be very clean. Clean up yourself and the house.,So that a boy with a cleanliness habit will have a good impression when he sees it.。

has a habit of cleanliness, is reluctant to kiss, is unwilling to start without taking a bath, can't stand any odor, can't stand the other party's roughness, sometimes can't stand some people black **, to be honest, it's also very distressing.

Generally, many people have a bit of a cleanliness fetish, as long as your boyfriend's cleanliness is not particularly serious, I don't think it matters.

You tell him that no kind of water is absolutely pure, let him not drink water, he can't drink any water, the air also has impurities and bacteria, and he can't breathe, do these two things well, and he won't have to worry about anything!

It's good to have a habit of cleanliness, such as washing both people before starting, and pay attention to hygiene. I'm afraid of cleanliness in family life, and I don't clean it, that's bullshit.

Are you comfortable living in a room that is cluttered, full of garbage, and smelly?

Now it's normal for people to have a cleanliness fetish or something, and it's good to respect your boyfriend, so that you can be together well.

If you have a habit of cleanliness, you can change it slowly, run in more, and stick to it for a period of time to adapt to or change your boyfriend.

If it's not very serious, you can accept it, and you have to love cleanliness and communicate with him a lot.

Find a group of sloppy uncles and aunts, and after half a month of his turn, he will change.

That's a good thing, he loves cleanliness so much, and some of the cleaning in the house has made him do a good job, anyway, he doesn't worry about what you do.

You are male or female