How can I give up this relationship, how can I allow myself to give up a relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What you said is not wrong, after all, it is a relationship of more than a year, and it is almost impossible to let go of it if you say that you have completely forgotten about this relationship now, and sometimes time can dilute everything

    And I think your temper may not be the main reason for your breakup, maybe it's just that you blindly think so, and even mentioned marriage, why just because of your temper and broke up so hastily, if you really love you, what can you do can't tolerate your little temper?

    He hasn't contacted you now, I still think you should really let go, maybe you can't let go for a while, but you should slowly return to your own life with the flow of time, and slowly forget him, sometimes it only takes a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone

    I hope you can come out of it, maybe starting a new relationship can help you, you might as well open your heart and try

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Relationship problems, others say that it's useless, you understand the reason, you still have to understand it yourself, invest all your feelings, lose it for a while, it will be difficult to extricate yourself, let yourself do something that can pass the time, after a long time, you may be surprised to forget like this.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't know what kind of temper you have, which is unacceptable to him and his family. I can see that you can't let go of this feeling, otherwise you wouldn't have come to ask for help. In this way, according to what he said, in the past two months, you should analyze your temper to the end, which disgusted the other party, and change it well, so that he can see a new you in two months, at least you who have changed a lot.

    Don't think about it too much, what should you do, change your temper, otherwise you will still suffer in love in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let's end it! Don't embarrass yourself, the best way is to start over, the past is gone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Treat it with a normal heart, and the more nervous you are, the more you can't let go.

    Usually do things that don't think of him.

    Remind yourself that you have broken up and given up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, I personally think that some feelings are not that they can't let go, but that they are reluctant to let go. If you love someone, you should learn to tolerate each other, if you have a bad temper, then as a man, he should tolerate you a little more. But if he has tried his best and there is really no way to tolerate you, then you should really try to change, after all, everyone's patience has a limit, right?

    Now, if you really want to give up, you shouldn't think about whether he will be looking for you, but even if he is looking for you, you will not look back. Then keep yourself busy, and you don't have time to think about him, and you are not allowed to think about him. Time will dilute everything, and it will be fine later.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Put it down. If you have a breakup, don't start over. There will always be a knot in my heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let it go, it's hard to change your temper, and it's hard for you to be happy when he comes back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let it go. Twisted melons are not sweet.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let go and be bold to tell him.

    This will not be successful.

    I won't regret it.

    After all, you've tried to fight for it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What about such a man. It's better to stay away. Because you've never been in a relationship, there are so many things you don't know.

    Men rarely refuse a girl's confession.

    He may not be as good as you say, because you like him very much now, and liking someone is blind.

    You'd better come to your senses, or you'll be sad for him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not painful to give up someone who loves you very much, I want to give up but I can't forget you, it's harder to give up a person than to love someone, I really want to give up, I don't really give up, I know you love me, I can only learn to give up.

    1. It is not painful to give up someone who loves you very much; Giving up on someone you love very much is called pain.

    2. Maybe one day, I will give up the big dream of losing hail and go to realize a group of small wishes, just like giving up the sun to win the sky full of stars, which is also good!

    3. Learn to give up, swim freely between the mountains and rivers, and enjoy the fun of the world. Hurry, hurry! Learn to give up, suddenly calm your mind, touch the sound of nature, and play in the emptiness, how wonderful it is!

    4. If sincerity is a harm, I choose to lie; If a lie is a disservice, I choose silence; If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave.

    5. The saddest thing is when you meet someone special, but you understand that you can never be together, and sooner or later, you have to give up.

    6. On the day you left, I decided not to shed tears, and I held my eyes against the wind without blinking.

    7. There are some things that we know are wrong, but we have to insist on them, because we are unwilling; There are some people we know are love, but we have to give up, because there is no result; Sometimes we know that there is no way, but we are still moving forward because we are used to it.

    8. That year, I met you and believed in something called eternity; That year, you left me, and I was alone to collect my memories.

    9. Life is a choice, and giving up is an art of choice, is a compulsory course in life, there is no such thing as giving up, there is no brilliant choice, instead of struggling, fighting to break the blood, it is better to wave your hand chicly, give up bravely, and sing to say; The secret of life is to give up survival in order to survive.

    10. You'll never see me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Being with the person you love the most is the most enjoyable thing for you, but sometimes, even though you love that person deeply, you can't be with him. When you are in this state, you need to give up rationally. Specifically, when you find that the other person is not suitable for you, that the person you love cannot be together, and that you are trying to pursue it without results, you should really give up.

    1. When you find that you are not suitable for your loved one, you should give up.

    The person you love is the person you give your true heart and true love, but when you rationally analyze the relationship between each other, you find that the other party is not suitable for you, or the two people are not suitable, when you find this situation, you should give up the relationship rationally and choose to quit. While it can be painful to do so, it's the only way to achieve true liberation. You have to do it yourself.

    2. If you can't be with your loved ones, you need to give up rationally.

    Sometimes although you truly love someone, you can't be with him, this state will make you feel painful, but you need to seriously reflect on this relationship. Specifically, if after rational analysis, you find that you really can't be with your loved ones, then you need to give up rationally, that's all. In order to let yourself end this doomed and fruitless relationship, so that you can pursue the love that truly belongs to you.

    3. When you try hard to pursue your loved one but have no results, you should really give up.

    When you really love someone, you will try to pursue him, but if you still can't get the result after hard work, you need to choose to quit rationally, for yourself, this relationship is destined to be fruitless, and there is no point in continuing to insist. At this time, you need to give up this relationship rationally, so that you can pursue the love of yourself and the person you love with a positive attitude, so as to gain the love that truly belongs to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is difficult to give up someone you love very much, but sometimes it is necessary.

    When he doesn't respond to your feelings again and again, or makes it clear that he doesn't want to be with you, it's tempting to give up.

    Because in this case, continuing to hold on may only bring pain and frustration, while giving up can release one's feelings and avoid unnecessary pain.

    Even if it's barely together, in the endIf you can't accept or change the other person's behavior or attitude because of your values or expectations, you can only give up on the other person.

    But giving up doesn't mean giving up all hope, it means freeing yourself from an unhealthy relationship and giving yourself a fresh start.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. Divert attention.

    Divert more attention from the positive aspects of life, whether it is to give up a person or a relationship, the most important thing is to divert your attention and focus more on the sunny and beautiful side of life.

    You already deserve a better, happier life, and after giving up, you will find that there are more places in your life that are worth your time and energy, and you will be happier and happier because of it.

    2. Communicate with relatives and friends.

    Communicate more deeply with relatives and friends, maybe before, you neglected them because of a bad relationship, and after giving up someone who doesn't care, you will find that your negligent relatives and friends are behind you, never far away from you, and still give you great comfort and support when you are lost.

    To regulate yourself, you also need to give yourself a place to express your emotions, communicate deeply with relatives and friends, express your negative emotions, and let yourself get rid of the wrong person who gave up as soon as possible.

    3. Enrich yourself.

    Go to sports, go to school, and enrich yourself as much as possible. When a person is particularly fulfilling, he will no longer think too much about emotional problems, and it is inevitable that he will be a little lost and lonely when he gives up a person, but he enriches himself, goes to exercise, and goes to fitness.

    4. Let yourself think about him as little as possible.

    Many times when we find that we like someone very much, but this person doesn't care about us, and we do a lot of things to him and her in vain and don't get any response, then at this time, we have to examine whether our feelings are our own wishful thinking.

    When you find that it is impossible between you, then try to give up slowly. The first step in giving up is to think about him and her as little as possible, because he doesn't care about you, so it's useless for you to think about him all day long.

    We can spend more time making friends who care about us, whether it's friends of the same sex or the opposite sex. When we make more friends who care about our nuisance, then we will be cared for more by others.

    At this time, for those who don't care about us, we will be able to forget more quickly. And after making more friends who care about us, whether it is friendship or love, may be closer to us.

    6. Find your own hobbies and hobbies.

    When we have more hobbies, we can also find more fun or meet more friends. And our hobbies are likely to become one of our talents, attracting the attention of others, and we will have more opportunities to be cared for by others.

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