Which one should you choose, the one you like or the right one?

Satisfactory answer: Big stupid little Cheng level 7 2012-04-07Like people don't like themselves, then it is impossible to be together, give up as soon as possible, a person's pay, very tired. The right person, it also depends on whether he loves you or not, if you don't love it, no matter how suitable it is, the future will not be easy. The people I love and those who love me want me to choose, and I choose those who love me.

Follow-up question: See the problem clearly, what I like is that I like her, and she likes me: In that case, choose the one you like.

If two people want to love, what would be inappropriate? Even if there is, it will be overcome later. Love, that's the biggest motivation to be together Follow-up:

Alas, : What?

Follow-up: I lied to the girl who liked me again: Then try to redeem it, if she likes you, she shouldn't be so quick to be cold, and there is still a chance.

Effort. It's best when two people you really like together. Ask for a follow-up:

It's been delayed for a month.,Because,The girl I'm with now has two months to go out to study for half a year.。。 Follow-up: Well, she's a student :

If you can't be together in the future, there will be a gap, because the two can't care about each other for a while, and the feelings of both parties will fade Questioner's testimonial: You should understand why I have two objects, it's not that I'm a beast, abusive.

I will definitely choose what I like, and I will be very happy to choose the one I like with him, but it is just appropriate, and there is no sense for two people to feel anything.

If I were still 18 years old, I would definitely choose the one I liked. When I grow older, I suddenly feel that there is no difference between liking and disliking, they are all living a life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. I will choose the right one, because then life will be much less stressful.

Everything can't be perfect, there will always be a little regret, the same is true of love, what you like may not be able to get, what suits you may be your lifelong companionship.

It is definitely a choice that suits you, so that you can live more comfortably in the second half of your life without suffering emotional pain.

Choose the right one, because the right one will also see the advantages of the other party because of getting along for a long time, and slowly like it, but the one who likes it will slowly find that it is not suitable and will change from liking to disliking.

If you're referring to marriage, then conservatively speaking, what's right for you is best. Throughout the ages, many examples have demonstrated the importance of "the right family", although Zhuo Wenjun made Sima Xiangru give up taking a concubine with "Baitou Yin", but not every lady has Zhuo Wenjun's talent, and not every successful man will thank his wife for being bad.

You have to choose the right one, because there will be a lot of things in the marriage after marriage, but liking can't solve the problem.

I will definitely choose the one I like, because I don't like it, and it's really hard for me to live with him, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet.

Choosing the right one is the best choice, because what you like does not necessarily mean that the other party likes you, and your liking does not necessarily last a long time.

Of course, it is the right one, so that the two can really live a lifetime without suffering emotional pain.

1. If you are in love, it is more important to choose to like.

When you fall in love, you pay more attention to your eyesight. When boys see girls growing up beautifully, they think they are goddesses. The girls thought the boys were handsome, and their eyes lit up.

The boy will take the initiative to approach and pursue the girl, and the girl will blush and heartbeat, holding hands like electricity, which is like the feeling of liking. Love can be sloppy, as long as you like the other person, he will accept you, and two people can become lovers. In this case, you don't think about the outcome.

You choose a partner based on how you feel in your heart, just like it.

2. If it is a marriage, the right choice is more important.

The two got married, and with the blessings of family and friends, you walked the red carpet together, and the two lived together ever since. Two people who can hold hands and get married are not necessarily because they love each other, let alone because he or she pursues what suits them, the two can complement each other or go on a blind date.

When we are faced with the choice of love, the first thing to consider is whether the other party has a good impression and whether they really like each other, and often take the final suitability into account. This leads to a question that many people think: what is more important in a relationship, is it liked or appropriate?

There are no precise answers to these questions, and naturally, people with different ideas have different opinions.

There is a saying: live in the moment. There is a sentence in last year's fire:

As for people, they have to look forward, if they keep staring at the past, then they will not be able to live this life. If it is free love, I believe that in most cases, men will marry the woman they love as their wives; Women do not necessarily marry the person they love the most as their wives; Men can work hard for the woman they love the most; Women may not be willing to endure hardships for a long time with the man they love the most. Of course, whether as a man or a woman, since they are together, they should cherish each other and love each other, so that they can be white!

There are a lot of regrets in life, and missing it is not enough fate! The person you once liked liked was also the same as before, since you weren't together, there must be a reason, since you didn't resist it at the time, do you contact it again and hurt it again? Since you missed it, she's not the one you're responsible for.

Your current wife, no matter what the reason for getting married, at least you have the fate of husband and wife, and also have affection, she married you, that is, she entrusted the rest of her life to you, she is your legal wife, and you have the responsibility and obligation to treat her well. She also has a lot of flaws, imperfections, but think about it, the person you like has no flaws? Is there an advantage to the wife not having a sedan chair?

We don't find ourselves digging into the horns when we are more serious, just imagine, if you treat your wife like the person you like, what will she be like? The same patience with his wife, she may be better. Every woman doesn't think about making herself a resentful woman, a jealous woman, when these situations arise, have you ever reflected on whether you are doing well, taking care of her feelings, and giving her a sense of security?

The understanding is mutual, and when you treat her well and take care of her, I think she will surprise you too! Generally speaking, the favorite silver lead person is not suitable for couples, and the most suitable person is right. People also know how to cherish after experiencing loss.

"Ten years of life and death. Don't think about it. Unforgettable. Thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to talk about desolation. Even if you don't know each other, your face is dusty, and your temples are like frost. "The highest praise for the right person!

My Fair Lady, Gentleman. It is the highest praise for those who like it!

Only after experiencing love and hate parting, you will understand these truths, it turns out that liking and being suitable and being together are not the same thing.

We can hide the person we once liked in our hearts and try to accept and like the person who is more suitable for us for the rest of our lives.

Everyone longed for spending the rest of their lives with the person they liked at the beginning, but many times, this love road with you ended up being separated because it was not suitable.

In fact, there is no one in this world who likes and is suitable from the beginning, just as there are no two identical leaves in the world. If you like her enough, you will naturally become the person she likes and become the right person for her.

People will face many choices in this life, and many things are not as they appear to be either/or. Theirs only represents personal opinions, because in fact, the person who likes it may not be suitable, and the right person may not like it. Nevertheless, I want to say that choosing the right person will still account for the majority, because when two people are together, the most important thing is to see whether they are suitable or not, it is not enough to have feelings, but also to see if there are some common things, such as hobbies, values, etc.

I'm sure many people have their own judgments, some people say that liking is important, and some people think that suitability is more important. I've asked many of my friends, "Why are you together?"

They "because they like." I asked, "Then why do you want to break up again?"

Them: "Because it's not suitable". I think most people when asked about the reason for their breakup, they will say "not suitable", and few people are willing to be honest about it

I don't like it", if you don't like it, why were you together in the first place! Isn't that a slap in the face?

As a person who has come over, let me tell you, no matter how much two people like it, after being together for a long time, they will get tired of it, and there will be a day when they don't like it. Because "like" is relatively broad, it may be just because of appreciation, or the other party is good-looking, or has a good personality, or is highly educated, talented, or a smile, a look, in short, it is to stay on the advantages of the other party's whole body, and it may be "a blind eye".

However, likes are short-lived, and only the right ones are long-lasting. There are also inappropriate places for two suitable people, but they can tolerate each other, understand each other, not only like each other's advantages, but also accept this imperfect disadvantage, so that the relationship will last for a long time, and two people can go further together.

There is no such thing as an absolutely suitable person in love. Whether two people are suitable or not, the other party is to run in with each other in a long-term relationship. So I'll still choose the ones I like.

I think you should choose someone who is suitable for you, and it is more suitable for two people to be together, so that the marriage will be longer.

I will choose the right person, because feelings can be cultivated slowly, but if they are not suitable, they will not be happy in their lives.