How should you choose between the person who loves you and the person you love?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Many people have this confusion, the person you love does not love you, but the person you don't love is dead to you. In the face of such a situation, people are often confused and have forgotten their true feelings in their hearts, in fact, only by honestly facing their feelings will they be happy. There is always so much helplessness in the real society, don't care so much who is right and who is wrong, the dead cannot come back, the present and the future are happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the person you love doesn't feel anything about you, choose to love you, even if you don't feel anything about her (him), you can cultivate it slowly!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is blissful to be loved! But sometimes it's painful! Choose what you love!

    If you think you're trying hard enough! He still doesn't love you! Then let it go!

    He's not alone! Maybe you can try to accept the people who love you! Try to get to know him!

    Maybe one day you'll fall in love with him! But you still follow your heart! Whoever gives you ideas is just giving you advice!

    Can't give you a complete solution!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Can you choose to love each other, be loved, choose the person you love, you will tolerate everything about him because you love him, love everything about him, but you choose a person you don't love, you won't think of him so much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The first choice is the person you love, and the second is the person who loves you. Both can be tried, the former can find a way to impress, and the latter will try to accommodate and change each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Choose someone who loves you Listen to my brother Yes It should be worth it to slowly fall in love with the person who loves you Otherwise you will definitely regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Wait, I believe that there are people who love each other deeply.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I think it's hard to love someone who doesn't love you in their hearts.

    And a person who truly loves you will definitely give you love.

    However, you add "what you want." This may be the crux of the matter.

    It stands to reason that love is not that complicated, especially in this case. If you truly love the other person, and the other person loves you, love will come naturally.

    I don't quite understand what "love you want" is. In general, love is considerate, sincere, and gentle.

    In this way, "a person who can give you the love you want" has the conditions for your love. The latter does not have. Does it mean that you love the former and not so much the latter?

    As for whether the other person loves you or not, this is secondary. The important thing is whether it can give you the love you want. Of course, the other party has no love and cannot force it.

    You know, love is two-sided. Whoever you truly love, pursue it. As for the other party, it is their own decision. See for yourself. But if a person can't give you the love you want, then I'm afraid you won't be able to last long.

    Pursue the former. If I don't love you, wait for the opportunity. The latter doesn't have the love you want, how can you love?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    These are the two directions of emotion, and there is no right or wrong.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is best when both of them like each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

    I sincerely wish you to find true love.

    Have a nice day! Thank you o(o

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    These are the two directions of emotion, and there is no right or wrong.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is best when both of them like each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, everyone has a little answer to this question in their hearts, but when they really want to choose, they will hesitate. Choosing Zen Bridge is a very vague concept, if you can be sure that the person you like can accept you, then choose the person you like. If you don't reject people who like you, then you can also consider accepting people who like you, so that although you are not so happy, you will be happy in the future.

    Love is a two-sided effort! It's a matter of two people! But efforts in the area are impossible to be happy!

    Loving someone who doesn't love yourself will be so tired, so hard;

    It's also very helpless to be loved by someone you don't love!

    Choose someone who loves yourself more, maybe you won't be tired or painful! But if you can't love the person you love, it will also be very painful! Then take a step back and try to love this person who loves you deeply! Perhaps, you will fall in love with him?

    If you can, store up your love, find someone who loves you and who is also your love, and love well!

    I wish you to find your happiness soon.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Be happy to be loved.

    If I had to choose, I would choose to be loved, because being loved is happiness, if you don't love him, feelings are slowly accumulating, and getting along slowly may be better than going to yourself, if you choose what you love, you may be tired, you choose what you love, you will take care of him for a lifetime, if you choose to love you, he will take care of you for a lifetime, just like the old man before, he was not loved and did not love him, and then people are not also a lifetime, some things are fate, Because if you choose what you love, you may not necessarily be together, maybe you choose to love and you may be together, people are destined, not who says who you will be together, I wish you can find someone who loves you and the person you love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love. Not possessive, love.

    It is the admiration and trust of his grandson that is late, and the bridge is the capital of two boats.

    With the other party as the shore, the lower limit is the sense of security, and the upper limit is the sense of happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is the emotional two-pan stool with a square spring direction, and there is no rough cultivation of right and wrong.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Who loves you and who you love, how should you choose?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is best when both of them like each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    These are the two directions of emotion, and there is no right or wrong.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Someone who loves you and someone you love, which one will you choose?

    Although I don't know other people's choices, my choice is love, because I personally think that there must be a lot of people who like him (her), and this kind of person who likes them does not understand or know how they feel about the person they like, let alone themselves, and they can't understand the true feelings and opinions of others about themselves; But there is only one person who truly loves, and only he knows his feelings best, isn't that so, and who knows his thoughts and true inner feelings better than himself?

    So I chose love, not to be loved, although I didn't choose to be loved so sweet, so happy, but at least I will fight for the person I love, to fight, and choose love is my own choice, what is the consequence There will be no regrets, if you just want to be obsessed with the happiness and sweetness of being loved, what are the consequences? There are many parts of happiness, but how much have you paid in the emotion, and how many memories will make you feel happy, choose love, if it is unfortunate, the result is very miserable, very painful, but after all, we have worked hard, we have fought hard, and at that time what regrets can there be? Ha, well, thank you friend for reading my personal thoughts, thank you!

    In fact, I am just deceiving myself.

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