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Military wife: I think the main problem is the separation of the two places. I think that's the most important question. Why do people want to find a partner?

Especially women. It's nothing more than looking for someone to rely on. Find someone to talk to.

Separation is the most direct test of the relationship between husband and wife. It's because he's big. There are always physical and psychological needs.

I think I have to think about this when I want to be a military wife. Other troops won't ask too much of what the wives are doing. It is also possible to visit relatives.

But there is a time limit.

In a separation of two places. I don't think it's a big problem, because the man is in a group with a management mechanism in the army. I don't often see too many people of the opposite sex, and I don't have other material pursuits during my tenure.

So the security of the south can be guaranteed. The main thing is whether the woman can endure loneliness and the test of life is not going well, I think, I hope mine can be useful to you.

Comrade military wife, you are so great, but if you marry a soldier, you have to be worthy of his clothes, not outside. Then you'll be court-martialed. From a political point of view, in order to make soldiers more able to contribute to the army and the country, you are the harbor. Let's understand.

How to say, I'm also a military wife... And the two places are separated. The main thing is that we are far away.

He was far away in the southernmost part of the motherland, and I was almost in the northernmost part of the motherland. It's false to say that you are not lonely, every time you study and work, or on holidays, you can see others in pairs or a family of three sweet and warm. The feeling of abandonment is so strong ...

However, the joy of meeting together cannot be described in words. At that moment, I will feel that all the efforts for this moment are worth it. As for the trivial difficulties in life, ** will not meet it.

If you can persist in the loneliness in your heart, the difficulties in life are not necessarily so difficult.

There are too many problems to face, and they seem to be trivial things, but they are shouldered every day. It's like watching your parents buy vegetables and cook, but it's really your turn to buy vegetables and cook every day, doesn't it feel annoying? I don't know what to buy when I stand in the vegetable market.

As a military wife, she has to take care of both parents, and because of her career, it is impossible to expect him to help her.

As a military wife, from pregnancy to childbirth, there may be only one person along the way, and someone else's husband accompanies you into the delivery room to serve the confinement, but you are alone from beginning to end.

gave birth to a child, took the child to get vaccinated regularly, saw a doctor or something, and then went to school to pick up and drop off.

It may be said that there are parents who help take care of it, but this kind of care with her husband by her side is incomparable.

Anyway, if you have worked too hard as a military wife, you will know it, and you can't say it clearly.

You love him for all his problems.

None of this is a problem.

Legal analysis: Cadres are approved by political organs at or above the division level; Non-commissioned officers are approved by the division (brigade) level command organ. Soldiers living in two separate places are entitled to a living allowance for husband and wife.

Legal basis: "Regulations on the Administration of Non-commissioned Officers of the Chinese People's Liberation Army" Article 41: Non-commissioned officers visiting relatives and taking leave shall be implemented in accordance with the "Regulations on the Service of Soldiers on Active Duty of the Chinese People's Liberation Army" and relevant regulations

1) If an unmarried non-commissioned officer does not live with his parents in the same coarse stocking area, the corporal shall be entitled to two visits to his parents during his term of office, each of which shall be 20 days; Non-commissioned officers above the rank of sergeant are entitled to parental visit leave once a year for 30 days. Married non-commissioned officers who do not live in the same place as their parents are entitled to parental visit leave of 20 days once every two years.

2) If a married non-commissioned officer and his or her spouse do not live in the same place, they shall be entitled to a leave of 40 days to visit their spouse once a year.

3) A married non-commissioned officer who does not live in the same place with his or her spouse or parents, but whose parents or one of his parents resides in the same place with his or her spouse, shall only be entitled to leave to visit his or her spouse; If you do not live in the same place as your spouse and parents, and meet the requirements for visiting your spouse and parents at the same time within one year, you can only enjoy one home visit leave, with a leave of 45 days.

4) Senior non-commissioned officers who are not entitled to leave for visiting their parents and spouses are entitled to leave once a year, 20 days of leave for less than 20 years of active service, and 30 days of leave for 20 years.

Non-commissioned officers who have graduated from military academies and are recruited directly from non-military departments are entitled to the prescribed family visit leave from the year following their graduation or enlistment.

Non-commissioned officers' family visits and vacation leave do not include round-trip time on the way and the holiday time of statutory festivals.

The separation fee is given to the military wife. According to the relevant regulations, married active duty officers, non-commissioned officers and civilian personnel who meet the conditions for respecting and rolling can enjoy a monthly living allowance of 1,000 yuan for husband and wife separation. Military wives are also a strong backing for soldiers to defend the motherland, so the state will give them certain benefits.

Law on the Protection of the Status and Rights and Interests of Military Personnel

Article 38.

Military personnel are entitled to annual leave, family leave, and other rest and vacation. Economic compensation shall be given to those who have not taken leave or have not taken full leave due to work needs.

Where the spouses and children of military personnel live separately from military personnel, they may go to the military unit to visit their relatives. Where the spouse of a military member goes to the army to visit relatives, the unit to which he belongs shall arrange the leave in accordance with the provisions and ensure the corresponding remuneration and benefits, and shall not be dismissed, dismissed, or terminated from the labor relationship because he or she is entitled to the family visit leave. The surplus travel expenses for military spouses, minor children, and adult children who are unable to live independently shall be guaranteed by the military unit.

Legal analysis: Cadres shall be approved by political organs at or above the level of division and bank rent;Non-commissioned officers are approved by the division (brigade) level command organ. Soldiers living in two separate places are entitled to a living allowance for husband and wife.

Legal basis: Military Service Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 11 The number of persons to be conscripted for active service in the whole country each year, the requirements and the time shall be prescribed by the orders of the Military Commission.

The people's organizations at or above the county level and the relevant departments of the military service organs and relevant departments shall form a collection work body and be responsible for organizing and implementing the collection work.

Article 12: Male citizens who have reached the age of 18 before December 31 of each year shall be conscripted for active service. Those who were not conscripted in that year may still be conscripted for active duty before the age of 22, and the age of conscription for graduates of ordinary institutions of higher learning may be relaxed to 24 years old.

On the basis of the needs of the military, female citizens may be recruited for active service in accordance with the provisions of the preceding paragraph.

According to the needs of the military and their own volition, citizens who have reached the age of 17 but have not yet reached the age of 18 before December 31 of the current year may be recruited to serve on active duty.

Article 26 Officers on active duty shall be supplemented by the following personnel:

1) To select outstanding soldiers and ordinary high school graduates to study and graduate from military academies;

2) To select national defense students and other outstanding graduates who have graduated from ordinary institutions of higher learning;

3) Directly promote soldiers with a bachelor's degree or above from an ordinary school of higher learning and outstanding performance;

4) Civilian cadres who are reappointed as officers on active duty;

5) Recruit professional and technical personnel and other personnel outside the military.

Officers may be appointed directly from among soldiers, conscripted reserve officers, and personnel of the non-military service as needed in wartime.

Article 41: Military training for reserve soldiers is to be conducted in active-duty units, reserve forces, or militia organizations, or in other organizational forms.

Reserve soldiers who have not served in active duty and have been transferred to active forces, reserve forces, or basic militia organizations shall participate in military training for 30 to 40 days between the ages of 18 and 24; Among them, the training time of professional and technical personnel shall be determined according to actual needs. Refresher training for reserve soldiers who have served on active duty and have received military training, as well as military training for other reserve soldiers, is carried out in accordance with the regulations of the ** Military Council.

Article 42 During the period of reserve service, reserve officers shall participate in military training for three to six months; Those who are pre-assigned to active forces and serve in reserve forces may appropriately extend the period of participation in military training.