What do you think about the cruelty of reality? What is the reality like, is it cruel? How to face i

Dreams are beautiful, but reality is cruel, and the real society is not as simple as imagination. The complex and changeable social life tests the adaptability of everyone in the society, so they feel the cruelty of real life, in fact, reality is reality, there is no need to have too many sighs and sorrows. Just because some people always say that reality is cruel, it is emotional fluctuations caused by feelings, but we have no choice in the face of the responsibility and mission on our shoulders, only to work hard to change the reality, and it is okay to nag, there is no need to dwell too much, in that case, our hearts will only be very tired, why not live in our own world?

In the face of all kinds of sudden challenges, the most important thing is that we just have a clear conscience and take it seriously. Even if we are on the cusp of the storm, we will never regret it, because we have worked hard to face it sincerely, and as for the result, we should not always be obsessed with it. Therefore, no matter what the reality is, the most important thing is the state of mind.

With a good attitude, we will not be afraid of the impact of reality, and we will be stronger in social life to face any real challenges.

The cruelty of reality is just a reason and excuse, talking for three years, breaking up, entanglement to no avail. My ex-boyfriend told me that even if you don't fit in, you have to adapt, because that's life. In the senior year, it seems like we are forced to grow up, we always think that we are in the process of growing up, but in fact, it is not, there is a moment, you really lose something, you know, it is time to grow up.

Maybe everyone will face the same confusion in their lives, not knowing what they work every day for, in order to fill their stomachs? To buy new clothes? In order to have a home in the future?

Maybe, but suddenly the soul was emptied and the meaning of life was lost, only to find that the previous ones who did not back down, did not compromise, and stubbornly insisted on being based on your soul. Life seems to be like this, you see so many excellent people working harder than you, and suddenly realize your own narrow-mindedness, and feel that you are out of reach in this life. But in fact, your efforts are uncompromising on yourself.

The reason why reality is cruel is because there is a psychological gap between reality and our ideals. If we want to change this gap, we need to make huge changes, for the ideal can not just stay in the stage of thinking, the main thing is how to do: set a small goal for yourself, make a little progress every day, when you want to give up, think about what you are working so hard for, only in this way can it be possible to narrow this gap.

When we really live the life we want, we will look back and find that what we once thought was a cruel reality is nothing now.

People always pin their good wishes for life in fantasy, and this kind of person often thinks this way when life is not satisfactory. Therefore, there is a saying, "There is everything in dreams." "The cruelty of reality is reflected in good intentions, of course, reality is indeed cruel enough, there is a saying, "Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes."

Where there are rivers and lakes, there is "natural selection, survival of the fittest." Add to that the weaknesses of human nature, such as greed, laziness, jealousy, etc., you say not "cruel"? But also believe in life, "The world is not as good as you think, and it is not as bad as you think."

As long as you work hard enough, life will treat you well.

Reality and ideals (dreams) are contradictory sides, ideals are often beautiful, is a kind of expectation of people's psychology, or a state that the heart wants to achieve, when the ideal can not be realized, you see the so-called "cruelty" of reality, or you are in the process of realization, encounter difficulties and obstacles, usually also see the so-called "cruelty" of reality. Stephen Chow's line in "Shaolin Football" "If you don't have a dream, what is the difference between being a man and a salted fish" People often only overcome the cruelty of reality and do things in a down-to-earth way can they get closer and closer to their ideals.

People who say that reality is cruel because they have not coordinated the relationship between the individual and the external environment. When the external environment is not what he thinks, he will say that the reality is cruel. Reality has what reality should be, but we must learn to explore the laws of personnel and conform to such a way, and then we can live in reality with ease.

I want to borrow a line from Friends: Welcome to the real world, it sucks, but you're going to love it. It does suck enough, and it has quite a few of the dirtiest, most disgusting things; But I also saw the most beautiful and rare things in this world.

Summary. But we have to face the unsatisfactory in life positively, because life is not entirely our own.

What is the reality like, is it cruel? How to face it?

Life is not long, it is not short, it is all up to us how to interpret the drama of life, I believe that with hard work, the supporting role will one day become the protagonist. In this cruel and realistic society, the survival of the fittest is a thing that can be seen everywhere. If you don't work hard to live and strive for everything, you will be eliminated by this society at any time.

But we have to face the unsatisfactory in life positively, because life is not entirely our own.