There are too many excellent people, how can I regain my self confidence?

Do what you want to do, do what you're good at. Making achievements in the field you like will give you a lot of encouragement. At the same time, after being recognized by others in this field, you will feel that you are still useful, and you will become confident.

In fact, we are all excellent people, but we look at others every day, but we forget our own excellence. The most impressive thing was one time when our company asked individuals to demonstrate their work ability, and we simulated a lot of work scenarios at that time. I am ashamed to see the excellence of others.

But when I came to power, I felt that I was actually not bad, and I had a lot of my own personal thoughts. So when I presented my talents perfectly. I got first.

So in my opinion, there are many excellent people, but the one who really knows and can control the most is yourself. As long as you can get the good points of others, and then surpass them and present them in your own way, you are the best person.

I'm 97 years old and 21 years old. Engaged in the financial industry, he is currently an ordinary salesman, and now he is developing in the direction of a financier and an entrepreneur. In fact, for me, there is really no shortage of excellent talents around me, but I know that no matter how good others are, I must not have an inferiority complex, and everyone can stand in their own positions has their own place.

The best way for me to regain my confidence is to get in shape and make myself more beautiful. Work hard and make yourself rich. Improve your abilities and make yourself talented.

Establish a good sense of family responsibility and self-worth. Be responsible for your family and yourself. The wealth of society is in the hands of a few who have brains and can use their brains.

Knowledge is infinite. Let yourself continue to improve, mood, ability, appearance. All have to progress.

Keep yourself busy every day, not just busy, but do something that you like and are interested in, and you can improve from it. Everything has its learning value, see if you can dig into and develop its essence.

My direct supervisor is the most confident and charismatic person I've ever met, and he has an amazing ability to make you feel like you're the best person in the world. In fact, the same is true of those who have been particularly self-confident and charismatic throughout history.

Compared with ordinary people, they always have a way to make the people around them feel particularly happy with them. With them, you will feel great, valuable, optimistic, positive, and have a high level of self-recognition. So be kind to others, pay attention to others, and especially don't be stingy with your praise, and praise everyone around you.

Confident and charismatic people have a habit of not finding fault with others, finding fault with others, or belittling the importance of others. When you talk to them, you will feel that they will give you the most sincere attention and listening, and make you feel comfortable and relaxed. All of us are social, so we subconsciously pick up on these signals.

It is advisable to be friendly and friendly, to be approachable, and to learn to listen.

Good things are grinding. Hone yourself in life, work, hardships, and hardships, make yourself stronger, and wear away difficulties. Accumulate virtue and do good.

In the house of goodness, there will be afterglow; If you don't accumulate goodness, there will be remnants. The joy of this life is nothing more than accumulating virtue and doing good. One blessing overwhelms a hundred disasters, seeking more blessings for oneself, and being content.

The way to be blessed lies in giving.

I've listened to a particularly great speaker who seems to have a penetrating voice. I myself often find that those who are particularly attractive have the gentlest and clearest voices. You'll find that whatever they say, you want to listen, and that voice is so strong that you draw you into their story.

Train your ability to speak in public, speak slowly, use simple words, and pay attention to eye contact. I won't say much about this, there are so many books on the market that teach people to speak.

The foundation is extremely important. There is no foundation for being a person and doing things, and everything is nonsense. Therefore, if you want to overcome low self-esteem, you must lay a good foundation. To be a man, we must have righteousness, and righteousness is the foundation; To do things, skills are the foundation.

Repeat the simple and correct things. Do repetitive things with your heart, and you are the winner; Do simple things repeatedly, and you're an expert. The oil that sells oil penetrates the money hole into the oil pot, and the oil does not stick; 100 steps to practice archery; All demonstrate the truth that practice makes perfect.

Positive hints: If a person always thinks that he can't do it, and always gives himself this negative hint, he will fall into a vicious circle, and if he replaces "I can't" with "I can't" to persuade and motivate himself, he will break a link in the vicious circle and inject positive content, and he can re-establish his self-confidence in learning.

2) Be good at discovering your strengths: Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and the same is true for learning, if a subject is good, you will naturally have confidence in yourself, and other subjects will also be affected by it to make significant progress. For example, some students are not good at math, but they have a strong sense of musicality, after hearing a song, they can quickly write down the tone, at first they may like this song, and because of their good memory, they have a very sensitive sensitivity to the rhythm and tone of **, so they can memorize it effortlessly, if they can realize their own advantages, this student can restore the self-confidence he once lost, not only in singing, but also in other subjects.

It can be seen that when you lose confidence in your own learning, you should explore your other strengths to find opportunities to regain your self-confidence.

Make a few more confident friends.

Most people with low self-esteem prefer to stay away from those who are confident, but in fact, doing so will only be trapped in the small circle of their own low self-esteem forever. The right thing to do is to make a few more confident friends, bravely integrate into their circle, carefully observe how they think about problems, deal with problems, think about themselves and their way of dealing with the world and looking at problems from the perspective of **, and gradually their original thinking mode will be changed. People who suffer from the cold feel warmth when they are close to the sun.

Think back to a time when you used to shine.

Thinking back to the experience of shining in the past, you will find that you have not always been so bad, you have also been confident, recalling the atmosphere and feeling at that time, imagining that you are the confident you are now, and then all the problems are solved. Successes that have long since passed can always bring strength to self-confidence.

Positive self-psychological suggestion.

Murphy's Law proves: "If you're worried about something happening, it's more likely to happen." "Unconfident mental cues can really breed unself-confidence, and self-confident psychological cues will naturally give rise to self-confidence.

If you think that you are an excellent person, you will invisibly wear a hat that has been blessed by self-confidence.

Everything should be sorted out in advance and try to be fully prepared.

Lack of self-confidence stems from not being fully prepared in advance. So before you do anything, you have to think about what you want to do, and make a simple list: 1....

2...3...For example, call someone, think about what you want to say in advance, and list the order in order of importance:

In this way, you will be orderly, not too hurried and flustered, and will not more or less avoid leaving the impression of instrength on others. Keep correcting and improving yourself, you believe in yourself, and you will look confident in the eyes of others.

Elevate the taste of wear.

A fashion designer said that when the wearing of clothes can bring a person self-confidence, at this time, the clothes are no longer beautiful or ugly, and the clothes themselves have risen to the level of a spiritual coat. Those who go to the banquet will dress up the Nine-Tails carefully so as not to be overwhelmed by the momentum of the banquet venue.

Anytime, anywhere, how do we come out? Elegantly and calmly, or still silently thinking about his own shabby in his heart. Learn it, improve the taste of wearing, choose workmanship fabrics with textured clothes to appear calmly and decently, we all need a spiritual coat to make ourselves look more confident.

7 7 has a specialty of his own.

I have a specialty of my own, which I do very well and am very passionate about. It will make your whole person look glowing. In addition, having a specialty of oneself will also form a positive mental suggestion, implying that he is also outstanding, counteracting his negative psychology of being useless, and bringing positive energy to himself.

To be confident, you must have self-confident capital.

What failure is, nothing, just brings us one step closer to success. What success is is to go through all the roads that lead to failure, and there is only one road left, and that is the road to success. Good times are unpleasant, adversity is not depressed, and desperate situations are not desperate.

As long as there are ideals as a guide, learn to be grateful and tolerant, always smile at life, and always stick to their commitments, I am not the best, but I am the hardest, I will be able to succeed.

1.When you recall your past glory, don't say no, even a little achievement, look back, you will feel very gratified.

2.Do one or a few things that you wanted to do but never did, don't care about the result, as long as you do it, it will increase your confidence.

3.Everyone is an ordinary person, and when they are not confident, go watch those inspirational stories and movies to feel the spirit of the protagonist.