I forgot about the three year relationship in three days, why am I so ruthless

Forget. A heartache ...

For me, forgetting the past is deceiving myself and others, and as long as there is a little bit of something that can be associated with the past, it is impossible for you to forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ... Isn't there a saying that says?

You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

Deliberately forget, will only remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss. Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ...

Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, TA has become "that person".

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the sky.

After a while, you will feel like something is missing from your life. You will feel a lot empty.

It's not that you're ruthless, it could be. She does things that make you have to be ruthless. Don't doubt your own judgment. 、

It's better to reflect on why you chose her in the first place... Bless you.

I don't feel like there's anything to be ruthless and affectionate, I feel like it's derived from you, and others can't change or control your feelings, right? I think it's nice to be able to let go and live happily now? Why are you troubled?

Do you feel unhappy that you have a deal? Do you feel a pity if you win a run? The principle is the same, think about it

That's just cheap I just played with it at the beginning Now there are better ones Of course I can forget it in a few days No way people are like that You're tired of her So you don't need it.

It's not that you're ruthless, it's that love hurts too much, and you're because you're too sad.

It shows that the love you once had is not worth remembering!

I'm afraid you won't believe it, and you'll remember it in two weeks or a month.