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Your boyfriend is actually very helpless, and the reason why he chooses someone else can be said to be too big of your own problem. A man has to go to work, raise 2 people by himself, and have to bear your daily temper tantrums, I don't think anyone wants to bear it. Nowadays, girls always regard themselves as masters, think that girls should spend men's money, and scold men.
Most men are broad-minded and don't care, and they really force men to be anxious, and women can only stare dryly. Do things with a degree, think more about your own problems, and analyze why your boyfriend will find someone else. I think as long as your boyfriend has a chance to change his mind, you should start from yourself and get rid of your stinky problems, women in the 21st century should hold up half the sky, live a value, don't work at home, what is the difference between this and old women?
This passage of mine sounds ugly, every sentence helps you, I hope you read it carefully!
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Give it up, 3 years at home I don't know, that is, I didn't want to have it, and it hurt even more when I dragged it.
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Give it up, you also know that he doesn't care about you, he has no public relationship, he has no plans to get married, he doesn't care about it, I think even an ordinary friend can do better than him, don't you think? There is no good result in persevering, really don't be stupid, 3 years is not short, if you want to say long, it's okay, what obsession do you have that you can't let go? Is he handsome, or do you feel like you're spending time and affection on him?
It's too late to let go now, let go one step earlier, one step ahead of you, the later you consume, the greater the loss, and then think back after a while, letting go is simpler than you imagined.
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Are you sure that people are not married yet, or they don't have a real girlfriend, maybe there are dozens of people like you outside?
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If that's the case, he doesn't love you, be careful.
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My gut tells me that you are "spare".
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Don't give up on this. I'm causing trouble for myself.
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has not been public for 3 years together, which shows that there is no real recognition and recognition of each other.
Whether such a concealment is unintentional or intentional is only known to you! If it is not suitable, give up early, and after a long time, you will get used to it and it will be difficult to get out.
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Hello, I'm Lemon Psycho-Emotional Mentor Enron. He is also a special emotional expert of Lemon Psychological Counseling.
After 3 years together, there is no publicity, rarely meets, and there is little company, so that you can't feel the other party's love for you, you want to prove whether he cares about your temptation, and you want to hit the wall in reply. The whole paragraph of the narration can feel how tired you are persevering.
First, do you really know each other, and what is the reason why they have not been public for 3 years?
Second, what is it about him that draws you in and keeps you going in this relationship that there is little to no response?
Third, in the face of such a situation, what is the reason why you are reluctant to leave?
Although you have been dating for 3 years, there is no profound communication in your description, and what is the reason why you can't let go.
You are very tired and insecure about this relationship, and you want to get it from the other party, but the other party feels very poor, and can give you very little, what is your own need to persist in such a situation?
In a relationship, if the other person chooses not to make the relationship public, it may mean that he has not accepted you. Our relationships need to be open to family, relatives, and friends, as their blessings and support will make the relationship stronger.
Companionship and communication in a relationship are important, and by understanding each other's needs and meeting each other's needs, the relationship can be more durable. We are needed in relationships to embody a sense of self-worth.
He didn't give you any of this, and a person's loneliness in a relationship is not worthy of praise.
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In this way, it seems that you are not in love at all, and he has no idea of marrying you, maybe he is married, and you are just solving your needs, and you just have no feelings in the past three years.
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If you have loved, don't regret it, if love comes to an end, don't be reluctant to be together, let love have a way to live.
When you want to have a loveless relationship, when you break it, you can show the true nature of love.
The days without love do not mean that happiness will be far away, and if you replace a love that does not belong to you, you will not lose yourself in the pain of love, but you can choose the right one.
Replacing an expired love is not because of your cruelty, but because you are responsible for yourself and others.
When starting a new love, you have to understand what you really want, if you are blindly confused and just fall in love for the sake of falling in love, it will not be fun to get out of control. It's easy to say and not difficult to do, but love will always hurt (unless you don't have true feelings).
Replace the expired love, and the new love has not yet appeared, in order to make a person's life also wonderful, you can go on a trip and completely relax yourself between the mountains and rivers; Or go to a friend's party, inject yourself with vitality in the laughter and jokes with your friends, and when you are in a good mood, a bright future will naturally await you.
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What does time say? "The love that stays strong won't last long." Those who should go will eventually go, find a quiet corner to lick their wounds, and welcome their own happiness.
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If the relationship is gone, it will be good to get together and disperse, or if you can't get married if you can't cultivate, it is also a doomed thing a long time ago, and love will not be separated.
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I also just broke up, I understand your mood very well, the inappropriate two people will still be separated in the end no matter how long they are together, the long pain is better than the short pain, the recent time to enrich yourself, avoid being alone, I wish us to come out of this failed relationship as soon as possible.
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It's not that there are lovers, and they can't become dependents after all.
Apprentice. The master gives you a sentence "Fate is not cherished, fate is not a pity to leave" What is yours is yours, and if you are separated, you have so many brothers with you. I want to open a point.
If your online boyfriend is now working stably can support you, support your family, and give you a sense of security, and you won't have so much pressure when you work, you won't have feelings for that man, and it is precisely your boyfriend's lack of aggressiveness that pushes your heart over there, men, you can not have a lot of money, you can not be handsome. But you must not be without a sense of responsibility and initiative!! In fact, even if you leave him, it's not because of money, it's because you can't see hope, people always go for good, but you shouldn't give him a chance, after all, you chose him in the first place, or because you love him, if this man you give him a chance, he is still indifferent, then just give up, it's not worth wishing you happiness.
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