I m about to break down! What else can I do for her? What should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The first thing I want to say after reading your question is! You love her, you really have to help her quit this! Otherwise, no matter how good you are to her, the most important thing is still not done for her!!

    It's true!! I've never touched this thing, but I know how harmful it can be! And what I want to say is that people are like this, others treat themselves a lot better, for a long time, although there will still be some touches, but after a long time you get used to it, you won't feel anything, don't you think?!

    So instead of how you treat her well and do this and that for her, the first and most important thing you don't do! Quitting that stuff is the most important thing, you know! How to quit, you just check it yourself to find out When people grow so big, they should know what is the most important thing to do first!

    Otherwise, you are not mature enough, let alone how you love her, love her, and take care of her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you really love her, I think she'll think for you! I don't know much about drug use, but if you are really good for her, you still advise her not to get entangled with her so-called sisters!

    Feelings in this area rely on each other's mutual trust and understanding of each other to last a long time

    I still wish you well!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Have you tried going out with her for the night out and enjoying her interests with her?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take her to another place if possible!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Can't stop her, can't bother yourself, why don't you go with her preferences?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can relate to that, you really love this person, but have you ever wondered why you like her? What do you like about her? What is the difference between her and ordinary women?

    I guess she must be attracted to you in character! Do you like this kind of personality that worries you all day? In fact, there are many good women, there is no need to give up the whole forest for one woman, why not find a woman who is good for herself and worried about herself?

    It's actually very simple to let go of her, try to transfer the kindness you have to another person and you will be rewarded!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is it drug use? Well, it's really a bit difficult to do, but I believe that sincerity will move people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If not, I don't think loving someone should be so hard, unless the time is not right. You should work harder.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I was also focused on when I was in high school, and I can completely understand your situation, the pressure there is really ......But now that it's here, don't be too anxious and worried, don't put too much pressure on yourself psychologically, otherwise you will collapse before you learn well Besides, don't think about being anxious all day long, but study hard, the foundation is the most critical for you, firm basic knowledge, do more basic questions, and take your time from shallow to deep You are still a sophomore in high school, and there is still time, don't worry, too much mental pressure will affect your ability to play, come on!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is a saying: you may not be the best, but you are the most special!

    Just try to do the best you can

    Do my best without regrets!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let go of the collapse and do something you love before studying.

    There may be an unexpected reward

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Go your own way and let others say go!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not that you can't really make up for it, it's just a stubborn idea on your part. Just refuel and spend a few nights. Let's get some of the basics right first. I used to be in a similar situation to you, believing in myself and the future is in my own hands.

    Work hard, try hard!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Compared to the 20th place in the class, it doesn't matter if the gap is not big.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Trust in your own abilities! I'm going to call you senior or senior, I'm going to take the high school entrance exam this year, and I think it's best to believe in yourself and put in the effort.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Diligence redeems stupidity. Be diligent and inquisitive. understand?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    But if you can't get into high school, how can you get into a good university?

    Even if you can make a difference in college, you can't get into a good university without a good college entrance examination score in high school.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    At present, you have jumped into a strange circle, that is, failure--> lack of confidence--> failure--> even less confidence--> failure!

    After reading your experience from beginning to end, remove the part where you are not confident, 2 feelings, you are too impulsive to work in a hotel, and you are too eager to make a big profit in 3 years.

    You have opened a studio, worked as a restaurant worker and were quickly promoted, and have had a lot of experiences that you can be proud of or better. Although the studio couldn't do it later, the hotel couldn't put you on the throne in order to maintain stability. You say that you feel that you are very incompetent and that the world is unfair to you, then please look at the farmers who are diligent and diligent every day to grow food in the fields, please look at the workers who move bricks and live cement on the construction site every day regardless of wind or rain, and please look at the street sweeper who cleans the road every day.

    Each of them is seriously doing their own thing, and they can't do these things because you are stumped? You're not incompetent, you're not calm down to do it! The driver's license thing, you are reluctant, one failure at a time, let you artificially deepen the subconscious of not wanting to do it, not wanting to do it, a thing that you don't want to do from the bottom of your heart, how can you succeed!

    Girlfriend thing, I think you'd better put it aside for now. Adjust your mindset first. Whether you can give her happiness or not, first of all, you have to have a positive attitude, if you don't believe that you can give her happiness, then you will never be able to give her happiness.

    Man, stand up when you fall in**!

    Empty your mind of everything else, calm down, think about the problems that have occurred in the previous exams, and practice in a targeted manner! You're going to have to fight with your driver's license starting today! People can pass the test with a 60-year-old man and a woman, you are a young man, not disabled, not mentally retarded, there is no reason why you can't pass the test.

    The experience of failing the test in the past is the cornerstone of your success, even if there will be 1 or 2 times you will not be able to pass the test, I believe you will definitely pass the test! You must pass this hurdle! Otherwise, you will really be completely defeated, and in the future, it will take more effort to rise again than now!

    Man, you can cry, find a corner, and cry bitterly!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're at a low point right now, if you really lie down, you've been lying down all your life, it's hard for you to think about anything, it's hard to get a driver's license, it's hard to get promoted, why don't you want to think about whether it's hard to eat? Is it difficult for Mom and Dad to give birth to you, don't be defeated by reality.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm not trying to persuade you, I've told you everything I should say, I've known you for 5 or 6 years, and I'm a good friend, and I have a certain understanding of you, no matter how much you love your girlfriend, how much you've paid for her in the past, the past is always in the past, don't you think you're selfish if you go on like this? You only care about thinking about your Suna, but you don't care about the feelings of your family at all, don't you feel chilled when you raise a son to treat your parents like this? There are also those who have helped you, they help you because they want to see a new you and hope you have a good future.

    If you simply don't have the heart to take the road ahead. Why accept help from others and let them worry about you and be disappointed in you? A person in society not only lives for himself, but also should have a sense of responsibility, not to mention that you are still a man who stands up to the sky.

    You should be responsible for what you do, responsible for your mom and dad, responsible for everyone who cares about you. People live not only for their own happiness, but also think about the people who care about you. We have already said everything we can say, if you don't want to be a good person, we can't care so much, after all, everything we can do has already been done.

    If you keep going like this again and again, anyone will be disappointed in you. The people who help you also want to be rewarded, and their reward is to see that you can come out of the pain, so that they can see that their efforts are really helpful to you.

    The road ahead is still up to you, if you still choose to continue to fall like this, no one can stop you. But at that point, I thought you would really be left with nothing.

    Now that I'm an adult, I should think about what I've done during this time. Don't let everyone lose faith in you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is estimated that she is going for money, a woman like this, together with the ups and downs, you still love her, is it worth it?

    Be full of yearning for a new life!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I'm serious, landlord, it's okay if you don't want this kind of woman, you are a hundred times better to him, but she cares about you silently, is she so worthy of your love? She has done so many sorry things, and she has to redeem it? As the saying goes"The old one doesn't go, and the new one doesn't come again"`

    Start over on your own, find your past, good men are ambitious in all directions, and they are vigorously doing their careers, don't those girls come to revolve around you? Listen to me, landlord, give up on her, she is not worth your cherishment!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Dude, does she really love you??? If a woman says she doesn't love you, then it's true??

    I advise you not to be stupid.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not worth it, try to let go, your tomorrow will be better.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I envy how sincere your love for her is. But it's not that you can't force it, so let it be. Some of them are easy to say, but they are hard to do, but don't regret anything if you try your best. There will always be a rainbow in the sky after the storm.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love is consensual! I advise you not to embarrass her again! She doesn't love you, and your love for her is also a pain in her face!

    You can try to distract yourself, some love doesn't need to be so persistent! Time can make you less miserable! Do something you're interested in!

    Don't go to extremes! Because it's dead! There is nothing left, live your life well, and the angels waiting for you to watch over you at your next stop!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The love you give is too heavy....

    A man can love a woman very much, but he must also learn to love himself first....Loving her doesn't mean doing everything for her...

    Love is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will drain!!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you're leaving, why should I stay?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Patient, is such a woman worth it? You don't do it to gain sympathy, do you?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You just say that if you don't follow me, I'll kill you, if you really don't follow you, you will really kill her, and then shoot you! Then the five horses split their bodies. Into the eighteen layers of hell.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you love her, treat her well, if you really love each other, why not wait until you get married?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Think about yourself, whether you have this ability, don't be blind, otherwise you will hurt her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I don't know how your problem is, I have a similar experience, but don't be too infatuated, or you'll be miserable.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Isn't it OK to have her, possess her, and get married?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Do everything responsibly, so please think clearly!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    How do you feel as if you want to hold her, it doesn't feel right, I can't teach you!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Do you love her? Want to be with her? Think about this first!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then you don't want to think about it, does she want to get you, have you, possess you?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It doesn't seem like love, it's dominance, it's not right.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Do you really love her? Listen to you say that miscellaneous is so terrifying.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I feel that I am going to collapse, there must be a lot of pressure, and now I have put you out of breath, I must release it, I can't let myself fall into painful torment, so you have to release it, you can come to the beach or the mountain, shout it out, release the depression in your heart, so that it will have a good effect, you must choose rationally, so it will be of great help to your body and mind.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Everyone has some bottlenecks and feels like they're about to collapse! Regulate yourself.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You can go to a psychologist. Let him help you talk to another colleague or friend about the situation. Let your colleagues and friends give you some experience.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Losing control is the norm in life.

    As cruel as it sounds, the truth is that this kind of loss of control is not uncommon: you love your husband with all your heart and think you are very happy, and suddenly one day he says to you, "Let's get a divorce, I'm in love with someone else". Your heart hurts so much that you can't breathe, and you have to get up hard to take care of the baby who is waiting to be fed;

    The smooth sailing business suddenly encountered a **, and the loss was incomplete, and there was no hope of a comeback;

    You've been proud of others, but one day you find that you can't sleep smoothly anymore, you start taking medicine, but you still find yourself staring at the ceiling until ...... dawnThe more uncertain the situation we face, the higher our anxiety levels and the more likely we are to feel powerless and fearful.

    Out of control will accelerate our growth.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Why do you feel like you're breaking down? What was the cause of the crash? In fact, people's lives are very unsmooth, and everyone can't be smooth sailing, so it is said. It's good to get through this period of time and get through.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you're going to collapse, it's a big deal, and then release your mood.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If you feel particularly depressed, don't hold it by yourself, as it will make you sick. You can find an open place to vent and throat a few times. Or maybe find someone you can trust to talk to.

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