Han Geng: If you regret it, then you won t be able to succeed anymore, what life principles did your

Han Geng said: "If you regret it, then you won't be able to succeed again." In fact, this is a philosophy of life, and you must not regret being a person and doing things.

If you regret it in your heart, you will definitely not be able to succeed. Unless you have done something very wrong and cannot make up for it, then it is normal to regret such a thing. Don't regret something.

Now that you've done it, have the courage to accept the consequences. For failure, it is not as terrible as people think. As long as you work your own in the future, you can shape success.

1. My parents taught me to be down-to-earthMy parents taught me to be down-to-earth. To be a human being, you really need to be down-to-earth. No one succeeds in one step.

If you always want to achieve success through shortcuts when doing something, then if you have such a mentality, you will not be able to succeed in doing anything, but will only lead to failure. <

2. My parents taught me not to be half-hearted in doing thingsMy parents taught me not to do things half-heartedly. Doing things really requires single-mindedness. Only those who do things wholeheartedly will be successful.

3. My parents taught me to be low-keyMy parents taught me to keep a low profile. Only by keeping a low profile can you achieve the future you want. Low-key people are the ones who really have personal talents.

On the road of life growth, in fact, their parents will teach each child a lot of things. First of all, we need to educate our children on how to be human beings and how to think about their own lives. Having parents grow up with their children can be of great help.

After the age of eighteen, we are adults, and some decisions need to be made by ourselves, and whether we have the courage to do something decisively is far more important than whether we can do it successfully.

Our parents taught us that we should be persistent in doing things, and we can't be half-hearted, otherwise you won't succeed in doing anything and won't get anything. Only by being down-to-earth can we make a difference.

My parents taught me not to choose comfort at the age of struggle, and to become a superior person only when I have to endure hardships. To be a man, we must have the spirit of enduring hardships first and pleasures last. To identify one thing, we must be down-to-earth and persistently accomplish it.

We must have our own principles in life and work, and we should be more sincere and less hypocritical, which will make life more meaningful.

My parents told me to be down-to-earth in everything, not to be ambitious, and to work hard. Only when you put in the energy, that is the most down-to-earth.

My parents taught me to look forward regardless of success or failure, and not to stop, let alone to go back, so that you are not far from success.

The life principle that my parents taught me is to persevere in everything I do, which makes me not give up easily when I encounter any difficulties in the future.

Mother: When looking for a boyfriend, don't look for someone who only lets you spend money, but you can't let him spend money on everything, you have to pay for everything. Father:

You can't just because you're a girl and you don't have to do a lot of things, you have to do what boys still do, you have to have an independent mind; Grandparents: When others need you, you can help with your heart. Whenever you need someone else, be more polite, after all, it's a troublesome person.

I have always been grateful to my parents for cultivating the three views for me.

Women must be financially independent, they can't be housewives at home, you can spend men's money a day or two, but after a long time, you will have no right to speak; Don't be a strong woman, too strong, let the husband have pressure, and then the husband and wife will not be in harmony; Sweep the floor first, then wet and mop it again, sprinkle some dish soap, mop it again, and finally mop it again with a dry mop.

My mother is already an old man in her sixties, and she has the kindness, diligence, and timidity that are characteristic of rural women. My mother's life has not experienced ups and downs, but her decades of ordinary life have been very tormented. I don't want to inherit my mother's cowardice and timidity, her kindness and obedience did not win her a comfortable life, on the contrary, she wasted her life for the unworthy.

In fact, in daily life, the way my parents do things, the attitude of dealing with people, will subtly affect our future life, from childhood to adulthood, my parents taught me a lot of things, many are not clearly said in words, but in daily life to do, I am very happy to share with you: small things do not care, big things do not be confused; Don't be lazy, it's hard for a lazy person to live a good life; Filial piety to the elderly, God has its own blessings, the family should be united and harmonious, and the family and everything will be prosperous; Do more good deeds, although the blessing has not come, the disaster has been far away, and I believe that there are gods three feet up.

If you want to really have a good relationship with others, no matter how much rhetoric is useless, who can not see that little trick, after a long time, people will think that you are a very fake person, the most important thing between people is sincerity, you treat others sincerely, people will be able to feel, stand in the other party's perspective and put yourself in the shoes of others, let people feel that you are really good for him, this is enough. What kind of high emotional intelligence, good eloquence is too empty, and after a long time, it is the most important thing to do your duty and do your part.

Mom, her old man has been industrious and thrifty all her life, and now she is still unaccustomed to being looked down upon by her son and daughter-in-law when she is old. The child has just entered the first grade, I have only been unemployed for half a month, urging me to find a job, alone with the child, my husband goes out at 8 o'clock in the morning and comes back at 8 o'clock in the evening, I have no education and I can't find any suitable job, my husband said that I just need to take my son well. Mom always says that you haven't looked for something to do, what about your living expenses with your children.

Mom has worked hard to support the three of us all her life, and now she wants me to follow his old path, I forget it, raising children is a man's business. It's really not worth it to see my mother's life.

Parents are the first teachers of our children, they began to educate us when we were very young, taught me the principles of being a human being, taught us how to get along with others, what they knew, what they didn't know, what they experienced, or what they didn't experience, they taught us, and they couldn't wait to teach us all the principles of how to behave in the world. Everyone can understand that our parents are doing this for our good, and they don't want us to be wronged, so they teach us what they feel and understand in advance. However, the times are different, and some truths are no longer suitable in today's society, although we know that our parents are for our good, but we can't go wrong because of love and morality, and even lead to serious consequences.

My parents have been transmitting to me the kind of more serious thoughts, according to their thinking, what identity and what to do, as a student, you should study hard, things other than study have nothing to do with you, before going to college, I think this sentence is particularly true, everyone with different identities has their own things to do, we can't cross the line.

When I went to college, I found that my parents' words were not entirely correct, as a student, learning is important, but they are already college students, so they can't just study alone, which can easily cause high scores and low ability. Of course, learning is our top priority, we only need to complete the study plan, we can do other things, university, social practice is very important, can be a good exercise of our ability. University is a small society, we have to learn to communicate with people, different people have different characteristics, and when we interact with them, we have to learn to observe words and colors.

To be a man is to dedicate oneself selflessly.

I think this kind of talk has affected me for more than ten years, and finally caused me to be physically and mentally exhausted, and in the end, others said that I was fake and a good person. Because to be honest, it is impossible for people who are not related by blood to be particularly sincere together, just like your parents give to you selflessly and do not ask for anything in return, that is impossible. At the very least, the other party needs to give a compliment or a corresponding return, even if it is emotional mutual care.

That's why I'm such a naïve and two-handed person. Because when I was a child, I grew up with my grandparents, and the people in that life were all raised by the influence of revolutionary culture, and I was instilled with the spirit of Lei Feng since I was a child. And my grandmother often taught me that you must learn to be selfless and not too selfish, so that no one else will like you.

So I persistently listened to my grandmother's words, and I must be selfless. But I am a child in a single-parent family, and I also long for the selfless love of others, but who do I want from others? So later, I slowly distorted my grandmother's words, and felt that as long as I was selfless and helpful, the other party would definitely treat me well and give me selflessly in the same way.

For a real-life person, such an idea can be taken for granted. Human nature is selfish, and if you are not good to others, others will be good to you. Without a great spirit (the idea of a fool), it is simply impossible to be selfless and unrequited.

Later, my selflessness also became blindly trying to please others and do things according to other people's faces, but I am not one of those opportunistic villains, the premise is that I don't ask for anything in return, so later my friends around me are used to my goodness and feel that everything I should do. Later, after experiencing some things, I realized that people should live for themselves first, not for others.

It makes sense, you don't have to be aggressive, but you have to live steadily.

But Qingchun, it's a pity not to fight.

Parents have their own reasons for not asking for you, and their distress and rebellion will ruin their son's future.

But their educational methods are not scalable.

Suffering is a blessing, and you should understand this sentence. What kind of education is this! It's definitely not right, the heart is not right, and you can eat deliciously?

I accidentally went to jail. Honesty and kindness will always be respected, but occasionally you will suffer a little, but you are worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth, you are not afraid of anything if you live a frank life, it doesn't matter if you suffer a little loss in society, just be a kind person.

What kind of education is this! It's definitely not right, the heart is not right, and you can eat deliciously? I accidentally went to jail. Honesty and kindness will always be respected, but occasionally a little loss, but worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth, and not afraid of anything if you live a frank life.

, should understand this sentence. What kind of education is this! It's definitely not right, the heart is not right, and you can eat deliciously? I accidentally went to jail. Honesty and kindness are always respected, but that's all.

It's not just reasonable, it's the essence.

However, in your generation, the application is still due to [purification and expansion], otherwise I may not be able to catch up with the pace of the times.

There are many people with slippery heads and bad hearts who have money and status in society, but there are also many sarcastic blows to such people. It is a basic rule of society that deception and evil ways must be punished by law when they reach a certain level, and those who do not reach the level of legal punishment will also be condemned. They are sometimes given a lot of benefits, sometimes they are condemned or punished, and their lives are actually a lot of suffering and little happiness.

Honest people will not be condemned and punished by these things, and their lives are relatively stable and less troubled, so the lives of honest people are also good.

Don't listen to your parents' one-sided words.

It's better not to listen to this kind of education advice!

This statement may be true in a particular context. However, in a normal social environment, if everyone interacts and gets along with each other according to this line of thinking, then the result can be imagined, and there is no sincerity, friendliness, harmony, care, understanding, tolerance, and justice ......How to survive in the end? How does society develop?

It may be difficult to even marry a wife.

Perhaps, your parents have had too much deceit and intrigue in their past experiences, which led to extremism, or maybe they are educating you by "talking back", but no matter what angle you are, you should understand what is right and what is good.

Personally, I've always believed: it's harder to be kind than smart. Being smart is a gift, and being kind is a choice!

The reality is cruel, the world is not beautiful, but it is not so ugly, you repay kindness to the world, and one day the world will give you warmth! In the same way, if you take ill will be towards the world, one day these things will be ** to yourself. There is an old saying in China that "suffering losses is blessings, and those who are willing to suffer losses will not suffer losses in the end, and the more unwilling to suffer losses, the more people will really suffer big losses."

Of course, you can't always (all the time) suffer, otherwise you will really be a "fool".

Success is like building a house, the foundation is laid and solid, the house will not fall, you have to step by step, step by step, down-to-earth foundation to lay a solid foundation, the house will stand.

Remember a truth: kindness must have a bottom line, and generosity must have principles. Indiscriminately, just know how to be good to others, that will live up to your own kindness.