I am very confused in my career and relationship

First of all, career: you can enrich yourself and work hard to prove your values, the police have no future, although the police salary is a little lower, but you can be examined for example, for example, if you are admitted to the civil service, you are not admitted to the test to show that you are not hard enough to continue to work hard, what you have to do is to believe in yourself, do not have any psychological pressure, you have gone through three years, summarize the reasons for your failure, in order to make up for it! Three hundred and sixty lines of the line out of the champion, don't see what people do to make money and follow the trend, if you don't pay to make money, how is it possible, right, come on!

Secondly, emotionally: you have to face your heart, do you want to fall in love or want to find a confidante, the first girlfriend separated because the family did not agree, if you really love each other, do you think there will be a barrier between you, obviously not, the second is very ordinary, but life is not full of ordinary, vigorous life, it is based on the premise that you are very successful and rich in your work, she is honest, and loves you very much, it is not enough, although it is a little immature, But why should you be so mature in front of the person you like, maturity is for outsiders to see, in front of the person you like is the heart, she is suitable to be your wife, to be the person who accompanies you through this life! Third, since it is unlikely that she will come back, and you have not progressed any further, you should know that there is no hope between you, so you can ignore it!

What's so confusing now!

Only when you do a good job in your career can you have feelings.

Love is inclusive, not indulgent.

Love is caring, not pampering.

Love is a blend of love, not unrequited love.

Love is all kinds of flavors, not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love warms not only themselves, but also the worldly hearts.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

If you already have a rare love, two people should take care of it seriously; If you are still looking for love in the vast sea of people, you need to show yourself well in front of the person you like.

Career is a person based on the society, to meet the needs of life security, career development, ability + luck + experience, just like the time + location + people, a moment of failure or setback, let you feel lost, it is this confusion, will let you adjust your mentality, deal with the perfect, your career on the road baptism once, please treat your confusion correctly, give full play to your talents to overcome, at the same time, under the nourishment of love, the career will rise steadily!!

Good luck!

1. The choice is greater than the strength of the effort, and anyone will have a chance to have a chance to succeed in the end, such as.

I really feel that what I am doing is not suitable for me, so I give up decisively!

2. The person you marry may not really be your favorite one, or the one you idealize. The fact is that the vast majority of people who are within the walls of marriage will have a situation where there is one around them and another in their head. It is theoretically possible for a beloved wife and a confidant to be the same person, but after all, most of them will not be the same, so what I want to tell you is:

Donor, you're a little greedy, adjust yourself"!

3. It is recommended to focus on the career, no matter what you have in your head, if you want to turn it into reality, you need strength, what is strength I believe you can know, if you lose this, are you ready to shout I love you for 10 years, or 50 years?

Actually, it's very complicated.

One thing about bai.

Confused, a lot of people are like that. zhi

1. If you don't have the experience of working and copying and a group of friends to do business on your own, it is not good to do it, 2. It is recommended that you find a suitable one, work for a few years, pay attention to learning how to do business when working, and learn more about the company's industry insider.

3. If your girlfriend really doesn't like it, then make it clear to her, in fact, the relationship is reluctant, and the marriage will be unhappy if you get married in a daze.

4. Let your parents, relatives or people from the same village introduce you to work, and the man must support the family.

The cause is bai

Love cannot be involved.

du。Love zhi can not be urged by the family and many external reasons to be around, the power to decide love is only your own feelings, marriage only once in a lifetime must not settle. And no one says that you can't find someone without a job, so what's the point if he likes you for your job?

We all understand that we can't have both, but the reality is that we all want to have both. Brothers.

DAO, have you ever thought about going back.

Now the answer is that the job is not going well because your energy is not all focused on your work, and when you are tired of many things, it determines that your career will not be successful. Focus on one thing to really make a difference, and at this stage you should first measure your age and what you want most. It's okay to choose one to start a family first, or to start a business first, but don't try to do it with two colleagues, you don't have so much energy.

Adjust your mentality, start from scratch, try not to put yourself under too much pressure, in fact, some things are not a big deal, and if you look down on them, you will find your way.

First, if you are young, you will work hard Don't work hard when you're young When you work hard Don't regret it when you're old Do you have feelings If you don't love him, let him go, it's not good for anyone You should be wrong for others You can't afford to mistake the girl's youth Then look for it when the time comes.

Success depends on opportunity and hard work, even if you work hard, but there is no opportunity, there is no hope, relationship problems, can you be in love for a long time, want to open a point.

The partner can be found again, and if you can't make your own decisions when you get married, what else can you expect from yourself? Your family is all for your good, and since you want to start a business, you must be able to withstand pressure and failure. If one path doesn't work, you can change the way, and you can always find the right way.

Just keep it up, just keep it up. As for girlfriends, you don't have to be forced to accept them under pressure from home. Listen to your heart.

Career, woman, if you want to have both, then you can only move forward slowly, look ahead, and think left and right. If you put all your energy into your career now, when you have a small success in your career, women will also have it naturally. Love needs feelings, and of course marriage needs more.

That's why Yang began to collapse, are you magnifying the pressure infinitely? Young to toss.

If you don't like it, you can divide it, you are still young, you have energy and time, and it will be good to adjust your mentality after a while.

Communicate well with your family, let them know what you want, and if the girlfriend introduced by your family doesn't like it, don't force it, spread it out on the table and explain it, otherwise it will be a mistake. It's normal to have a little bumpy at work, just get your mind right and get through it.

It turns out that I'm pretty much good.

Who waits until they lose to know how to cherish it?

You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

So when you lose him, you will think that he is valuable, if you cherish him at the beginning, he will not leave you now. Cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame.

In everyone's life, you will meet a lot of people, all kinds of personalities, all kinds of different people, how many are your bosom friends?

And how many people love themselves deeply? And how many of them do you love? Instead of seeking thousands of times, it is better to cherish the people in front of you.

Love is not to wait for you to be free to cherish, we meet, it is fate, for this fate, we may be trying to adapt to each other, everything just wants to go with the flow. If you can find a person you like, who really loves each other, it is not easy, but what a great honor, maybe everything is not what you think, not so perfect, maybe not as good as you imagined, it should not be so bad, life is not so beautiful, all happiness must be cherished and cherished, say more caring words, less blame words, people need to understand each other. Lovers likewise wish friends happiness.

1. What is the best way to be confused about the future and can't see the direction? It's about being in the moment.

2. That's right, because we started from a very low starting point, and we don't know where to go ahead, for example, I just went to elementary school, I don't know how to enter the society, how to enter, but as I continue to learn, the more I learn, the more I know, the more I know how to do it.

3. Think about one thing, what we didn't understand 3 years ago, do we understand now? I didn't accept it 1 month ago, I didn't understand it, but after 1 month of growth, I understood a lot of it.

The most important point is to do a good job in the present, if we don't do a good job in the present, how can we have the opportunity to grow? Just do nothing, watch TV every day, and grow?

Do a good job in the present, because we haven't done a good job at the moment, we strive to do a good job in the moment, the ability, just grow when doing things, to a certain point, just like doing things in the mountain, maybe you don't understand now, because you are in 100 meters, but you keep doing it, to the top of the mountain, everything is clear.

Definition of confusion: under the pressure of growth and development, individuals or organizations lack information and cognition of themselves and the outside world due to the objective "being in it", and eventually produce phenomena such as disorientation, disordered thinking, negative attitude, and weakened ability.

Overview of confusion: The external causes of personal confusion are generally the acceleration of social rhythm, increased survival pressure, career changes, changes in the family, and the influence of others.

The internal causes of personal confusion are generally immature and non-independent personal ideological system, vague values, personality weaknesses, lack or weakness of ability, insufficient scope and depth of cognition, etc.;

The biggest cost of personal confusion is time, which will cause negative development of personality, easy imbalance of mentality, easy differentiation of emotions, and unstable ability in the state of confusion;

Personal confusion will definitely affect work results, life experience, family relationships, physical and mental health, etc., and even deviate from the correct direction of life, and then lose oneself;

If you rely on yourself to get out of the confusion, the time is uncertain, the material expenses are uncontrollable, and the mental pressure is unbearable.

When you feel uncertain about your career future, please do this, and the future will be smoother and smoother!

That should be the career you really want to have, and maybe there are better ones waiting for you.

If you lack the oppression of life, ask for advice from the elderly or experienced people.

That's because you're lacking motivation.

I'm worse than you, but I'm still happy, and I'm still living without a heart, because I know that there are still many people who are not as good as mine, add your age to 15 years, see how old you are, and then think about what you can and can't do at that time? Do you think that there are still many things that can be done now, difficulties and setbacks will definitely occur, but people are busy to the end, trouble is just a little experience on your way forward, don't think about it if you don't understand, and know how to do it when you should understand......Come on.

Man is born in sorrow; There will always be ups and downs in the road, and you can only continue to walk while living, although time cannot be turned back, but efforts can also change some people and things.

I'm like you now, but not long ago I solved the emotional problem, and now it's much better, only work.

Behind the shadows is sunlight, turn around and look, and everything will be good if you figure it out.

Life is a crossroads, when we are confused, we must experience, no matter when, go on firmly, you will find that the fog will be more exciting.

What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.