Giving your husband 500 yuan a month is considered domestic violence, do you approve of it?

I think in today's day and age, 500 dollars can indeed constitute a form of domestic violence, because it is violence in terms of economic control.

In many developed countries, economic control is classified as domestic violence. In China, some places have also been explored, such as Shenzhen. And according to a survey conducted by the Shenzhen Association for the Promotion of Women's Social Organizations, the higher the economic income of the family, the higher the likelihood of "economic control".

Generally speaking, the current understanding of domestic violence in China is still at the level of physical violence, with insufficient understanding of forms of violence such as economic suppression and verbal violence, and even more shackles such as concepts such as "family ugliness should not be publicized", so that the power of the law is invisible.

First of all, domestic violence cannot always be hands-on, sometimes it is not necessary, it may be cold violence, and it may even be economic control, which is also an invisible violence, because economic control will make people very depressed, unable to raise their heads in front of others, and their lives will become tight, I think this can indeed be called a kind of domestic violence.

In fact, it is not terrible to be ** domestic violence, but it is terrible to be in the haze but not take it for granted and take it for granted. While using the law to protect rights and interests, it is also necessary to deepen legal education and polish people's eyes.

Secondly, compared with starting hands and feet, this kind of current domestic violence, hidden domestic violence, is sometimes difficult to detect, but once it erupts, it may be more harmful, which may cause deeper rifts and injuries between husband and wife, and eventually may cause the relationship between husband and wife to fall apart, and the gains outweigh the losses.

In short, domestic violence is only cold violence, and there is also hands-on violence, in contrast, cold violence is more likely to be ignored, especially if you give too little pocket money, this situation may also be interpreted into a kind of cold violence.

I think giving my husband 500 yuan of pocket money a month is not considered domestic violence, I don't do anything and I don't say anything, I don't beat and scold, and I don't deliberately fight cold, how can this be considered domestic violence?

In many developed countries, economic control is classified as domestic violence. In China, some places have also been explored, such as Shenzhen. And according to a survey conducted by the Shenzhen Association for the Promotion of Women's Social Organizations, the higher the economic income of the family, the higher the likelihood of "economic control".

Generally speaking, the current understanding of domestic violence in China is still at the level of physical violence, with insufficient understanding of forms of violence such as economic suppression and verbal violence, and even more shackles such as concepts such as "family ugliness should not be publicized", so that the power of the law is invisible.

First, let's take a look at the provisions of the Marriage Law:Husband and wife have equal status in the family", "Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of jointly owned property", "Both husband and wife have the freedom to participate in production, work, study and social activities, and one party may not restrict or interfere with the other. But if you think that giving 500 yuan of pocket money a month is financial control, it is domestic violence, thenFamilies in poor areas only have a monthly income of more than 1,000, so who is the violence they count?

Second, I don't think it is appropriate to over-interpret some people's advocacy that economic control in foreign marriages can be recognized as domestic violence. China has China's national conditions, and we cannot copy the same as those of other countries. In our country, we have not even been able to solve the problem of physical violence and sexual violence in marriage, so what kind of economic control and so on?

If every married man reports that his wife has given too little pocket money and reports domestic violence to the police, can our civil affairs department solve this kind of problem?

I think giving 500 yuan of pocket money a month is not domestic violence, and it is hypocritical to over-interpret it.

In general, there may be slight violence or even more serious physical injury caused by a mistake in general marital disputes, but the most critical difference between the perpetrators is to see whether the ultimate goal of the perpetrator is to control the other party mentally through violence. This can also explain why domestic violence is cyclical, and Li Pei usually has to go through two or more cycles of violence before the pattern of domestic violence is formed, and domestic violence can be legally recognized.

Our Penal Code

Article 260 stipulates: "Whoever abuses a family member, and the circumstances are heinous, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years, short-term detention or public surveillance." Where the crime in the preceding paragraph is committed, causing serious injury or death to the victim, a sentence of between two and seven years imprisonment is to be given. ”

Article 261 stipulates: "Whoever refuses to support a person who is old, young, sick or otherwise incapable of independent living, and the circumstances are heinous, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than five years, criminal detention or public surveillance." ”

1. How to collect evidence of domestic violence.

1. In the event of domestic violence, in addition to the two parties, the testimony of their children and neighbors is also strong evidence for determining that one party has committed domestic violence. It should be noted that in divorce proceedings, witnesses need to apply in accordance with the provisions of the law for witnesses to appear in court. The testimony of witnesses must objectively reflect the actual situation at the time, and it is necessary for the witness to appear in court in person to be questioned by the judge and cross-examined by the other party.

When a husband commits domestic violence, he should promptly ask a neighbor, a residents' committee (villagers' committee), or his unit to dissuade or mediate.

2. Audio-visual materials are a type of circumstantial evidence, which cannot be evidence that alone or directly proves the facts of the case. In addition to the need for the court to review and verify, it also needs to corroborate with other evidence in order to form a chain of evidence to be admitted, which has a lower probative effect than direct evidence, and in order to achieve the same purpose of proof, other evidence is required to corroborate. This part of the evidence mainly refers to the chat records of the two parties, the audio recordings of the other party admitting domestic violence, the video recording of the injury, etc.

3. Try to let neighbors and residents' committees know to avoid the escalation of violent incidents, and you can also ask for help from your own side, or the other party's relatives and friends, so that they can go to the scene or tell them about their misfortunes afterwards.

4. Have a sense of reporting to the police, once you are violently attacked, you must call the police in time, and the report record or inquiry record kept by the police station is a strong evidence in the future.

Does the very little pocket money that the husband gives his wife every month constitute domestic violence? In family life, both spouses have equal rights. There is also an equal right to dispose of the joint property of the husband and wife.