Can this relationship really be together? Please give me some advice.

Updated on amusement 2024-05-14
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you've been with him for two years, you know him well.

    What did he get in for?

    Can he do what he usually tells you?

    It is said that the prodigal son does not change his money when he turns back, and this is true.

    If only he did realize his problem.

    Then I believe he can really change for the better.

    And then there's the fact that it's a pretty realistic society.

    Even if he does get better, he may face a lot of difficulties when he comes out, you are a normal girl at work, and you are not very strong depending on the tone of your speech.

    You say you don't feel like there's anyone who can replace him.

    That's not true, a lot of people think that way when they have a person in their hearts, but once the two are separated, it feels lighter after a long time.

    Then it's natural for you to accept the other person.

    Time is terrifying and almost invincible.

    If you are really willing to forget about him and live your own life well.

    I wanted to spend a while not thinking about him.

    You must have forgotten about him.

    Then go and find your own happiness.

    Look at how deep your feelings are for him.

    If you can't firmly think about waiting for him, then I advise you to give up as soon as possible.

    We're all outsiders, and we don't understand how the two of you feel during the two years you've been together.

    I don't know you, I don't know him, and the answers we give aren't really helpful to you.

    The answer is in your heart if you have doubts about him.

    Then don't really think too much about it.

    As long as you put your heart into it, you will definitely be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Think rationally.

    That's gambling.

    And your boyfriend is short of gambling money.

    Talking about everything, man is indeed changing, but what is his promise that he will not repeat the mistakes of the past when he encounters difficulties.

    Think again, men are in their thirties, but women are different.

    If you feel that such love is very precious, you can keep it in your memory.

    Regret this love that doesn't belong to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's quite difficult, I think you should forgive him, his every move is completely to reconcile with you, and he has changed his mistakes, you love each other. He must be worried about you, and I can already see that you yourself are standing where you are, and who made you say that he is the good of the bad guys? You made the right decision.

    And then there's the idea that you have to see what sin he's guilty of. Whether it's gambling, hitting someone or something, if it's beating, it means that he has a short temper, but if you are really sincere to him, his emotions will be quiet.

    If it's different,。。 Anyway, I'm not against you being together, really, I wish you happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    NI You think it's easy to break up if you forget him, but sometimes it's hard to forget.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the person who has always been concerned about him is him, if you think of him, you will feel dependent, if you are willing to cook for him regardless of the smoke.

    If you love him, be brave enough to love him, don't run away, as long as the two of you are together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Once you doubt, hesitate, in fact you have given up, you don't love that much at all, now let go and be good to you and him, yes.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, love that is smooth sailing now is not very common. Love is inherently more or less contradictory and quarrelsome. And we live in this materialistic society.

    In a relationship, we will face many, many, all kinds of problems. So if you know that the relationship between you is difficult, should you still be together?

    If the values of both of you are based on the attitude of solving difficulties and solving problems when there are difficulties, and solving problems when there are problems. It is still necessary to be together. Because I want to do something successfully.

    There are bound to be many difficulties, and often it will not be smooth sailing. As long as you analyze the problem in front of the two people, and discuss the reasonable way to solve the problem. Ability to communicate effectively.

    As long as it is not a matter of principle, as long as it is not an insurmountable problem, as two people grow, these problems will be solved one by one over time. However, when there is a problem, it is often a time to test whether the relationship between two people is strong. Two people must firmly believe that problems or difficulties can be overcome, rather than thinking that it would be better to change someone after encountering difficulties.

    As long as the relationship is strong, your relationship is strong, and the problem is natural, it can be resolved in a variety of ways.

    However, if you encounter difficulties in the process of getting along, you cannot communicate in time. Can't find an effective solution to the vertical light. It's just a quarrel or a cold war.

    No matter how much time passes, there are still so many problems in front of us. You are destined to be separated. Because when dealing with feelings, it is necessary for both parties to take responsibility, face problems, and solve problems.

    Instead of blindly complaining, shirking responsibility, and blindly complaining about the other party.

    It is very important to find people who think the same way. The problem of two people can never be solved by one person. On the one hand, it is because a person is weak.

    On the other hand, for all the difficulties that arise because of two people, both parties are responsible. As long as two people are in the spirit of maintaining their relationship, for long-term development, in order to have a happy ending, do not abandon each other, do not retreat, and face difficulties with courage, this relationship will last for a long time, and the difficulties between you will be solved.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. It is a lucky thing to be able to love someone. In the visible universe of 14 billion light-years, meeting that person is the greatest miracle. There are so many people in this world, who have never met the person who can be remembered with the word "love" in their lives, they have never been hurt, but they have never burned.

    But you still remember the curvature of the corners of his mouth when he smiled, the body temperature he held you, the pair of clear and slender hands he held you, the kiss you once kissed, and the streets and alleys you walked. The existence of these memories is the most beautiful thing.

    2. Love is your own business. You love him, and you can be humbled to the dust in this love, but don't ask whether this love is good enough at the right time and place, and don't speculate about why you can't be together. When you love someone, everything you do is not called giving, it is a natural reaction in the name of love.

    You have your affection, and he has his life. Even if you love someone but you can't get him, you start to become melancholy and irritable, but that's okay, because when you really have to go through the stage of loving someone, all the pain and sorrow will be something that you will be happy with.

    3. If you can't be together, you can't be together, and your life is not that long. We're all in the end, but it's a pity that my end isn't you. Love needs regrets, regrets are not perfect, but they are fulfillment.

    You have to be better and better for the person you love, and make loving him a thing that makes both of you happy and grateful. Because love is not for getting, love is the best feeling for yourself. Also, don't regret and sigh after you've loved, clean up your mood, you still have to marry the next person.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel a pity that we have feelings between us, but we can't be together, because it's not easy to meet someone who likes each other, and the most regrettable thing is that kind of relationship that has no fate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I won't feel sorry for it, because I'll meet someone better, and the relationship will fade over time, and I won't have feelings for the other person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm sure I'll feel a pity. People, for what they can't get, they will always think about it, thinking all the time, they have feelings, but they can't be together, of course, it's a pity, after all, it's not easy to meet.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'd think it's a pity. Having feelings but not being together can only mean that I am destined to be inseparable from him, and he is not the person who can spend my life with me after all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a pity.,But if the result of not being together can't be changed, you can only accept it.,Maybe he's really not the right person.。

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a pity that the most regrettable thing for people with feelings is that they have no fate, and whenever they think of this person in the future, they will feel faint heartache and regret.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes. Because in life, it is not easy to like each other, but I didn't expect to be together for other reasons, what a pity.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It would be a pity. It's obvious that they like each other, but they can't come together for various reasons, and the relationship that has no result will be a pity.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It will definitely be a pity. There are indeed many, many important things in life, and the people who are more important than love, and finally come together to live together for a lifetime, are not the people who promised to never give up their lives and join hands together.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You have feelings for each other, but I feel sorry not to be together. Because this feeling of love is the most uncomfortable, I have to learn to let go and adjust my mentality.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you think it's not appropriate, take the initiative to separate, so as not to hurt yourself, treat feelings, don't be too hot, when the time comes, you will be hurt, only to regret the beginning, if you really think it's good, but try to wait, maybe he will have some deep meaning. Don't miss out on a person who could have been good because of a moment of doubt.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's been so long and I haven't asked you for a **number, and I haven't called you**???Either I'm really not too interested in you, or I'm really too honest, I'm embarrassed to ask for it, but my boyfriend is also honest when he chases me, but people dare to ask for a **number, I think it's a little strange to get along for a month and don't want a **number, you'd better observe more, anyway, you're not a loss, right??

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The age gap between you is too big for you to understand what he thinks at his age.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hehe, if you like it, say it out loud and be brave enough to say it to him

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Loaded*,T up.

    It's a shame that they haven't started yet, but at the same time, you'll be glad that they haven't started yet.

    you are still young , and you don't need to be in a hurry to get emotional things .

    I wish you good luck.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    LZ seems to be dating online instead of engaging in a partner!

    Like you, it's also an elder or a friend who introduced you, but now I don't think you can even know each other, if it's a very serious introduction to want you to date, it's too hasty, at least you have to know his **, know what he looks like.

    As LZ said, this man's work is very busy, but it should be very simple to take the time to meet him again, or post a ** or something on the Internet.

    If LZ really wants to have a relationship with him, don't chat on the Internet first, you can't talk about anything, maybe you don't feel good after you meet, so isn't it a waste of time now. Just tell him that you want to meet to see how it feels, and then give him your opinion, whether to be an ordinary friend or a boyfriend and girlfriend, in short, now that the chat is hot, there is always a feeling that you are very rash

    Since you really want to talk about friends, it's better to be more formal.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, the problem with the two of you is that you have a bad temper, and over time, you can't stand the accommodation. So he broke up with you. The most important thing you should do is to change your temper, after this experience, you will understand that feelings are not easy, how much you care, so in order to be good, you should be able to understand the necessity of changing your temper.

    Think of him, try to plank.

    Second, he also said that he misses you a lot, but he misses you well, so he still loves you, after all, they have been together for half a year. But he is also relaxed, because he doesn't have to suffer from your temper, so there is hope for saving the relationship, but you have to really change your temper and reassure him that this is the key.

    Third, it's cold, don't hesitate to care about him, this is what you should and must, so don't be afraid of him annoying, he thinks about your good, your thoughtfulness, buy it, why not?!It is necessary to show him what you are thinking about.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you want to redeem it, just do more things that he likes. A man's heart for a woman will not be very hard. It's about persistence.

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