Do we still fight for love? 5

First of all, this was once a natural pair, but you just unilaterally think that he also sees it that way? If he really cares about your emotions for those two years, he will not choose to end it soon and choose to marry someone else and have children. On the other hand, you feel that you still like him and don't want to give up, that is because you don't get him and your heart is unbalanced, think about it from another angle, what you get is not good, no matter what, let this former relationship draw a relatively perfect end, if it doesn't work now, give yourself more time.

There is no hurdle that cannot be passed, not to mention that he now has a family, and there is no need to disturb his peaceful life, even if he still has you in his heart, but that is all in the past, learn to let go, getting is not the same as owning, and possessing is not to possess.

No, you can't. There have been a lot of problems in the past, and you've not been able to stick to it.

Try to change your environment.

You just didn't meet your true heart.

The past is gone.

And you are not separated by objective factors.

It would be unwise to redeem lost love now.

Although there is some sadness.

But let's get used to it.

Unless he takes the initiative to divorce, but he has children, and it is not good for children to leave.

You give up, there are many things about good men I feel that he doesn't like you so much, otherwise he and a third party will not get married soon

What you say to a man depends on what he does

Women want to baby themselves.

Sometimes the result of love is not to stay together for life! Savor this love when you are old, don't ruin a perfect home, think about their daughter, too clumsy will only hurt others!

Some things are missed, and it doesn't feel the same to be together again. Forcibly being together, he will feel guilty about his daughter.

It's impossible... What is past is what is in the past.

Give him up, and even if you come together now, it won't come to fruition.

Don't do anything stupid, it's wise to start your life all over again.

Our lives are limited, the people and things we encounter may also be predestined, and all gains and losses are also taken for granted.

And any one person will be more or less will be old love, some people go with the flow, some people slowly forget, and some people tirelessly strive for more possibilities. Whichever you are, I hope that we can be worthy of our lives and be grateful to the people and things that have brought us beauty and trauma.

With this concept in mind, let's talk about what exactly we are salvaging when it comes to retrieving a relationship.

<> except for firmness and courage.

We also have a higher degree of love.

At the psychological level, emotional recovery is defined as: emotional fracture healing.

To put it simply, it is a healing process after the rupture of an emotional relationship, which does not guarantee that the recovery will be successful, but with the help of a psychologist, it can help the client to heal the psychological trauma after the emotional rupture and find himself again.

Usually when we try to salvage a relationship, we are always dwelling on the past, which means that the previous relationship can become a huge obstacle to starting over, so the process of recovering can be more difficult and arduous than chasing someone.

Faced with such a huge problem, and people who have just faced a breakup or divorce, are experiencing the darkest moment in their lives. It's the pain you face when you wake up in the morning, the trauma that overwhelms your reason, the huge sense of loss you still feel all the time with a group of friends, and the pins and needles that you toss and turn all night long, so healing is key.

If we are still in such a state, then redemption is an empty talk, when we throw ourselves away, when we no longer love ourselves, how can we expect others to love you? We need to quickly absorb the nutrients from the previous relationship and grow, understand that the world is not centered on you, and we need to think about others with our hearts, rather than imposing our own desires on others. In particular, avoid stubborn arguments and calm down, because time is of the essence, and by the time you understand, that person may no longer be waiting for you.

At the same time, we should also see our own shining point from the state of lost soul, at least in this gray moment, we are extremely longing, but we can still restrain our emotions, we can do not disturb each other, this is great firmness and courage. People of this quality are people who have a higher degree of love in love, even at such times, we still instinctively want to protect each other from the heart, which is very good, maintaining this original intention is the beginning of everything.

I think love is something to be earned, because love is a wonderful thing, and if you don't fight for it, you are likely to miss it and make yourself feel very regretful.

Of course not. Two people going both ways is the happiest. It must be liked by both people. So I didn't fight for it.

Yes, in love, you need to be more active, and you also need to keep working hard to be able to have love.

Yes, in love, you must take the initiative to fight for it, and after seizing the opportunity, you must choose to pursue it to have love.

Love is not to be won over, love is to be happy with each other, if two people have a bad relationship, it is useless to fight for it.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Why should two people who love each other separate, it will be very painful, and there is something that can't be solved! It's hard to meet someone you love, don't miss it because of something, then you will regret it later! Cherish it! If I want to continue to be happy, I will not give up.

It depends on what reason you broke up, if he is in love with someone else, then there is no need to redeem it, even if it is redeemed, it has deteriorated, and it is said to myself that he gave up on me, it is he who is not blessed, my excellence will be appreciated, I can find a better one than him. In fact, everyone has the experience of falling out of love, the best healing medicine is time, no matter how deep the relationship is after many years, you can laugh it off, and the person you love feels like just a passerby in life after the washing of time. But if the two of you still have each other in your hearts, then you might as well try to redeem him and make yourself less regretful.

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Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

will fall in love with one or several people in your life, inevitably be hurt, cry and hurt, a long, long time later, when you finally meet your true love, you will understand that pain is sometimes precious, it enriches life and leaves some traces to memory!

Just do what you are happy about, just do what you want to do, live a relaxed life, there is no need to deliberately force you to forget something, this will only make your life harder!

Let yourself go, think clearly, and don't make unnecessary offerings! There are so many things in life that you have to learn to deal with, you don't lose everything when he is gone, you still have your job, your family, your friends! Integrate into life anew, where you will have a new self.

And you must not believe in love, you just didn't meet the right person at the right time, and one day you will definitely find that happiness that belongs to you! He will truly love and care for you, and will not let you be hurt at all, let alone hurt you at all! Stop thinking about the person who is not worth thinking about, and accumulate feelings until your person really appears before using it!

Because of some special reasons, two people who love each other very much can't be together, this seems to only exist in the distant past, I think as long as you love each other, love each other very much, even if there is a big obstacle, there is no way to stop you from being together. Unless it's love that's not deep enough...

Regardless of whose reason, the problem lies in your own, there are too many such things, in fact, you don't have to be sad, you have to believe in fate, since you love each other, you can't be together, maybe it's your fate, you can't be together, but you still have a relationship, and a good memory, don't you, you think, memories are also a kind of happiness.

Just like it, don't mean you have it! But I think that after 50 years and still holding hands, it is called love!

Of course, not being together means that you have nothing, nothing, nothing exists, and what kind of love are you talking about?

If you don't stay together for a long time, love will be in crisis.

There is a kind of greatness in the legend, you can not be together, but is there really such greatness? At least I probably can't. Good luck.

Not necessarily, there are too many helpless things in life...

Not necessarily, if two people really love each other, no matter how much time passes, they will not forget each other, and they will not fall in love with anyone because of whom. Isn't there no memory and no feeling when we are together?

Yes, of course love is together, otherwise it is not called love!

Isn't the desire of love to be together for the rest of our lives?

Not everyone who passes by will know each other, and not everyone who knows each other will be worried.

At least we didn't miss the ...... in this life, in that place, when we turned around

Even if you said I was in the wrong time......

Maybe we have all forgotten ourselves and experienced that sincere love.

It's just that there is a relationship that can no longer continue, there is a person who can no longer snuggle up to each other, there is a voice that can no longer ring in the ears, and there is a pair of hands that can no longer hold the temperature and comfort of the palms.

Not every love has beautiful memories, and not every memory is so unforgettable.

Since we can't grow old together, let me celebrate the annihilation hand here to bless you.

Because you are a concern that I will never be able to part with in this life. It's just that no amount of thoughts and worries can be exchanged for the days when I had you.

It turns out that it is not easy to love you as it is to give up on you.

Although you are vague about the questions I have asked, I still give the most sincere heart.

If you really love me, then I am happy. Even if I can't go to the end of the world with you, my heart is still worried about you.

I will pray and bless you forever, may you be happy --- safe forever.

When you're unhappy, I want to shed tears with you. When you're unhappy, I want to be your pistachio.

When you're lonely, I want to talk to you. When you're sad, I'm just as depressed as you are.

When you dream of me, that's when I miss you again.

I don't want you to give me too much, I don't want any promises from you, and I don't want any worries from you.

I don't want you to remember me deeply, I don't want you to remember everything we used to do.

I just want you to think of me occasionally, occasionally think of the person who once loved you so deeply, the person who once gave you tenderness with a smile--- gave you a complete heart.

Remember! Your world, I once really came to ......