The old man always uses small animals to vent his anger

There may be a number of psychological reasons why the elderly use small animals to vent their anger. Here are some possible explanations:

1.Loneliness: Older people may feel lonely and lonely, and pets can be their companions and companions.

However, if an elderly person has lost a partner or family member, they may become overly dependent on their pet or even see it as the only important thing in their life.

2.Anxiety and restlessness: Older people may feel like they are not in control of their lives, and pets can give them a sense that something is going on. However, if the elderly are too strict or overly controlling their pets, it can cause anxiety and restlessness.

3.Excretion problems: Older people may face excretion problems, such as urinary or fecal incontinence. If they find that their pet is excreting at will, they may be very angry and upset about it.

4.Health problems: Older people may be concerned about the threat to their health from pets, such as pets that may be contagious or cause allergic reactions. If an elderly person feels unable to control these risks, they may develop feelings of anger and resentment towards their pet.

Whatever the reason, it is not a healthy behavior for an elderly person to take a small animal out of anger. If older people are too strict or overly controlling with their pets, they should be encouraged to develop healthier relationships with their pets. If an elderly person feels lonely or anxious about their pet, they can seek professional help, such as a counselor or psychologist.

The old man's tantrums are basically not voluntary, and when they encounter unsatisfactory things, they will become very impatient and need to vent them to make their mood temporarily comfortable. But they can't be angry with innocent people or people they don't know, they can only vent their anger with the closest people or these small animals who can't speak, to vent their frustration in their hearts. At this time, our younger generations should care more about the elderly, understand their specific needs, talk to them more, and express the unhappiness in their hearts, so as to prevent the elderly from abusing small animals again.

From the perspective of psychology and sociology, there is a motive behind any human behavior, and motivation is actually a kind of need, and with a certain need, there is a corresponding behavior.

According to the analysis of psychological counselors and psychologists, people who like to abuse dogs generally have two situations: one is to bear too much pressure, and inadvertently find that animal abuse can relieve their pressure, and accidental behavior becomes a habit; The other is that the individual has endured violence or cold violence, and is unable to fight back against the perpetrator, so he chooses to attack people who are weaker than his own life, in addition to animal abuse, there is also child abuse and the old, weak, sick and disabled, which is a manifestation of psychological unhealth.

So, what are the specific factors that cause some people to like to abuse dogs?

Family factors. People who like to abuse small animals, among which the family factor occupies a certain reason. Xiao Xi likes small animals very much, and usually loves them very much, but on the other hand, when Xiao Xi is in a bad mood, she will kick and beat the dog.

What is going on with this, which caused Xiaoxi's two-way personality? It turned out that when Xiaoxi was very young, her parents often quarreled, and when she was in a hurry, her father would beat her mother. Over time, Xiaoxi's personality began to change.

She began to like to abuse dogs, and when she was unhappy, she would take pleasure in them. Later, when chatting with Xiaoxi, I accidentally found that it was the dog's trusting eyes and begging for pity in her eyes that triggered her unpleasant experience. Xiao Xi will think that during school, she accidentally broke her classmates' things, and she didn't get forgiven for blindly apologizing, but it was a malicious attack by the other party.

From the dog's pitiful begging, she seemed to see her former self, the cowardly and pitiful self she once was. Invisibly, her parents taught her that when she is unhappy, she can use violence to vent her emotions.

Getting along with people is very different from getting along with people and animals. Because everyone has their own different personality and hobbies, it is inevitable that there will be situations of mutual opinion in getting along. And the recognition of animals is relatively simple, as long as you give him food and pet him, he will be good to you, there is no verbal conflict.

The kind of person you said is more introverted and reluctant to associate with others, and the relatives at home must pay attention not to conflict with him, and use gentle language to guide him slowly, so that he can gradually change his antipathy for interacting with others.

His kindness and generosity may not be towards people, but towards animals, and some people's love is not a narrow love for their relatives but a relative fraternity, so it is difficult to define those who do not understand.

Adults quarrel with adults, it is an adult's business, and children should not be involved. If you can't vent your emotions, you will take out your anger on children, which is very wrong and a very unproductive approach.

There are some parents who quarrel and beat and scold their children for no reason. The child is angry, I think this is a very unproductive performance. It's normal for them to quarrel directly, but don't be angry with your child.

Hitting and scolding children for no reason is the lowest way, there are many people who have tasted the taste of being beaten and scolded by their parents when they are young, and then when they grow up, they are divided into two waves, one is to continue to beat and scold children, and one is to give children enough love.

I experienced it, I felt very helpless at the time, I don't know what to do, now my parents are divorced, I live with my mother, she found a second one, and now I am very happy, he found a second one, gave birth to two and continued.

Children are very important in the hearts of each couple. Sometimes I can't argue with each other, and I am not convinced, so I will use the ignorant children around me to "point at Sang and scold Huai" to get angry.

I have been weak and kind all my life, I think about everything I do, as for the quarrel, never, because I don't know how to quarrel with others, and I won't quarrel with others, the child is my life, is my all, no matter what desperate situation, it will not affect the child, whenever I am bullied, accused and abused, I choose to retreat and endure, big things are small, small things are small, every mountain lives a pigeon, why let others see the laughing stock, endure for a while, calm the waves, take a step back and open the sky, the axiom is in the hearts of the people, It is also an example for children, I believe that the sky will be merciful, I believe that after the wind will appear, the rainbow will appear, and all misfortunes will be regarded as a life test for me by God.

Because there is no one else to vent their emotions, they can only find children.

It's not level! I've seen a woman who often beats and scolds her child, and the most ugly words in the world can be said, and now the child is very filial!

Because some anger is not always so easy to vent, you can only get angry at children, which is a very bad behavior.

Because the child plays the bridge of harmony between husband and wife all the year round, the child of the harmonious family is happy, and there will be no phenomenon of taking the child out of anger, on the other hand, those long-term differences between the husband and wife, and even the husband and wife who are fists and feet will inevitably bring psychological harm to the child, and the quarrel affects the child is the manifestation of this kind of immature and low emotional intelligence, and some parents have no way to take each other, so they transfer this kind of hatred to the child who has no ability to resist, and use them as a trash can to vent their dissatisfaction.

This problem must have become a common problem! In fact, it should be said that they think that the child is their own, it's nothing, to put it bluntly, they shouldn't know how to communicate!

Because sometimes two adults quarrel, one of them is so angry that he can't speak, so his anger will be spread to the child.

Let's start from a very young age, when I was only 2 or 3 years old, my father began to abuse my mother, because I didn't understand the reason, I only knew how to cry, and I could find other adults to help, and my father would not beat my mother. But at that time, it was terrifying to watch my father chase my mother all over the street. (It's absolutely true, I think there must be a lot of people who don't believe it when they say it) as long as there is something in the house, they must quarrel.

I knew the reasons for the quarrel when I got older, but there were too many reasons, Dad's family, Dad's character, and Mom's character. I didn't understand at first, and it didn't end with their quarrels, when I was in elementary school, whenever they quarreled, my mom would punch and kick me, and she couldn't be dissatisfied with my grades, and hit me when I was uncomfortable (absolutely true, the scariest thing I think back now was elementary school), and she scolded me, saying that my father beat him and scolded him because of bad grades. Once, when I was very young, he used a knife in a fight, and he bleed, adults always felt that everything could be hidden from the child, but the child he didn't understand, he knew how to observe, later, I was in junior high school they didn't fight, or kept noisy, I got used to it, I felt that it didn't matter, but my mother still kept scolding me, saying that it was because of my bad grades.

It was like this until high school, and now, I can't understand how they get along, and if you ask them why they don't get divorced, my mom will tell me that it's for my good, and I don't know if it's for my good.

Find a punching bag, if there is gas and there is nowhere to come out, just talk about the child!

The biggest psychological problem of the elderly has been explained very clearly in a certain sketch......Emotional loss type.

Endocrine disorder type.

Alzheimer's type.

As for the other types, they are basically related to these three types...... as wellIn fact, there is no single standard answer to this kind of question......Different researchers have different perspectives, so there are different research results ......

The five major psychological problems of the elderly, the five major psychological problems of the elderly are the first problem, that is, the problem of old-age care, the second is the problem of raising children, and the third is always thinking, is the children doing well? These problems are a very difficult hurdle in the hearts of the elderly.

I've already asked you here, and I pride myself on being a very good consultation, but I don't look like it.

Don't be too extreme in your thinking.

If your grandmother often kills chickens for you to eat, do you think she is a bad person? Some people don't like the small moving family, but they have different personal hobbies, and they don't talk about it to rise to the moral level.

No, he's a little crooked psychologically.