Guilt keeps attacking my conscience, I m confused, who can help me?

Updated on society 2024-05-13
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, you can't get back to the way you used to feel.

    Even if you feel sorry for her.

    You're just in the past, and I don't think there's any need to redeem this relationship, it's not interesting.

    Even if two people are together again, there is a gap between them.

    Give up, you will feel that it is a relief for two people.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This kind of thing is really cruel, I can understand your feelings, when you find yourself in love with someone and you don't have the ability to love her, it's really painful, I think now you have to try to let yourself think about her less, keep this love in your heart, I think this is something you can control, slowly your own pain will be less, time is really a good medicine for healing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hehe, I'm naturally going to talk some nonsense about the question raised by my little brother!

    Personally, I think that love is more ideal than practical, but life is actually in front! It is a blessing for two people who love each other to be together!! If you can't be together, it's called helpless! And helplessness is always more than happiness!!

    To love someone is to give happiness to the other! You feel that you can redeem it if you can in the future, and you don't have to care about the current situation. If you feel that you can't give the other person the happiness they want, you should give up!

    Sometimes giving up may make you feel that there is another kind of love that goes beyond love! The love buried in the heart may be the most beautiful and lasting!!

    Big brother Kaede Dance Moon Word.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's been a year, time can't wash everything, at least you still love each other deeply, if you really love her, and she loves you, then wait until you graduate to find her, then there will be no students at that time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you love her, you have to cherish it, don't think of a good moment when you lose it, go for it!! Love, young man, knows no boundaries.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you're a man, you go to chase it, walk by, pass by, don't miss it! Otherwise, you'll live in the shadow of your girlfriend for the rest of your life. Believe me, go after it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm guilty, too, and I know what guilt feels like.

    But I can't get the heart that was hurt by me, it's irreparable! Moreover, she won't give me a chance either!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you graduate and have the ability, go and be with her! Be sure to chase her back!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You know the good of broken straw sandals only when you are barefoot, haven't you ever thought about buying a new pair?

    Learn from the failure of your relationship, change yourself, and the next one will be better!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What does it have to do with you being a student???

    Since she likes her, she likes you too, what else is there to consider.

    Of course, I'm going to chase it back

    It's only been a year, and it won't be long.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You really love each other deeply, you are happier than me to have such love, for this sincere love, go on!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Falling in love is rare and should be cherished.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it were me, I would learn both! the second technology, which earns a lot of money, is used to support the family; The first technology is what you love, you must not give up, you have to love it a little, this can be used as a hobby, and it can also be used to make a little money.

    In short, people in society can not go without a good technology. Even if you only have the first type, as long as you are good enough, I believe that there will be the right opportunity to benefit you greatly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm not afraid of many skills, I'm just afraid of not, since they're all gone, don't think about it anymore. If you find a good one in the future, just do it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Obviously inappropriate marketing. I suggest that if you can find another job, forget it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no business or treachery, and there is no one who does marketing without deception. When you go to the mall to buy something, doesn't the salesman or salesman always tell you how good it is? I just want you to go to the interview, but also to sell yourself, saying that you are good and hateful, and you don't say that you are bad, aren't you also deceptive?

    Right! It's just information asymmetry.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's still unkind work, do you plan to do it for the rest of your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I only got to know your situation in high school.

    I don't regret it now. Nothing is irreparable.

    Your parents' love for you is pure, and if you're really tired right now, wait until you understand it before reciprocating.

    It doesn't matter how long he is disturbed in his heart, it is a blessing to have someone he loves deeply.

    Now you, if you don't know the future, then study hard.

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

    Best wishes.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Two years ago, this should have been the case with the landlord:

    Eh, I have feelings for her. I want to be with her...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Drill the horns of the bull, the junior high school kid is confused, and when he comes out to make money by reading, he is not confused, he is probably lost. It's time to feel guilty about making your parents worry about this.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Knowing one's mistakes can make amends.

    It is important to be careful later and not to make the same mistakes.

    There is no chance to correct a mistake that has been made, and the mistake made has become a fact and cannot be changed.

    Who can be an ordinary person without making mistakes? Mistakes can be corrected, and it doesn't get any better than that.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. Next time you are in a hurry, you can say to everyone, "I'm sorry, please let me get on the elevator first, I'm late and deducted a lot of money, I'm very sorry!" ”

    2. Don't be too extreme, everyone will make mistakes, remember to correct them in the future;

    3. Try to go to work in advance and save the occurrence of elevator incidents;

    4. Try to climb stairs for fitness;

    5. Forget about it!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Forget about the unhappiness, the next time you meet these people, and sincerely apologize to them, they will forgive you!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If a man is not a saint or a sage, how can he be without fault.

    Knowing one's mistakes can make amends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If a man is not a saint or a sage, how can he be without fault.

    Mistakes can be corrected. Good is great.

    Let's see what others have to say.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How to compensate for doing more good deeds is psychologically better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Sometimes it's not really confusing, when you live in an environment that is too familiar for too long, you will be vague and unfamiliar with the outside world. In this way, you will feel that you do everything the same, and you don't know how to change it if you want to, because you are so used to following the rules every day! That's when you're lost and directionless!

    Change the environment and change the way, change the mood and see the world from a different angle! A lot of new things and things are just unexpectedly clear to you! No more confusion!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Are you facing difficulties or troubles? Trouble is something you can handle but take time and effort on. Difficulties are things you can't handle. If it's a problem, solve it, find someone to help solve it, and then learn on the side.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Obsessed with the past, confused by the present, afraid of the future.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Everyone who lives in this world will encounter all kinds of pain and frustration, but we must understand that life is bitter and sweet, sometimes it is just not yet there, there is a saying, it is also called the desire to speed is not reached, there is a lot of truth you should also know, you have this feeling, I have also experienced, as long as you don't want to die, know that life still has to go on, first of all, now you have to let yourself let go of what you want, do the worst, although you are unwilling, but you always have to believe that it will get better in the future, so that you are now actively doing everything you can do well, constantly hinting at yourself in your heart, thinking too much is useless,Happy too,Confused and painful,Numb too,So why not be happy,Sometimes look at things indifferently,You will be much easier,Think more about what to do in the future,What is the worst result,You can bear those,Can't bear those,I used to be very beautiful,But in my life, I had a lot of helplessness and desperate thoughts,That is, laugh,I will let myself laugh if I am happy or not,Slowly myself。

    Be happy, think more about your relatives and friends who are worthy of your cherishment, don't want those unhappy things, otherwise you will often lose sleep, you must know that the body is your own, if it collapses, no one can save yourself, only save yourself, everything will be fine, everything will pass, these are temporary, I will not be like this forever, at least I don't regret it, I tried my best, think about these and you will get better, the mood should be controlled by yourself, let others control your mood will go a lot.

    The detour !!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't let frustration and pain become a habit, if you get used to it, you will be numb, and if you are numb, your heart will die, and then you will be confused, and you don't know what to do, so is it possible to live with spirit?

    The key here is to reduce setbacks.

    Why are there always setbacks?

    Don't look for objective reasons. It's man-made.

    The root cause of failure is nothing more than several reasons:

    1 I didn't put in a real effort. 2 The method is wrong. 3. Behaviors and habits are not acceptable to the environment. 4. Wrong thinking and concepts.

    The first type is not needless to say, this kind of person does not deserve success.

    The second possibility is not big, and a person can't always find the wrong way. And the way to do a lot of things is very clear and simple.

    The third is noteworthy. People who are not recognized by the environment are less likely to be adequately helped, widely understood, or annoyed by people and make too many enemies, and even if they do something right, they are not praised. Mavericks who do their own thing rarely succeed.

    This is a common phenomenon and abounds all around. Only a very small number of such people are self-confident people who are extremely capable and mentally stable or can succeed.

    The fourth is the most common case. Often, the root cause of the first three reasons is also here. Mistakes in thinking and concepts will always affect many aspects, very detailed problems. The so-called thought determines behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny.

    Compare the differences in thinking and perceptions between you and those of your peers around you, which may be the key to a change. If you don't eat on time, you should take the people around you who are about forty years old as the standard. The so-called forty is not confused.

    Their views are neither radical nor conservative. Their mindset is both idealistic and realistic. Notice that I'm talking about men, and women are in the thirty-fifth position.

    There is also to think more about the successes and failures of the grassroots and middle-level managers around you, and then take a closer look at those around you who can speak well, are exquisite, never suffer losses, are strong and domineering, and are only submissive, can only slap horses and have no real talents, and often give gifts to their bosses, are these people always rewarded and promoted?

    In life, we should have a flat mentality, look at the advantages of everyone, and take the preferences and interests of the majority as our own preferences and interests. Less selfish thoughts, less bias, less care.

    The success of personal interests is lightened and put farther away, so that you will not always feel pain and frustration, and your mood will become cheerful and broad, so that if you do things again, look at things again, and think about things again, your thinking will be clear, your concepts will be reasonable, and your behavior will be less wrong and extreme. At this time, you will find that the personal interests and successes that you have seen lightly and far away are clearly not far away.

    Remember, don't rush for quick success.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Calm down, think about it, or divert your attention, don't put your mind on that anyway, think about something else, relax.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There will be setbacks in the life of brothers! The main thing is that you can't lose your faith! You have to believe in yourself! Of course, you have to do what you can do, if you can't do it, take a step back! Hope you succeed! As long as you work hard, you won't regret it!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Think about what your parents would like to see so they won't be disappointed?

    It's nothing more than that you're sensible, grown up, able to listen to them, filial, and better if you're promising, so, it's okay, since you're not very satisfied with your current self, it's good to start now!

    Confused, guilty, and let them trample under their feet

    From now, now, today, start now

    Go all out、Plan for the next semester、Plan for the best of the horse.。。。

    Child、You can divide the content of learning into several stages、Take your time、The time for university is quite abundant...

    Don't give yourself too many excuses, too lax

    Again, you don't have to put unrealistic pressure, burden, and burden on yourself

    Do your best、Little by little、Slowly accumulate、

    When it's time to graduate, look back on your past four years of college and you won't regret your choice, I believe that you will be proud of your persistence, hard work, and hard work, joy and happiness, come on, boy, go and create miracles

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't be so frustrated. If you are so frustrated, your parents are disappointed in the first place, not because you are not successful. It's that you're not happy.

    Three years have actually passed very quickly. In your freshman year, you said you didn't learn. Does it mean that you are lazy?

    Does it mean that your own personal enthusiasm and effort are a little less? You say, you're not motivated. However, on the one hand, you do not admit that you are lazy, and you are worried that your parents will be disappointed.

    Isn't your motivation not to disappoint your parents? If this is not motivation, then your worries are just empty words. It's not okay to just say nothing.

    If you work hard, your parents will definitely feel it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Rest assured, many college students are just like you. This is what it looks like when you first enter your freshman year, and you can consult the school's counselor. You obviously used to be depressed for too long in junior high school and high school, and now you are relaxed all of a sudden, and you don't know how to live.

    Go out more activities with classmates and fellow villagers, stick to 1-2 sports, and when you see the transcript of this semester, I believe you will be motivated, haha.

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