He couldn t forget her, and I became her shadow

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How can a person who has experienced something before forget? Unless you have amnesia? He can't forget that she is only temporary, in fact, you should also give him some time, as long as he doesn't do something excessive, as long as his heart is now dedicated to you, you really only care so much about other emotions, what you have to do is to use your existence to move him, so that he can get out as soon as possible, if you really love him, give him some time is to give himself more time, give him a space to slowly adapt to forget her, so that he will feel that you are really in love with him!

    Do you understand? Even if he says he wants to go back to her, you should be kind enough to say to him: I respect your opinion, and it is better to do so than if you had a big fight with him!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Such a man cannot be loved, he will always only treat you as a substitute.

    I've also been in a situation where he has a girlfriend who has been in love for six years.

    The woman's parents disagreed, so they had no choice but to separate, but they have always been in touch.

    Using me as a substitute, I later chose to leave.

    Why should I be a substitute for someone else?

    Now that I've completely let go, you can too.

    Believe that you are so good that you can find someone who loves you with all your heart.

    Why like a man who always has another woman in his heart?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You have to be sure what he thinks, or maybe you'll regret it!! You also have to determine what you think, do you love him? If love, I think you will use your method to let his heart come to you; If you don't love it, then there's no need to bother to let him do anything, right!!

    It depends on how you think of him, you have to let the initiative in your own hands in everything, don't always be accommodating, always thinking about what he is, what's the use, you can't let him treat you like a puppet, you can do whatever you want! Let's take a look at your own physiognomy and decide!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to think about it.

    Love is not unbearable for you, but you have to know what you're doing, and if you're confident enough to make sure you're going to be happy in the future, then you're going to do it, and it's important not to give restraint to others.

    Your own happiness should be determined by yourself.

    In fact, time will teach you many things.

    You'll know what to do.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This kind of issue cannot be too accommodating.

    Figure out if he likes you or if he likes you and you are a lot like his previous girlfriend.

    If it's the second one, let's forget it sooner.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I agree to separate and calm down for a while.

    Are you really sure that you want this kind of love ?

    Why bother living so hard?

    There are many good men.

    Why should you grieve yourself for him?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are you, there is no need to be a stand-in for others, if you can't get along, you will be divided, and there is no grass at the end of the world.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As long as you're willing to be a shadow, as long as you're happy, go ahead.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let's separate it, everyone calm down

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love doesn't have to be forever. What you have may be the best memories of your life. Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers.

    Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately. Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

    What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have, and what you don't have must be what you really engrave in your heart.

    There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    For comic people who don't love themselves, what they need most is understanding, renunciation and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy.

    Don't let this turn into pain. Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy.

    Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it is said. Yes**. There are aftershocks.

    So. There is love. There is also a lingering feeling.

    Maybe. That love is gone.

    But. You should get used to it.

    Sometimes. Time is like a catalyst.

    8 Perceptions and 8 Perceptions. It's a habit to be hungry.

    Habits too. It's okay to have any more feelings.

    Time will dilute all of this as well.

    Wind and caution talk about liquid. Take that person away.

    Cloud. Makes you obsessed.

    Sunlight. A new beginning.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe after being together for a long time, the relationship is a little deep.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your memories should still be there.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because habits don't make it easy for you to give up all at once.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Some things are not meant to be forgotten.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's okay, time will help you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I still can't forget it for so long.

    I wanted to say I love you, but the phrase I love you didn't come out of my mouth for a long time.

    I let go of my dignity and my attachment to write this love letter.

    I've changed, and I've found that I've changed because of you.

    I became to do everything just for you.

    It's all about your wobble smile in my head.

    My dear, do you hear my love for you.

    I really can't let you go.

    Uh, I'm improvised, and I don't write well to watch pia me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, so let it be. It's good to have someone to think about.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This shows that you are an emotional person.,It's normal that you haven't forgotten it for half a year.。。 It will be fine in a while.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you can't forget it, just bury it in your heart. Human emotions are not easy to forget, and they will gradually fade away after a long time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To tell the truth, love has been painful, it is impossible to completely forget it, and it is also deceiving yourself, you can only use time to slowly forget, some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the time of the years, and occasionally pick up the memories, it will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, which contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, and sighing in the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart. When the people who once really loved as life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in the water.

    I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. Keep the deep affection in the memory, forget the pain of the past... Because, the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hardship is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, love will become unforgettable when you suffer something...

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

    Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When will she never forget the person she likes.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    She still has a longing for someone.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Heavy feelings, such people are rare!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't wait for someone who doesn't love you, that's all you can say.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you wait until you have something you like, you will forget about her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'm just like you, except I'm waiting for my ex-boyfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not long after we broke up, you paid too much when you were with her, you are just unwilling in your heart now, and after a long time, you will naturally feel that it is a kind of happiness to leave her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    May this wait have unexpected results.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Can a broken mirror still be round?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You are stupid, waiting for an unknown relationship will only end up disappointed. Time will make you mature.

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