How did you handle your relationship with your ex?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    A good ex has to be like dead, whether the past is good or bad, it is all in the past, since they are not together, life needs to be restarted, and everything is cleared in order to take office.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It should be beaten, it should be scolded, it should be returned, it should be kicked away, and the old and dead will not get along.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't contact, don't disturb each other's well. Even if you think about it again!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's easy to be ambiguous if it's pleasing to the eye, and beat it first if it's disgusting.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, she has never been in love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, in the face of the person who was both familiar and strange, I believe that many people's hearts are complicated, and many people think that after breaking up, they are still in contact with their ex, which is unfair to the current one. Perhaps for the ex, whether it is a friend or a stranger, it is an embarrassing existence for the current one. In fact, in the face of an ex, the best choice is not to contact or meet again.

    Every contact may give hope to the person who does not give up, and every contact is also an injustice to the present, so since it is the predecessor, it is good in the past, and it is better to let go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's really impossible to recover, then don't contact it. The more you contact, the more reluctant you are, and the more you want to redeem it. But it's obviously impossible, and that only makes me more uncomfortable.

    I think you still have to make it clear to him that if it's impossible to get back together, then don't contact you again, don't give you any hope. As for whether you can be a friend, it still depends on your own ideas.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I just told him not to contact him again, and he didn't respond! Originally, I had no contact with him for a long time, but his interruptions again and again completely disrupted my life and made me start to move, but he was hot and cold, did I suffer myself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Continue to the next relationship, then completely delete all the information about the other party, including the residual information in your brain, because we habitually compare the current and the ex, which does not benefit you, if you fall in love with the current with the shadow or memory of the ex, it may be difficult for you to have a sense of happiness, and it is also unfair to the current one, and no one wants to be such a substitute.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No contact, no contact, no inquiry, occasional meeting as a stranger. I can't even be a lover, so what are I doing as a friend. It's normal for people who don't know each other to meet, and it's normal to return to strangeness in the end.

    In life, if you pass by, you will pass, and you don't have to be nostalgic if you can't forget it; Life has to move forward, and no matter how painful it is, you have to learn to let go. Time has passed, your thoughts have changed, and you don't have to think about the things that have hurt you if you don't have to think about them. Living the life in front of you is the most right way to show yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now that you have chosen to break up, then let yourself completely break away from this relationship, you don't need to keep any illusions, and sometimes it's okay to be a "bad person" or be selfish to yourself, so keep a rational mind, don't have any dealings with each other, and you should be the best care for yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ex is always an irreversible topic, and most relationships are not once and for all, and there will be an ex of their own. I am a person who is very persistent in love, since the two people have broken up, then they must be completely broken, so as to avoid embarrassment between themselves and each other.

    1. Don't disturb each other, once I am serious about my feelings, once I am in love, I will regard each other as the most important person, and I will treat each other well, but if I come to the point of breaking up, I will leave decisively. For me, it is impossible to become friends after a breakup, let alone contact again, which will only make me feel very uncomfortable and disturb my current life.

    Second, avoid two people falling in love at the same time, it is likely to have a common circle, after all, now is the Internet era, which will lead to mutual friends, and I will choose to avoid appearing with each other. After the breakup, I am not stingy, nor is it impossible to let go, but I don't want to see my ex again because I have nothing to say. The people who loved each other at the beginning will have their own lives after breaking up, we should respect each other's lives, don't go into each other's world again, and retain the beauty of the past is worth remembering.

    3. The most familiar stranger ex is a character that he doesn't want to tell or recall, because he once had it, and he will care about it very much. After the breakup, I can't be friends with each other, and I can't turn a blind eye, so I will choose to keep a safe distance from each other, so that it is also the best explanation for each other. When two people love each other, they will feel that it is a far-fetched thing to meet again, and they will not be able to greet each other like old friends.

    The ex will always have a place in his heart, but he will not say it naively, it will become a secret in the depths of his memory. Keeping a distance is the best explanation for each other, which will make yourself and each other the most beautiful thoughts, and it is also a kind of sustenance.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When faced with an ex relationship, I usually directly blacklist people and never contact them because I don't feel the need to contact them anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I usually don't keep in touch because we're not in the same city and don't see each other. The trick is not to care about those things before, and just say hello normally after you meet.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Keep your distance, be very polite when something goes wrong, pay attention to your attitude, try to value harmony, and don't quarrel.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is not recommended to go to the wedding of your ex because you have seen your former beloved marry someone else, it is a lie to say that you are comfortable, and only you know what it feels like in your heart, so it is better not to attend your ex's wedding, so as not to add unnecessary sadness to yourself.

    Secondly, when the newlyweds meet you, how do you introduce you? Say you're an ex or a friend? So not going is to avoid some unnecessary trouble, so as not to bring trouble for yourself and your ex.

    If the married couple knows that you are the ex, what will they think, and what will they think of the lover who is having a wedding? It is better not to go is to avoid such troubles, so as not to affect the married life of the ex.

    The best state after a breakup is not to bother, to develop in their own fields, and not to interfere in other people's lives is the good principle of doing things. The best thing to get along with should be not to explore everything about her, not to listen to everything about her, after all, you have loved, there will be more or less worries in your heart, once she is not doing well, your heart naturally wants to help her, your unintentional gang may break her existing life, and help her may be unhelpful.

    After breaking up with your ex, the best way to get along should be to love yourself well and love yourself. If you're sick, do you think you'll be happy to let your former ex know? So, after a breakup, don't choose the masochistic way, but make yourself better, work hard to improve your abilities, and let yourself blossom on the path you choose.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dealing with a relationship with an ex needs to be decided on a case-by-case basis and personal feelings, here are some suggestions:

    Give each other space: After ending a relationship, both partners need time and space to heal and adjust their emotions. Give each other a certain distance and avoid frequent contact and communication so that each has time to redefine their lives.

    Be respectful and understanding: Whether it's the reason for the breakup or past conflicts, try to be respectful and understanding. Avoid accusations and arguments, try to be rational about problems, and treat each other with respect and tolerance.

    Clearly define the relationship: Clearly define the former relationship according to the wishes and circumstances of both parties. If both parties are willing to maintain a friendly relationship, try to maintain contact, but be careful with boundaries and moderation to avoid misunderstandings and emotional entanglements.

    Dealing with emotions and healing: Ending a relationship can trigger a variety of emotions, including sadness, anger, disappointment, etc. It is important to deal with your emotions and seek support and healing.

    You can help yourself get through the pain by chatting with friends, participating in interest groups, and doing psychological counseling.

    Make personal decisions: When dealing with your ex, be clear about your motives and purpose. If you find that you still have emotional dependence or fantasies about your ex, it may take more time to heal and get rid of the other person's influence.

    Respect the new relationship: If you or your ex are already in a new relationship, respect the other person's choice and the presence of the new partner. Avoid deliberately creating embarrassment or disruptive situations in front of the other person and your new partner.

    Every relationship and each person's situation is unique, so handling a relationship with an ex also needs to be decided on a case-by-case basis. It is important to maintain respect, understanding, and self-healing in order to move forward smoothly. If you are confused or unable to properly manage your relationship with your ex, it is also a good option to seek help from a professional counselor.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think this is a matter that needs to be carefully considered because it involves one's own feelings and friendships with friends.

    First of all, you need to be clear about your feelings for your ex: whether you still have unfinished feelings, or whether you have been freed.

    If you feel that you still have a lack of affection, then you will definitely feel uncomfortable with them, and you need to show your mood in front of your good friends.

    If you have let it go, then consider talking to a friend, telling him what he thinks, and seeing his attitude. If your friend cares about your feelings, he may consider giving up the relationship. However, it is also necessary to realize that you cannot control other people's feelings, so you also need to consider whether your friendship is worth it.

    What role you think of your ex depends on how you are at the time of the breakup with your ex, as well as the relationship after that.

    If the breakup is not pleasant, in the heart, he may be a person who hurts himself. In this case, it is best to see him as a lesson in life and focus later on self-growth and embracing new opportunities.

    If you break up peacefully, you can continue to maintain a good friendship, and you can see your ex as an important person in your life, an important confidant, who can provide support and help when needed. In this case, the focus can be on cherishing the friendship with Xing Tangerine and continuing to keep in touch with him.

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