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She is not like she really believes in Buddhism. To have a Buddha in your heart is to sincerely believe in a Buddha. If you don't eat or drink, it's just a stone statue.
A Buddha does not want people to starve to death. Buddhism preaches compassion. Now I have become a Buddha.
You can chat with me. I advocate peace of mind. There are a lot of people who come to me every day to read the eight-character count days and come up with names.
I approach life with an optimistic attitude. Your mother believes not in Buddha but in demons. Persuade her to come out.
I can do my best to help you.
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Your mother's cultivation has gone astray. The Buddha taught us to be "unashamed", so why do we still argue? The Buddha taught us to stop greed, anger, and ignorance through practice. Why do you want to be angry with your family?
You tell her that Buddhism talks about "constant obedience to sentient beings" (she can't harm sentient beings, although she doesn't eat meat, but she is hurting her family), and Buddhism also talks about developing bodhichitta and compassion for sentient beings, have you forgotten it? Since she already has a family in this life, and she has you, she should take into account your feelings.
Although everyone has Buddha nature, it is impossible for us ordinary people to become Buddhas all at once, and we must practice in a down-to-earth and honest manner. What is the practice? It is to cultivate "love" and "wisdom".
Did your mother usually read Buddhist scriptures? Her situation has a lot to do with her lack of understanding of the teachings of the scriptures, and the Dharma is very vast, and it is not just a vegetarian diet. Moreover, vegetarianism has nothing to do with becoming a Buddha.
Being vegetarian is a good thing and should be encouraged, but being vegetarian doesn't mean you're wise. You should remind your mother of this. In addition, I am also a vegetarian, but the amount of food is moderate, and I do not have stomach atrophy.
Does your mother now fantasize that you can become a Buddha by "skipping food"? It's ridiculous, it's not the Dharma, it's the Dharma. To point it out to her.
Your mother needs help, and it is good to believe in Buddhism, but you must not be superstitious (it is wrong to set a lot of so-called "precepts" by yourself, which is called "abstinence" in Buddhism), and you and your father can help her with the real Dharma.
You can tell your mother about the dream: Shakyamuni Buddha said in the Diamond Sutra, "If you see me with color and ask me with your voice, you are walking in an evil way, and you cannot see what you are." "If your mother still professes to believe in Buddhism, she should pay attention to the Buddha's teachings.
Dreams are obviously illusory, and can only be used as a reference, not as a real one. If you are attached to dreams and hue (color, which means "matter, form" in Buddhism), how can you still claim to be studying Buddhism?
Live well, the human body is rare, the Dharma smells bad, cherish it!
I wish you all good health, peace and happiness to your family.
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The first will make our mentality better and better.
In fact, these are still very good for us, if there is a happy mother in the family, then I think it is actually very beneficial to our life, and it will also bring us a good experience, after all, in life our diet will definitely be more balanced, and it will also have the virtue of good life, and there will be a helpful mentality, which will also affect us, make us happier, and make our family more harmonious.
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Basically, I will often eat fasting and chant Buddha, at the beginning of the year.
On the first and fifteenth days, I would go to the temple to worship, and when the family said something bad, they would criticize the family, and they would also recite Amitabha Buddha and the Buddha forgive sins and so on. However, mothers who believe in Buddhism are very kind, even if they are deceived and hurt, they will choose to forgive each other, which is the experience of having a Buddhist mother at home.
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Sometimes it's still very frustrating, no matter what she does, she will follow her own set of believing in Buddhism, and even feels a little superstitious, and the gods are chattering.
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I feel that my mother's faith is really very desirable, but I definitely can't do it, because there are a lot of rules and precepts.
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I think my mother is very religious, but she always likes to impose some of her own dogmas on me, which makes me very uncomfortable.
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I feel very constrained because my mother keeps a lot of precepts and demands that she obey all the time.
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In the past, I always heard people say that believing in Buddhism is a superstitious behavior of the elderly. Now that I am getting older, I am also a college graduate, but I was slowly pulled into Buddhism by my mother, who believes in Buddhism. Believing in Buddhism, studying Buddhism, practicing Buddhism, and superstition are several different states that should be practiced step by step from the tempering of life.
Therefore, it is not because the mothers are ignorant that they learn Buddhism, on the contrary, because they have experienced a lot and practiced true knowledge. In the future, there will be fewer and fewer illiterates, but more and more people will come to faith. What was it like to have a Buddhist mother?
She made the hurdles in my heart that I couldn't get over and the bitterness that I couldn't let go of quickly dissipate. Like, give me a new life!
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I think it's normal, everyone can have their own beliefs, and only when they have faith will they be afraid of it, and their beliefs should be respected.
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If you ask what is the experience of having a daughter who believes in Buddhism? I think from my mother's point of view, she may think that her daughter is a bit confused about Buddhism, and sometimes it is a bit awkward to seize the opportunity to instill Buddhist ideas in her, but when she encounters difficulties or something, she still wants her daughter to explain it.
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Originally, my mother didn't believe in Buddhism, but due to the environmental impact of the whole family, my mother followed me and believed it!
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Take a look at Zeng Guopan's family motto There is a rule: Children and grandchildren are not allowed to believe in Buddhism, because many high-ranking officials and nobles in the capital will soon decline once they believe in Buddhism.
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It depends on how deep the mother's own good roots are, and the higher the mother's own cultivation level, the degree to which the whole family is affected, and the way will be different.
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At least the people around you are not easy to learn badly, and even if you make mistakes, your mother will repent for you. Shame not?
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The old people who believe in Buddhism are very kind-hearted, kind-hearted, and very open to people and things.
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Because she has allowed me to hear the Dharma and learn the Dharma in this life, how fortunate I am.
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The children who are educated must be kind and respectful.
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There will be no more days of stability.
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Hello: People who believe in Buddhism are also from the three lifetimes of karma, but it cannot be said that after believing in Buddhism, they must live forever, nor can they say that they have long believed in Buddhism and can not live forever, according to their own practitioners' situation plus karma, these are difficult to say, can only say that the liberation of life and death is the real goal, if your mother is a sincere believer and sincere practice, it is also very happy to leave early.
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This is a question of the concept of life and death, the world is full of hardships and sufferings for many people, so what is the joy of life, and what is the fear of death. So, don't simply judge good or bad by life and death.
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Hello: People who believe in Buddhism are also from the three lifetimes of karma, but it cannot be said that after believing in Buddhism, they must live forever, nor can they say that they have long believed in Buddhism and can not live forever, according to their own practitioners' situation plus karma, these are difficult to say, can only say that the liberation of life and death is the real goal, if your mother is a sincere believer and sincere practice, it is also very happy to leave early.
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