I know I m not as confident as that woman, so talkative

It's already past 12 o'clock, have you transformed?

You can see that he doesn't seem to have any feelings for you, which is why he repeatedly rejects you. Then you don't have too many illusions about him.

He politely refused you for fear of hurting you, after all, you are a woman, confessed to him, as a man, no matter how tough and unceremonious he rejects you, will you feel good? Explain that the man you meet still considers your feelings and thinks about you.

Since it's been like this both times, you give up. You said that he and his ex-girlfriend had an ambiguous relationship again, which means that they may have a chance to reconcile, and it is possible to reconcile.

You don't waste your mood and feelings anymore. Keep your eyes wide open, see if there are any men around you who really love you, and have a good talk about a happy love, that is your happiness.

Try to forget about him, like thinking about his bad, don't think about his good.

He politely refuses because he doesn't want to hurt you, and you can't hate him because of his refusal.

It's his business that he likes his ex-girlfriend.

Give him up.

Learn to give up and try to grow up.

To become a truly confident person, start now, believe in yourself, think that you are what you do, and that success is your own!

Self-psychological suggestion, constantly reinforcing oneself positively, and avoiding negative reinforcement of oneself. When you get stuck, don't give up. Keep saying to yourself

I can do it! "I'm great! I can do better!

Wait a minute. You repeat the words that you have confidence in yourself, which is a very important self-positive psychological suggestion, which is conducive to constantly improving your self-confidence, you are always afraid that you will not do well, and over time you will become introverted, and you will be indecisive when doing things. First of all, you have to look up to yourself, that is, even in front of the excellent opposite sex, you will not feel inferior, you should think like this, whether the other party is not much more noble than you, I am just communicating with the other party, and I am not trying to plot anything from the other party.

Of course, if the other party clearly does not like you at all, let it go in time, because your relentless pursuit, entanglement will only make the other party hate, you can afford to be not arrogant and conceited, people still have to have self-knowledge, since you pursue a difficult goal, you must know that the day of failure is likely to come, relax your mind, in order to do it suddenly.

No one can help you with your own affairs, if you don't have confidence, you have to enhance your confidence, if you don't dare to talk to girls, you have to exercise and talk to girls, you can really exercise your skills if you are thick-skinned, the more afraid you are, the more you don't dare, of course you can't learn, and your courage is getting smaller and smaller. Therefore, everything must be done by oneself, know that it is not allowed, muster up courage, and strive for it.

Don't dare to talk to girls?

Are you afraid of rejection? Is it for fear of being ridiculed? So I don't have the self-confidence to avoid facing contact girls?

Is it okay for me to understand it that way?

Confidence in this question.

No one else can help you.

The only one who can help you is yourself.

There is no confidence in speaking.

That's because there is less talking.

The other thing is to care too much about whether what you say is right or wrong.

Actually, there is no need to worry so much.

It's time to talk about it.

It's been a long time. Naturally, you will become cheerful and confident.

Self-confidence is built by yourself, first of all, you can first find your own position in your stronger place, for example, arrange some small projects for yourself first, and then complete them yourself, you can improve your self-confidence to a certain extent.

If you don't have self-confidence, you have to build self-confidence. You can encourage yourself in your heart every day, tell yourself that I am the best, and try to take the first step when you usually interact with people, learn to socialize with people, talk, and get along with people more, confidence will naturally be established, and you will naturally have the courage to talk to girls.