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Is it the same for women in the world, do you know that I also have a deep understanding of it, but I am a married person, after my husband and I met, it was also a sexual relationship before marriage, at that time, it may be that he has no experience, he likes to do that very much, I haven't done it, but I obviously don't want to be strong, but I also cooperate with him, there is nothing wrong with the appropriate refusal, you can refuse, but you have to let him see hope, that is, after you refuse for two days or three days, you can adapt to the request once, so that your refusal, It's not a very sad thing to tell him. That's what I did, and then we got married, and there were more and more things in our married life, so naturally there was less time to do this, but when he asked for it, I would cooperate, the same way as before marriage.

You must not shake the idea of marriage because of this, it doesn't matter, after marriage, if you want him to be so strong again, he is unlikely, this is marriage, so don't worry, you are not sick, this is normal, I am an example, rest assured.

Also, when you ask for it, you must pay attention to let him be fully satisfied, in that case, he will naturally be obedient, and it is better than what you tell him.

Like is like, you can't hide it.

Even if I don't have someone I like, I'm willing to get married, at least I've lived my whole life to know what marriage is.

Speaking of life, there are only a few major events in this life, going to school, working, getting married, having children, as a person who does not lack arms and legs, and has a sound mind, I naturally hope that my life is complete. I want to experience what everyone can experience, otherwise when I get old, I will regret it for the rest of my life.

Of course, when it comes to getting married, I must still want to find someone I like to get married. This is the same as eating what you like, wearing your favorite clothes, and doing your favorite job, and if you can marry someone you like, then this life must be perfect enough.

It's a pity that I don't know when I will meet this person I like, or I may not be able to meet such a person after all kinds of efforts throughout my life. If I can't meet someone who makes me feel emotional, should I give up on getting married? I don't think so.

Just like the words of matchmakers in ancient times, two people who have never met can get married and have children for a lifetime, and they may not both be so unhappy. If I can't meet someone I like, then I will choose to marry alone. Besides, we have a relationship over time, maybe in the process of getting along with him day and night, we will have feelings.

If I never get married because I didn't meet someone I liked, I think my life must be full of regrets, and I can't understand what marriage is, what marriage is, including what it is to have children.

Although marrying someone you don't like is risky, and maybe we won't necessarily be happy, it's still worth trying compared to those regrets, isn't it? What's more, marriage is inherently managed, and if I can be willing to do it, I also have a chance to have a happy marriage.

If it were me, I wouldn't, probably because I was influenced by my parents since I was a child, and I wouldn't just find someone to marry. Marriage is a lifelong thing, how can you make a sloppy decision to marry someone casually.

When I was younger, my parents often quarreled over a very small matter, and sometimes it was even more serious, and the most important thing was that my parents were not compatible. There are many things that cannot be agreed upon. I don't know if their marriage was going to end in the first place, but it ended in failure.

So I also think that I still have to get along for a while more, like each other, and each other's personalities are suitable before getting married, and I can't force myself to live with people I don't like because I don't like them, which is irresponsible to myself. <>

A passage I saw on the Internet at that time, not everyone will meet someone they like, so you have to relax your mind and don't force it. In my opinion, I am single now, and I have never tasted unhappy and free.

Do whatever you want, go there if you want to go, don't be bound by another person, meet some people while walking, if you meet what you like, it's better, if you don't meet then continue to walk alone.

This is my idea, maybe everyone's concept of love is different, but I think that my marriage is happy if I don't feel embarrassed, and I also wish each of us to find the person who likes and likes us. This may change over time, but for 20 years now, I have been firmly convinced that I will eventually marry love.

This key depends on when, if I am in my twenties, I naturally have a lot of good time to meet the person I love the most, and then have a love affair with him and finally privately marry him for life, what a beautiful thing it will be, if I am over twenty and become an older leftover girl over thirty years old, I will naturally have to obey reality, and I will not have the right to choose the person I like, so I can only be forced to meet a person who can be married as soon as possible. And then I'm going to get married just like that.

In fact, marriage really depends on what age you are in, if you exceed the right age for marriage, it will really become more and more difficult to marry the person you like, if I don't have someone I like before the marriageable age, then I will definitely not compromise on this, I must meet the one who really loves each other, and the other party is also the one who really loves me before he is willing to get married, otherwise it will be too stupid, but after the age it will be different, and the girl will become more and more unavailable when she gets old. So more often than not, they will just pull someone to make do with it.

Anyway, let's marry the person you like.

I would choose to get married, even if it wasn't love at first sight, but I believe in love over time. I believe that the two of us have been together for a long time, even if I didn't like him so much at first, but due to the passage of time, he may gradually become an indispensable part of my life.

Maybe I'm a more traditional person, and in my opinion, everyone has a need to get married, and I don't know what it is like for those who want to be independent to live a single life for the rest of their lives. Some people may dedicate themselves to art, and some people may dedicate themselves to being mavericks, but I think getting married is a very important thing. <>

And sometimes getting married is not your business alone, but also the relationship between your parents. I'm not saying that you accept a married life under the pressure of your parents, but that you can't only think about yourself, you have to think about the whole family, otherwise it seems to me that it is a more selfish behavior. Especially now, if the only child really doesn't get married, the parents may also be very sad.

Besides, they're all adults now. Thinking about problems can't be so narrow-minded, sometimes even if you can't meet someone you like, after getting along slowly, you may find that this person is not so charming, but there is a certain atmosphere, and then you can accept him, you can choose to be with him for a lifetime.

Just like those people in ancient times or the older generation, they may just introduce the way of marriage, or they don't know who they are marrying with, but they are also people who have lived most of their lives. It doesn't mean that there is anything unpleasant to get along with, and it's all good. I don't think there's anything that I can't solve in time, and you may find some of the surprises in your life.

I never seemed to have thought of this, I always thought that I would meet someone I really liked, and I would be with him until I grew old, whether it was vigorous or plain as water, I hoped to meet the future him. Life is so long and boring, of course you have to find someone to accompany you. Therefore, if I still don't meet the person I like in the end, I will still choose to get married alone and spend the rest of my life together.

In my heart, nothing is scarier than loneliness.

Now that I think about it, when I grow up to 30 years old, I have a lot of friends around me, and they are in pairs and live happily, while I still live alone in this world. My family urged me to get married as soon as possible, introduced me to various blind dates, and wanted me to get married as soon as possible, start a family, have children, and have a stable family. And I am still alone in this society adrift, when the night falls, when the lights are on, the transparent floor-to-ceiling windows of the restaurant reveal the appearance of a warm family dinner, maybe at this time, I will feel endless loneliness like me, probably only then will I think of getting married and starting a family.

I always wonder why people get married, and why they get married. Later, I began to understand that people are too lonely and always need someone to accompany them, and among all people, only the spouse can accompany him to the end.

It is said that marriage is the grave of love, and getting married means entering the end of love, and in the end love becomes family affection, and marriage also saw my brother divorce and get married, and suddenly felt so tired of getting married. What I am looking forward to now is a good relationship, and in a few years, I will expect a good marriage and family. But I still hope to have someone who can accompany me to old age, even if it is not someone I like, but in the long relationship, I will slowly fall in love with him.

I believe that there is no feeling that can be cultivated more than time.

Judging from my current thoughts, it shouldn't be, I don't think this person is what I like, and I don't really want to imagine my life after marriage.

I think most people should think the same as me, how many years have I been in free love now, how could I possibly marry someone I don't like, at least I haven't thought about it now. Besides, it's not a big deal not to get married now, as long as I have my own life, my own goals, a stable income, and my parents don't worry about me, I think it's okay.

Now it's hard for me to imagine what I would be like if I married someone who didn't like it, but one thing I can think of is that I must be unhappy, maybe that's why people will have a smile on their faces, and my face will go by, but I don't like it in my heart.

This dislike will definitely continue to the bits and pieces of the two of us' lives, maybe there will be what people call long-term love, but how much the other party has to suffer in that kind of love life, for a woman who doesn't like herself, greet each other with a smile every day, I don't think it's worth it, though. If it's someone I like, I'm definitely reluctant to do it.

In the future, if two people are together all the time, I will feel very guilty about this person when I think about it, and such thoughts are just my imagination, and they may not happen. If both of them are stubborn and divorce not long after they get married, then it is better not to have it happen in the first place.

Because marriage and divorce are a big deal for both families, if I don't like this person from the beginning, and I don't have the heart to do a good job in the end, then don't get married from the beginning, it's good for yourself and everyone.

So if you don't have someone you like, then it's better not to get married. And life is still very long, one day the person I like will appear, I will look forward to his arrival, I hope it won't make me wait too long.

I think I will. Because I'm a traditional person, if I don't get married, it will worry my parents and cause a lot of criticism, and I can't stand this, so if there is no person I like, if the personality is suitable, I will consider it.