Everyone says that men and women can have pure friendship?

It has been said: "There is no pure friendship between men and women, and there is always one of them who has illusions about the other, but for some reason, he does not speak his heart, and continues to let friendship hide his love." "Only those men and women who have loved deeply and got along for a long time understand that they are fundamentally incompatible and can no longer get along, and couples who break up peacefully without the presence of a third party can have pure friendship.

Whether you agree with the above paragraph or not, when you and your best friend of the opposite sex step into the following situation, your mood will always be turbulent.

1》When the other party has a boyfriend girlfriend.

If you don't regard the other party as an ordinary friend, when the other party has a boyfriend or girlfriend, you will definitely feel that it is not a meaning, and the other party will tell you about patting, you will find the emotions hidden in your heart, and the mood must be very complicated.

2 >> Your friend likes him and her.

You will feel that your friends are fighting for your favorite toys, but because of friendship and friend's morality, you will still match them, but you must feel uncomfortable.

3》The people around you think that you are not an ordinary couple.

When others speculate too much about you, and the other person feels uncomfortable, you understand that you only have friendship, and it is impossible to further deepen the relationship, and your heart will be sour.

4》When you encounter physiological changes.

During the period of development, you have great changes and differences in body and mind, understand what is the difference between men and women, although you know that this is a natural phenomenon, but it is still difficult to accept it for a while, and you also begin to have illusions about each other.

5. I like each other.

From friendship to love, it is a common occurrence, if the other party has the same feelings, it is usually the end of the big group, if the other party does not feel, or do not rashly confess, otherwise the friendship will also be gone.

6 >> When you get a boyfriend and girlfriend.

When your boyfriend and girlfriend accept your acquaintance with a friend of the opposite sex, if the friend of the opposite sex is unhappy, you will understand that the other person is in love with you, although you do not consider the other person, your reaction will be to like and worry at the same time, happy that it is an honorable thing to like yourself more, and worry that you are afraid that your pure friendship relationship will not develop again, and you will lose a friend of the opposite sex.

7 >> The other party likes you.

The other person wants your relationship to be more than just friends, which can be a headache for you, because you are not ready to accept the other person, and you don't know how to see the other person, and you realize that your friendship is a red flag, and in order to maintain a long-term friendship, you will try your best to adopt an inconspicuous and non-hurtful approach.

Whoever says no, I have several friends of the opposite sex who are purely friendly.

There is no pure friendship between boys and girls:

The relationship between men and women is getting better and better, but it's just hormones. Most people believe that opposites attract, is a hormonal factor, especially men, like to use action to express feelings, logically speaking, this is instinctive, is understandable, some people, by the banner of friendship, do ulterior things. However, there are also men and women, when conditions permit, from friendship to love, this seems to be the best ending.

2. The friendship between men and women is maintained, and if it is not further developed, it will fade. Many men and women maintain friendships, especially at school or between colleagues, but because of too close acquaintance or environmental relationships, the two do not develop further. Between men and women of the opposite sex, one has affection, the other refuses, and feels that they do not want to develop ambiguity, then the friendship is pure and cannot be talked about, and there will be very few people who even maintain regular contact.

3. Men and women use each other through friendship. Especially because of work, those who want to expand their business tend to pounce on the opposite sex who has value to use, and the relationship rises rapidly. It doesn't matter if you insist on using friendship to contact each other, or even play ambiguous, in this way, both people feel good and slowly fall into a kind of interest transaction.

As one party becomes bigger and stronger, or the use value decreases, such friendship quickly disappears.

I don't believe that a good relationship between a boy and a girl doesn't necessarily have to be a couple. Some people really have a good relationship between two people, but they just don't have that feeling of being in love. It's only suitable to talk about ideals together.

In fact, I don't know this problem.,Maybe it's because I don't have friends of the opposite sex around me.,Friendship is also very strange.,I'm a girl.,Sometimes I can't tell the difference between love and friendship.,I'm really a mother-fetal solo.,So I'm surrounded by female friends.,I always think that boyfriend is like that.,It's almost the same as a friend.,It's just that your boyfriend helps you as a responsibility.,Friends help you are obligatory.,That is,A boyfriend must help you.,And friends aren't necessarily.,But it's not necessarily not., There are also scumbags, this problem, each side of the party, but if you meet someone who loves you, don't care whether you love him or not, or treat him as a friend, you have to treat him with sincerity, because there are so many people in the world, it is rare to be able to meet him.

It can't be said that there is absolutely no pure friendship with girls, but this situation is rarely together, and feelings will arise after a long time.

There is no legend, but there is! Personally, I have a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship that is pure friendship. It's the same kind of buddy.,But you don't necessarily get together once a year.,It's all when you need each other's help when there's something.,Contact each other.,It's the same for each other.,And each other will sincerely try to provide the maximum help they can provide.。

Would you believe it if someone often gets mixed up with your favorite girlfriend and also says, "We are a pure male-female relationship?"

Now boys and girls are close to each other, and even when they talk, there are people behind their backs who suspect what they like, let alone friendship!

Yes, the uglier the girl, the purer the friendship.

Yes Danki has.

The ratio is about the ratio of humans to pandas.

If you want me to see if you don't, you say!

Li Bingbing and Ren Quan are representative examples.

I guess there is, but it's very rare.

Yes, but it's hard. After all, sometimes the relationship is too good, and it is impossible to distinguish between friendship and love.

Yes, it depends on the character. Know how to keep your distance and not cross that line.

No, in "The First Half of My Life", Tang Jing knows everything about Luo Zijun, what she can do and what she can't do, she has done it for her, but as a result, He Han empathized and said goodbye.

Therefore, there must be a sense of boundary between people, especially the opposite sex around their men, and they must pay special attention.

First of all, I think there can be pure friendship between men and women, and this definition is that male and female friends are the kind that can help with something, rather than male girlfriends, female girlfriends or so-called confidants who can chat and share trivial matters every day. To put it crudely, how can a person who has lived for such an old age not have a friend of the opposite sex who knows him, it is obviously unrealistic.

Personally, I am a very possessive type, especially when it comes to lovers. But if the other half has friends of the opposite sex, I don't mind, and this is based on the 'normal' social range.

It's actually a test of your partner's understanding of the word normal, for example, if your partner is looking for comfort from a friend of the opposite sex when he's lost, this can be very problematic. It's also problematic that the person you share with is not you, but her friends of the opposite sex. Why is there a problem?

Quite simply, because these things should be done to one's lover and not to the so-called friends of the opposite sex. If your lover has such a friend of the opposite sex, I personally recommend that you consider splitting it.

And what is the scope of normal friends of the opposite sex, such as normal friends having dinner (of course, it is better if you are also present). It's not impossible to have a dinner date in private, but if your lover loves you and wants to give you security, he or she won't do that. When a friend has something, call ** to help, which is also a normal mutual friend.

Let's talk about a knowledge point here, treating friends of the opposite sex must be completely different from treating lovers. And this degree your lover is fully aware of, and it is completely possible to grasp this degree, just depending on whether he wants it or not.

So if there is a gap between a couple of lovers because of the problem of a friend of the opposite sex, it must be that he or she has a problem or does not love you enough. Because the person who truly loves you can't bear to let you get hurt because of other trivial things.

Here I advise you that if you feel uncomfortable with the way your partner gets along with friends of the opposite sex, it is best to talk about it with your lover, if he or she has really changed, then this person is really good to you and loves you, if you don't change, then you really have to think about breaking up.

Boys and girls maintain a long-term friendship and must grasp the principle of communication

As long as we have a good grasp of the principle of communication and pay attention to the scale, the interaction between men and women is either impossible without pure friendship, or the principle of communication is grasped.

Try not to date or meet alone and keep a certain distance.

Same-sex friends usually have something to do when they meet alone. For example, girls go shopping and eat with each other, while boys play games. Although these things can be done between boyfriends and girlfriends, there are still too many inconveniences.

It doesn't hurt to play crazy when you are a group of people, but when the two go out alone, no matter how pure things are, they will inevitably be wronged, and they will also misunderstand their lovers.

When friends of the opposite sex need help, try not to meet each other if they can solve it without meeting. As long as the two of them really play well, they won't care about these, but will really think about each other.

Be careful in your speech and don't make ambiguous jokes.

It doesn't hurt to joke between friends. Because you have a good time, you won't have any scruples, and you dare to say anything to each other. But for friends of the opposite sex, we must grasp the scale well, so as not to be embarrassed by both parties.

Learning to be forgiving and understanding others is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget the words you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day sooner, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.

Admittedly, this pure friendship has. It's only temporary or short-term, and it can't be a friendship like a same-sex friend, and if you really get to that point, the family on both sides will be over.

The topic of pure friendship between boys and girls has always been a controversial topic. There are those who believe that there is no such thing as pure friendship between men and women, because they believe that the existence of gender and the desire for sex cannot be ignored. Others believe that there can be pure friendship between men and women, but that there are some details and rules that need to be taken care of.

In the case of the former, they mainly believe that it is impossible for a man and a woman to participate without a sexual element. They believe that while some people can control their emotions and impulses, in most cases, friendships between men and women can become blurred and complicated once they have crossed certain limits. Sometimes, one partner will misinterpret the other party's good intentions and even have thoughts of love or sexual relations.

Therefore, he did not believe that there could be pure friendship between men and women.

For the latter view, it is believed that there can be pure friendship between men and women, only a few rules and details need to be paid attention to. They believe that if two people do not pay much attention to each other's physical characteristics of the opposite sex, and the feelings for each other are pure affection, a pure friendship relationship can be maintained. Of course, this requires both parties to have enough intelligence and emotional control to avoid any misunderstandings and misunderstandings.

To sum up, pure friendship between men and women can exist, but it requires both parties to work together, follow some rules and pay attention to some details. At the same time, it is also necessary for both parties to have a clear understanding and understanding of the friendship and avoid any emotional over-entanglement and misunderstanding.