What does my boyfriend mean, hate him to death, hate him

Men are like that sometimes, and they may think crookedly when you say something. On the other hand, maybe what you say will make him think of saying anything casual when he asks you, and make him feel that you are not respectful enough or that you are a very casual girl. Actually, you just said something very casually, maybe he was thinking too much.

People sometimes think differently or are all weird. Just like he said that a woman can't say casually, he may think that you should say that I want to eat xx, which may be more logical for him. Maybe you're a bit more easy-going.

Don't be angry, if only next time you just said I'm going to eat xx.

I don't know. He seems to have another idea in his mind.

Didn't tell you.

But it's not important.

Then don't just say anything about it in the future.

Let him not just say no

Repost) a few words that men are most afraid of women saying:

1) Whatever.

M: What are we going to eat tonight?

F: Whatever. M: Let's eat hot pot.

Woman: No, you will have acne on your face when you eat hot pot.

M: Shall we eat Sichuan food?

F: I just ate Sichuan food yesterday, and I ......... it today

M: Shall we eat seafood?

F: The seafood is not good, and I have diarrhea after eating.

M: What do you say you eat?

F: Whatever. 2) Both.

M: So what are we doing now?

F: Fine. M: How about watching a movie? It's been a long time since I've seen a movie.

F: What's so good about the movie? Delays.

M: What about bowling?

Woman: Trembling on a hot day? Aren't you tired?

M: Then find a coffee shop and have some water.

F: Drinking coffee affects sleep.

M: What are you talking about?

F: Fine. 3) Look at you.

M: Then let's just go home.

F: Look at you. M: Let's take the bus! I'll send you.

F: The bus is dirty and crowded, so forget it.

M: The taxi (taxi).

F: It's not cost-effective to be so close.

M: Okay, let's take a walk.

Woman: Where are you going to go with an empty stomach?

M: So what do you want?

F: Look at you. M: Then eat first.

F: Whatever. M: What do you eat? F: Fine.

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Your boyfriend is very serious! Hehe, nothing to be angry about!

It's good for everyone to talk and laugh with each other, so it's not good to be persistent, what will we do together in the future!

The woman wants to say something constructive, and you say that casual people think you are unhappy and do not want to go out to dinner with him.

Don't you understand? Although women in love listen to men, they are also very happy and take the initiative to find a way for their boyfriend.

You're angry like that, your boyfriend is pitiful!

Collect your temper in the future, and if you don't love him, divide it.

It is recommended to choose"Enthusiastic to be banned"The answer is that I agree with him. Maybe he's a man, but I'm a woman. I think so too. References"If that's the case, next time you can just say that I want to eat xx"It doesn't matter how expensive he is!

It's nothing, if you pick up the sentence below, wouldn't I be able to eat ice cream casually?

Feed! Did you make a mistake, people respected you and asked you! What do you mean? Such a big young lady's temper! There will be more trouble in your life in the future, and you still have to be angry like this? In the future, if you like to eat, you can eat it, and if you don't like it, pull it down! Hum! I'm!

He's sick, so let him go.

Flickering. Your boyfriend is very macho. Sometimes such boys are quite unbearable.

He thinks that you say casual is not because he thinks you are a casual person, in his eyes he may think that you are a more assertive girl, so he feels uneasy, and hopes that you will have more of your own opinions. I don't want you to be a passive girl all the time. The intentions are good, but the words are not ......You should be angry.

Such a boy is a little scary. An easy-going person meets an uneasy-going person = a stone is thrown into a stone, and the head is bleeding.

PS: The story above is interesting. But normal people shouldn't be so bc - and wonder if the woman in the story is playing with the man. Ha ha.

Hehe, it doesn't matter! Ignore him.

Couples are very close when they are in love, and it is inevitable that there will be small quarrels. But some couples will be more and more affectionate as they quarrel, while some couples will break up as soon as they quarrel. In fact, couples also need to master skills when they quarrel, especially after a quarrel, they must repair their relationship as soon as possible, otherwise the relationship will be gone.

So how do couples reconcile after a quarrel?

1. Think about the reason for the quarrel.

Quarrels are not momentary emotional venting, but are aimed at solving problems. In fact, quarrels are also a way of communication, always remember that the original purpose of quarrels is to solve problems, not to make the other party angry or sad. Once you've calmed down, think calmly about the reason for your quarrel.

Is it because of a difference of opinion on something, or because the other person has done something sorry for you, or because you have done something wrong and preemptively? Only by finding the key to the problem and judging things by facts can we truly solve the problem.

2. Learn to empathize.

Most couples will focus on themselves when they quarrel, and what he says is more demanding, and he will not even take into account the feelings of the other party at all, so the communication will slowly evolve into complaining, scolding the other party so much that he is willing to stop. But this kind of quarrel is not good at all to solve the problem.

After the quarrel, you must learn to empathize, recall the whole process of your quarrel, every word he said that poked into your heart may be his appeal, what kind of result he wants, why he does it, what is his feeling at the moment......Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about how you would solve the problem if you were him. Learn to understand each other's thoughts and feelings, be considerate of each other's way of doing things, and maybe you will have a new understanding of your partner.

3. Take the initiative to reconcile after a quarrel.

It is also crucial for couples to take the initiative to reconcile after a quarrel. After a couple quarrels, they will generally enter a cold war period, and no one wants to bow their heads and admit defeat first, so no one will take the initiative to reconcile. Couples need to grasp the time of the cold war, the relationship will fade after a long time of cold war, and the relationship will fade which means a breakup.

Therefore, after the quarrel, you must take the initiative to contact the other party in the short term no matter what. Don't think of quarrels as vindictiveness, it's a very naïve idea to admit defeat who takes the initiative first, and it's a rational thing to reconcile in time after a quarrel. If you really care about the other person, then manage the relationship well.

The more intimate the relationship, the more you need to run in and warm up the relationship. Master the skills of couple quarrels, stick to the principles and bottom line of love, and the relationship will become better and better.

You had a fight with your boyfriend and you kept calling him disgusting. He said you were going to die, hurry up and die. He sees that you hate this situation and you don't know what to do.

It's normal because you guys are arguing and everyone is angry. It will be said by being angry. It's hard to listen to, wait for everyone to calm down, later.

You may feel sorry for what you said, so don't mind your boyfriend too much. Words to say when you are angry. The only thing you have to do now is wait for him to coax you.

Because men should generally take the initiative to coax women, even if it is your fault for quarreling, he should coax you.

First of all, we must know how to control our emotions, it is normal to have conflicts, but we must have a good communication, what are we arguing about? Whose problem is it, we have to solve the problem in a targeted manner, everyone scolds each other, in addition to venting emotions, there is no half-dime help for the problem, your contradiction is still there, and the words are in a hurry, everyone has nothing to say, the contradiction will escalate, it is recommended that when there is a contradiction, it is good to talk about things, everyone rationally speaks, pay attention to take care of each other's feelings, and turn big things into small things, unless it is a principled problem with zero tolerance, then there is nothing to say, just turn around and leave, and there is no need to argue, It's heart-wrenching to hurt each other, even if you can't be a lover, don't be an enemy, it's good to get together and disperse!

Maybe it's because each other is not calm enough, and you can wait for everyone to calm down and apologize. Say: Honey I'm sorry, it's that what I said before was a bit excessive, and I won't be next time.

Then turn the page on it, try to stay calm in future quarrels, and don't say anything too excessive.

It should be that everyone does not have good communication, there are still differences, and each other is still a little unhappy, people are angry, and it is inevitable that they will be irrational when they speak and do things, if everyone still cares about each other, they should talk about it calmly and explain the misunderstanding clearly. I think you guys are still very emotional, and you don't really care too much.

He thinks that you are making trouble unreasonably, if you love each other, you will be reconciled as before, it is not easy to meet someone you love, and it is not easy to love yourself.

Whether two people are in love or married in the future, there will be many contradictions, and when they encounter anything, they must be clear and clear, and people who want to be together will naturally understand each other. Your boyfriend ignores you, saying that he is busy, maybe he really needs help with things at home, so he doesn't have a lot of time to chat with you. Or maybe I've been together for a long time, I don't like to stick together so much, and I hope I have my own space.

Some people themselves just don't like to chat online with nothing to do, and prefer to live in real life and enjoy the fun of real life, so they don't chat with you much online, causing you to feel that he doesn't love you. Or I'm not interested in what you're talking about, and sometimes I don't know how to talk about you, so I'm more concise in my reply.

In the relationship, as long as it is not a third party involved, it feels easy to solve, the problem lies in the way of communication, and only in the continuous run-in to find the most suitable mode for you to get along. When your boyfriend has something, you can find something to do by yourself, play with friends, chase dramas, open black, and read books. You also have to have your own circle, don't stay in front of your phone and wait for news, you won't be happy if you love too much and think too much.

You can only attract your boyfriend more if you become better and better, of course, becoming excellent is for yourself, not for him.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, I was like you at the beginning and waited for his news every day, I felt indifferent when he replied a few words less, I wondered if I didn't love it, I didn't like it, I often quarreled and got angry because of this kind of thing, and then I was busy with him, I also played with friends, went to class or something, and when he had time, I played **, I didn't have to talk for many days, but I didn't think about it if I had something to do, and I usually cared more about it, love is mutual, you understand him, he understands you, If you really understand infinitely and can't get his understanding back, then you really don't love you. I hope you can have a good chat with your boyfriend, and you have to talk about any grievances, and kick the grievances out of your heart in order to go on in the long run.

It's a little disgusting to look at, but this is a trivial matter, or a comprehensive evaluation of whether your boyfriend is worthy of your love.

1. Don't always praise other members of the opposite sex in front of your object. The taboo of love is to often praise the advantages of other people of the opposite sex in front of his lover, which will make the lover feel that you are implying that he is not as good as others, and it will also make him feel that you have found the wrong object and have been regretting, making him feel that you do not respect him and deliberately belittle him, so that he will lose self-confidence and even choose to escape to leave you, once it reaches the point where the other party can't stand it, once it breaks out, then your relationship will definitely be over!

2: Caring for the other person's physical health, this sentence seems simple, but it will be difficult for you to do, which requires you to pay attention to some details and pay attention to what the other person says. For example, if your lover says that he has not eaten well recently, then your lover will have a high possibility of gastrointestinal problems, and you should take him or her to see a doctor at this time, which is a detail of caring for people, and it is also the most critical detail for men and women.

3: Remember each other's tastes.

That's a passing grade.

Pay more attention when you usually eat, at least don't eat green onions, don't eat garlic, don't eat coriander and other details to remember, and help each other remove these things next time.

4: Gently blow your girlfriend's hair.

Learn the skills of blowing long hair, you don't know how lazy girls are, and how cool it is to not have to blow your own hair every day.

Some girls don't even have to blow their hair every day (dog head to save their lives).

5: Secretly write down where the other party said they wanted to go and take them there.

If you just see a certain guide to show you, or share a certain note from Mark**, save it quietly, find a way to achieve it, and take it with you.

6: Don't interrupt when you speak, and listen patiently to what the other person has to say.

Even if you know the answer, you can wait for the other person to finish slowly before saying your own opinion.

Making the other person feel comfortable and respected in the relationship is a way to warm up the relationship quickly.

7: Take the initiative to take responsibility, don't run away when you quarrel, and solve the problem.

When two people quarrel and have problems, they should sit down and have a good chat and solve the problem calmly, instead of "okay, okay, okay, okay,

This will not only not make the other party have a good impression, but will even erase the original love for you.

8: Dress up neatly and not sloppily.

Don't underestimate this, many boys will fall on this point.

You don't have to be particularly good-looking, but if you dress up cleanly and not sloppy, the other party will naturally feel more comfortable when you are with you.