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If you want money but no money, you want no people, you want a job without a job, you want a house without a house, you want to be honest but you are not honest, you want it.
Anyway, I'm like this.
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What kind of man would want to hit a quilt single! Rise up, brother!
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Like my introvert, I've given up on the appointment.
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Born on November 11, God is destined. (Purely for entertainment, if there is any similarity, it is a great honor).
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Oh?!Are you prepared?
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At present, the development of the rural areas is gradually catching up, and the living standards of the rural people have also improved compared with before. In the past, there were not so many rules when they got married, but now that the living conditions are better, people are not satisfied with food and clothing, but want to pursue a better life. Therefore, parents definitely don't want their daughters to be wronged in life after marriage, so the first condition when getting married is to have a house and a car, and this is also one of the hard conditions for marriage now, so many young people with poor family conditions retreat directly.
First, physiological factors. Some people are born with physical diseases, which not only seriously affect their daily life, but also seriously affect their future marriage. For the average family, this is definitely adding insult to injury.
Some families spend a lot of money just **, if they marry a daughter-in-law again, they can't get that much money at all, and almost no one in a normal girl wants to marry a physically defective person, unless the man's family is particularly rich.
The second type is that the family is particularly poor. There is a family in our village, and my mother is physically disabled and can only do some light farm work. The father and son can't save much money for a year, and the mother usually needs a lot of money every year to take medicine.
Many matchmakers in the village didn't dare to tell him matchmakers at all, and there was no envy for scumbags in this situation.
I heard from the people in the village that a matchmaker had told a girl with a physical disability, but as soon as they saw this situation, they were immediately scared away. Year after year, the man is now in his forties, and now there is no girl willing to marry him, and even if there is a girl who is willing, he may not be able to get the high bride price now. The stick is also forced to be helpless.
Third, some people deserve to be guilty of personal factors, and this kind of person is the least worthy of sympathy and pity.
There are some singles who can't marry a daughter-in-law completely because they are lazy and lazy, and they are idle all day long, either playing cards or wandering around. What girl would marry such a person?
There is such a person in our village, his parents are healthy, and his health is also great, Liang Shi went to find a factory to work when he had no money, and he squandered it when he had money in the last few months, and he didn't report when he left his job, and suddenly he didn't go to work, and so on, and now there is no factory nearby that dares to use him. Farming is also three days of fishing, and two days of drying nets. These people are simply self-inflicted.
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Now in this era when there are more men and fewer women, more and more people feel that they have to fight singles, so what kind of men are easier to beat singles?
The first is the lazy type. This is also the most bad one, usually don't do anything, study and don't learn well, don't do things seriously, there is no real ink in the stomach, and others as long as you talk to you can see the bottom of this kind of person, there is no city, let alone deal with people, naturally there will be no girls favored, unless you can correct your attitude when you work in the future, otherwise it is difficult to have girls like it, and the probability of being single is relatively large.
The second type is not good at communicating. There are also a lot of men of this type, and many people who are unwilling to communicate can also find their love, but often when girls are angry or coquettish, boys don't know how to parry, so that girls suspect that boys don't love her enough, can't tolerate her and give up this love, such boys won't coax girlfriends, let alone say some sweet words, there will be girls who like such boys, but in many cases girls will give up.
The third type has no connotation, likes to talk big and brags. This kind of person is also a majority, many people like to talk big, brag about their skills, but when it's really time to show, they can't show it, they usually like to brag about themselves with their boyfriend and girlfriend, and there will be girls who like his character, but many times they can't stand his boasting and give up this love.
The fourth type is the man with a heart of flowers. A man with a heart is not single-minded, he likes to step on several boats, and when he is discovered by a woman, he can find thousands of reasons to make a woman happy, such a man can find a girlfriend, but it is difficult to talk about it for a long time, once it is discovered, it is difficult to get rid of it.
The fifth type is a man who is good for nothing. This kind of man is relatively rare, he wants money and no money, no one wants people, he wants knowledge and no knowledge, and there is no place for others to appreciate and learn from all over the body, even if a man like this is in the women's pile every day, it is difficult for women to attract unless they can work hard to change themselves, otherwise it is easy to become a single.
The sixth type is the man who doesn't like women. This kind of man is also very rare, because the original theory of relativity has the doctrine of opposites attracting, so there are very few men who don't like to get along with women, if someone is one of them, it must be a person to go down.
There are also a few things that are duplicated with the above, such as the kind of people who are unwilling to share themselves, that is, they have their own little secrets, and they talk about it all day long, which will also make love collapse.
There are probably so many things I can summarize, but as long as you are willing to work hard, there must be something bright in yourself, and it is difficult to fight a single.
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Men who have no money are the easiest to beat singles, and only those who have money are qualified to talk about feelings, and feelings are built on money.
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There are also many successful people who are singles, busy with their careers all day long and have no time to fall in love, or even if they have a little time, they have to entertain themselves.
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1.2Compare the hearty.
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If you are not self-motivated, as long as you are self-motivated, no matter what you look like, whether you are poor or rich, there will be a girl who is willing to be with you.
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The problem should be multifaceted.
At the individual level. No money, unsociable, withdrawn personality, physical objective conditions, etc.
Social dimension. There is a serious imbalance between men and women. Under the existing monogamous system, someone is destined to beat the singles.
Of course, I can only say that the editorial of the people's ** is not written at a high level. High education, high income, (not to mention high quality, I am very skeptical about how high those so-called "high quality" are) The same people are singles. I know a lot of female masters and doctors around, but I don't have men with the same education around me to chase them, and this problem is getting more and more serious now.
For most men, the small social circle is an important reason why they are still single.
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This question, the first thing I want to laugh at is when I see it, haha. First of all, there is a big environmental condition, that is, the imbalance between men and women in our country. The director of the Center for Population and Development Studies of the Chinese University of China once said:
It is conservatively estimated that about 30 million men in China will not be able to marry a wife in the next 30 years." From this, it can be seen that it is now a society with more monks and less porridge, which has produced a lot of singles. And what kind of man is easy to become a single?
First of all, the first point is that because the family conditions and economic foundation are very low, because there is no money and the family environment is not good, no one in the woman's family can take a fancy to this kind of man, which has caused the situation that this part of the men has become singles.
The second point is that men who have conditions but have their own defects are also more likely to become singles, because in this way, when a girl marries, she has to take on the responsibility of taking care of the man, so it is not easy to find a daughter-in-law.
The above two points are about objective conditions, and are not the innate basis for oneself to decide. But the innate foundation can be changed through their own efforts, so this kind of man must not give up, there is still hope.
Regarding the men themselves, there are the following:
First, men are sloppy and unhygienic. Women are basically sensory animals, first of all, a man's appearance is sloppy and dirty, which will instantly make a woman feel no sense of him, and will only want to stay away from him.
The second is that men are useless and do not seek to be motivated. The vast majority of women will want to have a man who can give her a sense of security, if a man is useless and not motivated, then this man will not bring women anything she wants, needs. Nor can they protect her and give her a warm arm.
In the long run, women will be disappointed in this kind of man, so that there will be fewer and fewer women around this kind of man.
The third is that men are short-tempered, have a bad temper, and have violent tendencies. This kind of man is a dangerous existence in the first place, he will not only threaten the safety of women, but even the safety of this society. So women must be afraid of such men and stay away from them.
Fourth, men are stingy, stingy, and have a small belly. This kind of man doesn't give, can't give women what they want, calculates all day long, and doesn't have much to offer. After marriage, this is the trigger for unhappy families, so such men are not popular with women.
Fifth, men have no connotation and are too pompous. In short, it's loaded. And it's a bottomless outfit. Women basically do not have a good impression of this kind of man, thinking that they are not practical enough, too impetuous, and cannot give them a reliable home. Wait a minute.
It is not easy for a man to become a single, as long as you can have some shining points, you will find your other half, after all, there are still a lot of women, work hard, you will be stronger than some men in China, only the strong will have the right to distribute. Therefore, boys should hurry up to improve their quality and ability, to find your beautiful other half, and create a better future!
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