How do you fight back? Quarrel with others, how can the mouth speak to others

It's easy! He said, "You're just too smart, but you know what? Outsmart oneself!

Now that you know I'm talking about myself, what are you talking about? Do you think I'm talking about you? Well, I'll give you those words!

In the future, as long as anyone says this, it is talking about you! ”

There are two lores One is when there are not many people and he says this to you, and you say, "Does my mouth stink?" And if he says yes, you say because I use your toothpaste.

There's an even more bullish reply, no matter how the other party scolds, when there are a lot of people, he says this about you, and in the middle of the conversation, you interject and say, you have vegetables on your teeth, and the other party will definitely be embarrassed, and then you ask him if he ate today, and if he says no, you say, Tragedy, the dish on your teeth was yesterday.

Even if he doesn't have any food on his teeth, you can say the same.

Calmly said: I'm sorry I was rude.

In this way, unless there is no character, people do not blush.

I've tried it and it works!

...If you can, you should never return it. Because that's not right.

You know I said myself, and you still have to listen? Looks like you're about the same as me, huh? Do you have a share in what I said? (You have to pretend to be surprised in this paragraph) you are not better** Oh remember to laugh a little more Don't show that you are very angry The happier you laugh, the better).

Friends quarrel and play each other, right? If it's really a friend, I'll forgive him, if not, just say directly: "People who can't even tell the difference between you and me, it's really unlevel to talk to you, so let's play where it's cool!" Then he waved his sleeves and left.

Silence is the most difficult argument to refute.

Let's just say, it's really sad to be told by others, and I think others are talking about themselves, people, you are self-aware, no wonder you are so cheap, there is no such thing.

You say, "Yo, just say it yourself, alas, poor child, your mother gave birth to your child and thought there was any future, it turned out. . . Alas, I am sorry for you. "Is this good, ruthless?

What you say is what you are, what you say you are!

...Saying... You're so strong.

Or learn to roar and roar...

I'm one of those stupid people.

Every time I quarrel with someone, it is usually after the quarrel, when I get home or think about it on the road, I suddenly discover: word God, I should have returned like this, oops, why didn't I think of it at the time? Why am I so stupid?

If I had refuted it at the time, it would have been perfect...

In short, the intestines are repentant.

A few days ago, I went to reapply for an ID card and met a staff member with a very bad attitude. Asked her a few questions, and she had a stinky face and looked very impatient the whole time.

My ID card expires next month, but it will be 3 months before I can get a new one. What if I need an ID card during this time? Can I buy a ticket? ”

I don't know if you can buy a ticket".

Then you can help me get a temporary ID card! ”

Your ID card has not expired, what kind of temporary ID card should you get? ”

But if I want to buy a ticket home for the Chinese New Year, can I still buy it when my ID card expires? ”

I can't guarantee that you will be able to buy it, but some people will be able to buy it if they react!! The train station is a place for a temporary ID card, I have only been to one train station and I know it!! The staff looked disdainful).

I asked a few questions, and I felt that my life was a few years shorter.

When I left, I even said "thank you" to her, wondering if my brain was flooded!!

When I got home, I kept thinking about it, thinking of that stinky face and the tone of my speech, and the more I thought about it, the more angry I became. At that time, she should have complained to her face:

Can the attitude not be so bad? I ask you in a good voice, what is the attitude of the personnel of your state unit? ? Ask you what's wrong, isn't that what you're supposed to do?

Were you born to know everything? ·· Anyway, this rebuttal has been brewing in my heart for a long time, although I didn't refute it very sharply, but at least I said everything I wanted to say in my heart).

The loss is big, the loss is big, why didn't you refute it so much in the first place? Such a perfect blow, I actually missed it, hey!!

In fact, such situations often occur in life and work. Talk to the boss, and only after going out do you realize that there should be a better one just now, and I can't wait to run into the boss's office immediately to repeat the question just now; Usually in meetings, or when I have some questions, I always feel that my head is not ** at all, and I don't think I can do anything at that time until it's over...

I feel that my written expression is much better than my verbal expression.

Usually people who chat with me on the Internet think that I am a very "powerful" character. But when they saw me, their reaction was generally that they didn't believe that the person in front of them was the one who chatted fiercely on the Internet and retorted very badly.

Because the difference is really too big.

When chatting face-to-face, I feel that I can't speak and my brain is not enough. It's not because I'm nervous, it's not because I'm shy or scared, I just can't find the right one to refute the other person's words.

It's not good to quarrel with others. If you have to talk about others, you can't do it, you can earn the first place and lose your friendship, what's the deal?

Isn't that a question that should be asked how to avoid quarrels?

As the saying goes, there are people outside of people, and there are days outside of the sky, and when you feel that you are "sharp-tongued", there will always be someone who is more neat than you, and besides, quarrels are not a good thing in themselves, and even if they have the upper hand in a quarrel, it seems that it is not honorable.

How to improve our emotional intelligence, pay attention to the art of speaking, and learn the truth of how to behave in the world is the key point that we should pay attention to.