Why am I so unhappy every time I hear that someone else has been admitted to university?

Updated on educate 2024-05-25
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think this kind of jealousy comes from the fact that you are not satisfied with your current situation, or you have high expectations in terms of exams but the results are not satisfactory, so when you touch on this aspect of things, you will involuntarily become jealous. But you can reflect on it and prove that you are still a rational and morally strong person. Jealousy is inevitable for everyone, as long as it does not affect the fairness of your work, and it is not a big deal if it does not affect your character.

    To solve this problem, first, work harder to make your situation better, improve your ability and quality, and make yourself full of self-confidence. 2. Overcome vanity and comparison, and don't care too much about other people's opinions.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    ..Nowadays, college students are very common, there is nothing to be unhappy about, and being admitted to university does not mean that you are soaring, success is for people who work hard, not for college students.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It shows that you are normal, and people are always a little jealous (potential). It's okay, it's good if you don't want to.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The sense of loss, it's normal, don't think about it, you should look forward, and you can't go back to the past

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm not happy yet.

    When I was in junior college, I was depressed when I heard my mom say that whoever is going to college.

    Now it's okay, I'm working.

    And it's working okay, and it's finally time to put your balance.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    100% of the time you get a good job after going to college?

    It is the human being who can dominate everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Don't force yourself to go to a school you don't want to go to, at this time, you can choose to go back to high school again. If you find that the university is indeed too different from your ideal after entering the university, such as poor campus environment and poor professional employment, it will affect your own development. You may consider dropping out of school and re-enrolling in a new university in the coming year.

    2. In the same university, you can look for your favorite major and find opportunities to change your major. Some students are dissatisfied with the university, which may be because they are not satisfied with the major they are studying. Nowadays, many universities can change majors, you can ask questions about changing majors in universities, and try to find opportunities to change your favorite majors.

    3. If you have been studying for several years and want to change your major, you can choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination and get a graduate degree in the university of your choice. Root.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, I remember that the moment I walked out of the exam room, I felt a heavy pressure lifted from my shoulders. The mood was completely relaxed, and the intense preparation for the exam for several months was finally over. I didn't expect so many emotions to come to my heart at this moment.

    The results of the exam weren't exactly what I expected, but I felt like I had put in all the hard work. I have to believe in myself no matter what, and believe that my efforts are worthwhile. Regardless of the outcome, I've done my best and it's a great feeling.

    I think of the sacrifices and efforts I made for this day, and I also think of the sweat and tears I put into this moment. Now, all the hard work has become a thing of the past, and I can only wait for the results to come.

    At the same time, I am also looking forward to the arrival of university life. Imagine the new phase you are about to enter – new friends, new classes, new environments. This change makes me both excited and uneasy.

    Of course, I also have some concerns. After all, after all these years of hard work, it is very important to get into the ideal university and major. But now there is no way to change the outcome, we can only wait. The uncertainty makes me feel a little uneasy, but I also have to believe in my ability and effort.

    In short, I had mixed feelings. On the one hand, I felt a great sense of relief that months of preparing for the exam were finally over. On the other hand, I am also full of expectations and uncertainties, and I am full of yearning and anticipation for the future.

    High school life is coming to an end, and I'm about to embark on a new journey. It's an amazing feeling.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Are you particularly troubled because you didn't get into university? If so, it is because you want to study, if you really want to study, whether you want to repeat it, it is not a problem to be admitted to university.

    If you really want to go to college and study, you can turn your worries into motivation and throw yourself into the sea of books to .......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Going to school is just a good way out, it's not the only way out, it's good to figure it out, and you don't have to have a degree to succeed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You don't have to go to college to have a way out, you have to go on your own.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Looking for a job After 4 years of college, you have to find a job, and now after 4 years of searching, you will be a veteran in the workplace.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you really want to do it, repeat it for another year.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I am quite satisfied with the college entrance examination. I was admitted to the university of my choice. But my good friend, who did not do well in the university exam, could have been admitted to a prestigious school, but only took an ordinary one.

    When she first knew the grades, she was really sad, she didn't choose to repeat, because she was too tired, afraid that she couldn't bear it, so she chose this university, I thought he would be depressed all the time, but I didn't expect that after arriving at the university, she really wanted to open, the whole person is very positive, actively participate in various social activities, and study hard, improve yourself in all aspects, popularity and grades are very good, often won school scholarships.

    She told me that since she didn't do well in the college entrance examination, she should work harder in college and be admitted to a good graduate school, after all, there are still many opportunities in life, how can you be defeated by a college entrance examination!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, when we applied for the college entrance examination, we all knew a principle. That is the high-scoring school, the low-scoring major. When our grades are relatively high, we will choose a relatively well-known school, such as the particularly famous Fudan University and Nankai University', Zhejiang University, Wuhan University, etc., but there are many people who fail the college entrance examination, and they are choosing a school, and there may be many unsatisfactory places in this regard.

    So this naturally brings us to the topic, I think the college entrance examination is really too tiring, if it is not particularly necessary, don't go back and retake it. But if you're really not satisfied with your university, you might as well give it a try.

    Anyway, I'm more cowardly, more greedy for comfort, my college entrance examination is not good again, I won't go back and read it again, because the college entrance examination is the road you force yourself to move forward, I don't know, just keep going wrong like this or repeat which one is braver, I can only choose that shortcut.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What I want to say is, even if you get into a university that is not very good, so what? As long as it is your own choice, even if you close your eyes, you have to walk down on your knees. I don't think college is good or bad, only students who study well or not don't care so much, if you are willing to work hard, even if it is a bad university, so what?

    As long as you enrich yourself in college, improve your professional culture courses, and improve your knowledge, we will be the same in society anyway, no matter what good university you are, as long as you choose a good major in college, maybe you can get some of your bad back. I think even if you go to a bad university, don't be sad, don't be discouraged, if the university is not good, you can study your major well and become the best in this major, if you can be the first in your school, you may have a place in graduation. After our college entrance examination results are not good, the school is not good, in fact, it is nothing, as long as you are willing, you can take the postgraduate examination, and you can take a good university when you are a graduate student, which is also okay, and it does not necessarily have to be a good university to have a good way out, you must remember this sentence.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that if I am admitted to a university that is not very good, my first thought will definitely be to go to graduate school. Now the army of graduate students is getting bigger and bigger, not only students who are not good at school, but even students will choose to take the graduate school entrance examination. In fact, this situation is quite in line with my current reality, I went to a school that is not very good, if I don't go to graduate school, I don't think there is any way out, so I was determined to take the New Year's graduate school entrance examination when I entered the university, and only by going to graduate school can I get in touch with a better school and a higher level.

    Of course, if you can find a good job after graduation, I don't think it really matters if you are good at university or not. After all, there are many graduate students who are still unemployed at home, so it is important to have a good job in this way.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I just want to say that college does not determine your future, indeed, a diploma will have a certain impact on your choice of job, but it is not said that you will have a good life if you go to a good university, and many students I know, even in first-class schools, do not study hard. In the end, the job is not very good, don't think of college as a threshold, you can have many outlets. If you are not satisfied with your university right now, you can choose to study hard for graduate school.

    It's enough to get into a university that you are satisfied with. Also, if you don't plan to go to graduate school, you can study the knowledge of various subjects well, strive for more certifications, it is really important, and you must also learn English well, and it is the last word that you really master the knowledge, don't blame the university.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Good or bad schools do not have much impact on the development of most students, and they still need to rely on themselves. As long as you want to study hard, you can learn what you want no matter what school you want. However, if you skip classes, play games, fall in love, etc. every day when you go to school, even if you are given a good school, you will not achieve anything when you graduate.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What if you go to a not-so-good university? I will definitely continue to study hard, only continue to study hard is the best way, instead of complaining, it is better to start working hard now and study hard.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I will look at my grades, and if I have any hope of getting back into a good university, I will choose to repeat the year, and if there is no hope, then go to this not so good university.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you are disappointed at the beginning, you will label yourself badly, and it will be impossible to do anything in the future, although the current university is not good, but you can continue your studies by yourself, and it is not impossible to get into a better graduate school.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Nowadays, college students are everywhere, and students who have graduated from good universities may not be able to find a job, rather than going to a bad university, it is better to go out and work directly, maybe there is another way.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Everyone has their own way to go, it is not that there is no hope of being admitted to a not very good university, you still need to increase the basic theoretical knowledge and social practice experience through your own efforts and study, I believe that with such efforts, you will not lose to the students who rely on a good university.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I will choose to go to university, after all, I don't want to go through the third year of high school again, I am older, I am still a repeat student, the psychological pressure is too great, and I may not be able to do well in the next year!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This depends on what you think in your heart, if you have a prestigious school plot and are not admitted to the ideal university, you can choose to repeat to a better school. If you think that you just want to go to a university, and then graduate and get a job, it doesn't matter if you are admitted to a not very good university, you can go directly to this university.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Study hard, be the first, prove to them with your own efforts, learn more professional knowledge, and enrich your professional quality.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A not-so-good university is also a university, and let's think about whether not all of our classmates have been admitted to university, right? Not all of them are better than their own universities!

    If you think about it this way, can you go to college in a happy mood? Why not?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello. You can answer like this: If I am not admitted, it may be that I am not good enough to meet your requirements. But I will review my own shortcomings, strive to improve, and hope that the next interview will let you see a serious and upward me.

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