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Your family is rich, and I'll kill that woman.

It's best to ask clearly, otherwise the consequences will be serious.

Talk to that sister about you and your relationship with her.

If you're thinking about your mom, watch your dad and see which vixen is up to the task.

Summary. Hello, you are 13 years old and want to kiss your sister who is four years older than you. This shows that you have a crush on this sister. But at your age, the complex definition of love should not arise.

Hello, you are 13 years old and want to kiss your sister who is four years older than you. This shows that you have a crush on this sister. But at your age, the complex definition of love should not arise.

If you really have this kind of thought, you don't need to think too much, you can contact her more when you meet someone you like, and with her own consent, you can interact more with each other, as long as you can learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses, and the two of you can make progress together, it should be okay.

You are in adolescence, and adolescence is the most active stage in the center of a person's life, and there are many physical and psychological changes at this time, such as mood swings, love for the opposite sex, and so on. At this time, the child wants to show the good side in front of the opposite sex, and the sexual consciousness will also sprout and be interested in the opposite sex. So you want to kiss an older sister, which is a very normal manifestation of puberty germination.

Don't worry too much!

It's for sure that his mother kissed her daughter, that's her own daughter, blood is thicker than water, after all, a daughter-in-law of yours joined the family from outside, and it is unlikely that you want to be treated as a daughter like her sister. She is not mean and critical of you, and it is already good to be able to discuss things with you and communicate well.

In this case, sometimes of course, the other party may also be in this situation, sometimes because of some kind of personality reasons of the other party, of course, the most important thing is that as long as your boyfriend and yourself really have feelings, you can trust yourself and love yourself, this is the most important thing, and the others are not particularly important, after all, you are living with your boyfriend.

Your boyfriend's mom and her daughter are closer than you, that's normal, after all, it's her own, and there are many years of affection. She gives you the feeling like this, which means that she is more realistic and does not play with you. As long as your boyfriend is closer to you, that's fine.

The blood is connected, you don't think too much, don't eat this vinegar, your mother-in-law will be good to you when you marry it, you must not be jealous, correct your thoughts, sit in a good seat, you treat your mother-in-law as a mother, your mother-in-law loves you more than your daughter, as long as you do a good job, you try to see.

It's normal for her mother and her daughter to kiss, and the belly of the compartment is a mountain of differences, after all, you are not born by someone else, but you are not so pessimistic, and you are also a family when you marry.

The boyfriend's sister is very good with her mother, and then she is not good with you, her mother is not good with him, he is very normal, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be different.

Summary. You can say directly to your father, Dad, don't kiss me in the future, I'm a big girl, I'll be angry if I kiss me again, no matter what the reason, Dad kissed you, if you don't accept it in your heart, you can tell Dad, don't kiss me, I don't want to; If you are afraid that your father will be angry, you can also say it tactfully, you can say anything about it, I don't want you to kiss me; I'm really embarrassed to speak, so wouldn't it be better to find my mother and let my mother talk about it.

It is right for children to respect their elders, but it is also okay to give opinions.

Hello. You can say directly to your father, Dad, don't kiss me in the future, I'm a big girl, I'll be angry if I kiss me again, no matter what the reason, Dad kissed you, if you don't accept it in your heart, you can tell Dad, don't kiss me, I don't want to; If you are afraid that your father will be angry, you can also say it tactfully, you can say anything about it, I don't want you to kiss me; I'm really embarrassed to speak, so wouldn't it be better to find my mother and let my mother talk about it. It is right for children to respect their elders, but it is also okay to give opinions.

It is a very happy thing, and every time he encounters something, he will help himself.

My sister thinks about her second parent, she will be the first to comfort you when you are wronged, and she will not ask you what you are doing when you need money!

Pretty good, right? My sister usually takes care of herself very much, and she thinks about everything for herself, and I also wish I had such an older sister, but I didn't expect that I was the biggest one.

I feel like I'm the darling of the family, I don't have to do anything, my sister is there to wash dishes and do housework, and my sister will help buy clothes and the like.

If you have a sister, then you will have one more person to love and take care of yourself, you will be very happy, and you can have one more person to discuss when you encounter something.

After going to school, we felt that it was good to have an older sister, because we were always covered, and no friend dared to bully us. I remember a quarrel with a girl in the class in the second grade, the person couldn't quarrel and called her sister to help, a boy saw it and immediately ran to report to my sister, he quickly led a group of people from the playground around, domineering asked: Who is bullying my sister?

The boy was scared and cried when he saw the situation, and he took a detour when he saw me later. When he entered junior high school and was in the upper grade of elementary school, no one dared to embarrass me anymore.

My sister is 10 years older than me, like the eldest parent, I have a generation gap with my parents in more than 30 years, generally my parents don't understand, tell my sister, my sister will help me talk, and my sister will buy me what I want, so it's really good to have a sister. ‍‍

Having a sister who is seven or eight years older than me is a very happy thing in itself, because the age gap is relatively large, and my sister will generally let her younger brother do everything, towards her younger brother, and be both a sister and a mother. The night before my sister got married, I found a place where no one was there and secretly cried for a while.

I have two older sisters who are 13 or 12 years old, and I am also a girl, not because our family is patriarchal, but after contraceptive surgery, I was still born Thanksgiving. My eldest sister's personality is a strong woman, compared to her parents, maybe she disciplines me more, the second sister has a softer personality, the best advantage is that when I was a child, my sisters would buy me New Year's gifts every year, maybe I was the youngest, and I would let me. When my sisters grow up, they have their own babies, and I will also help them take care of their little ones, and learn to bathe, breastfeed, and change diapers for their little ones.

Hahaha, there is an illusion of having children out of wedlock, a skill max, in fact, whether it is good or not depends on my own mentality, I feel that I am quite happy. ‍‍

More than 90 percent of what I wear is probably bought by my sister. The only downside is that you can't watch her turn into a shrew for a second when she fights with people as a child. Because I was in elementary school, she was in junior high school, and when I was in junior high school, she was already admitted to university....So I've been struggling on my own for so many years. ‍‍

I'm not against ethical love, love is everyone's freedom, not to mention that it's not an ethical issue, distant cousins are already far away in blood relationships. Height is not an issue, age is not distance.

The most important thing is that if she doesn't have the idea of you being together, please let her go, and silently wish her happiness in your heart.

First of all, this must be a difficult journey, and the end is all to the cliff, you belong to the forbidden love, and it may be just your unrequited love, so that you will not be able to walk a smooth road like a normal couple.

Let me tell you a story, it is a true story that happened to me, at that time I was only in the sixth grade of primary school, one of my sisters who played well was two years older than me, she studied late, and she was in the first year of junior high school, and the girls at that time didn't know what love was like, but they all more or less touched the threshold of love, and knew what the special feelings for the opposite sex were about, so they also began to have their own little secrets of adolescence. My relationship with this little sister is very good, and the two of them often secretly go to each other's homes to sleep at night, and naturally want to share their hearts before going to sleep, one day, maybe she feels that her little secret is going to be suppressed, so she said it, hoping that I can share it with her. She told me that she fell in love with the cousin who went to and from school with us every day, saying that it was a cousin, but in fact, it was just that their father was from the same village, although there was a blood relationship, but it was not the kind of cousin, and the age difference between the two people was not much, the boy was a lively and active person, and liked to make girls happy, no matter what relationship you had with her, so it accidentally touched a girl's heart, but the other party didn't know it.

There was not much to say about the process, the girl anonymously wrote a love letter to him with her left hand, but said that it was written by another girl, but the boy did not realize that this should be the bravest thing she had ever done for the little secret of adolescence. In the end, both of them went out to work, and the girl is now the mother of three children, and she basically doesn't come back, and the boy also has a girlfriend, and this relationship seems to have nothing but my memory. Therefore, the forbidden love must be unsightly, and the ending is naturally the most unpredictable, it is better to cherish the feelings in your heart, so that she will always be the most beautiful.

First of all, you need to figure out whether you two belong to the type of person who can't get married, then you need to knock on the side of your parents to see if they can accept this relationship, and finally confess to your cousin. If the first two don't work, rest assured.

If you really like her, you must cherish it. Be bold and let go, and don't be bound by the age of ethics.

Of course, I also hope that you can think carefully about whether you really like her.

Actually, I don't think it's good to say that, after all, it's your cousin.

Many parents will discipline their sons more strictly and love their daughters. That's because many parents now want their sons to become Jackie Chan and hope that their sons can be independent, strong, and sensible. Facts often prove that the son who is strict with discipline is more sensible and capable in the future.

In fact, your parents very much hope that they can favor you like spoiling your sister, but they can't, you will know when you grow up, and boys who grow up like that are easy to become "mom treasures" or losers, and they are bullied and can't find a girlfriend, and your parents are strict with you for your future.

Spoil your daughter a little, she won't be able to marry a little bird in the future, you don't want the little bird to be laughed at by your buddies in the future, right? So, understand the good intentions of your parents, they treat you like a little man in the family.

So, be like a man and be brave enough to face these.

Listening to your tone, it feels like you're very small, are you a boy or girl? In the case of a boy, it may be that your parents are afraid that your sister will feel left out, so they will show favor him. In the case of girls, it may be that your parents are biased towards weaker children.

What to do about this, it's not that your parents don't support you, as long as you should give you a lot of it, you don't care, listen to my advice, sometimes the more you don't care, the more your parents chase you and beg you, afraid that you don't accept their good, you care too much, your parents will be annoyed, but more biased towards your sister.

The poor raise their sons, and the rich raise their daughters. Parents are more strict with their sons, hoping that their sons will become dragons. And for her daughter, she is more lenient, giving her good food, good clothes, and pocket money.

It is to spoil her and get used to her, so that she can improve her taste and vision, and she can find a better one when she looks for her in-laws in the future. As for whether you prefer her or you, you will know when the two of you grow up when it comes to separating families and houses.

I just want to tell you succinctly, don't fight with your family.

You'll understand when you have a baby! Mom and Dad's love is the same.

Hello to the past.

If you are older than your parents, you will be called uncle and aunt.

Those younger than their parents are called uncles and aunts.

Happy and happy.

Brother-in-law's parents are the same age as your parents, and you can call them uncles and aunts.

Uncle (uncle) father, uncle (uncle) mother.

Please note:

1 His family is a family of divorced families, and the children in this kind of family feel the desolation of life when they are young—he does not listen to his parents now, probably because he had a bad relationship with his parents when he was a child, and when he felt that the family was not warm, this sister of his gave him great love—when he was a child, his sister let him do everything.

A little boy met such a sister in the world of self-desolation, and it was basically half of his mother.

2 Such a sister is in an extremely special position in his psyche, but it is not to say that it is more important than you, there is no comparison. Rather, you must not try to shake his sister's position, this is a knot in his heart, as long as you don't conflict with his sister, you can say anything, but as long as you conflict with his sister, he will definitely dislike it. This has almost become his bottom line.

3 This is the special emotional knot that has long been in the special family, and you should not touch it. Let it slowly dissolve, slowly become normal, but it will probably remain the same for the rest of your life.

It is recommended that you put it in perspective, don't compete for his sister's psychological position, and don't let him choose between you and his sister.

If possible, you should try to live separately from his sister as soon as possible. The trivial things at home are too difficult.