Is your life the same as you thought when you were a kid?

It's different, when I was a child, I always felt that the world was very beautiful, and I would be gentle with everyone. I love it and cherish it. But now, I ride my little sheep to work every day in the bitter cold wind, because the road is slippery in the snow, I fall to the ground, and I have a big cut on my hand, and blood is gushing out.

When I arrived at the company, I was still recorded as late by the owner, and I deducted the full attendance of the month. Then I went to the hospital to treat the wound, bandaged it briefly, told the doctor not to take the medicine, and then charged 80, which was my salary for the day. The world has never been soft on anyone.

It's not the same, but it's not the other way around.

When I was a child, I wanted to be a writer, and then I was instilled by my mother with the idea that "if a writer has no inspiration and talent, he will have no food", and now he has become a game company's publicity planner, and the work is also related to copywriting, and it is also to write something every day with new tricks, although he is not a writer, but he is also with the text, and he feels very comfortable, and the writing has never stopped, and he has always been **** on the Internet, and he is quite satisfied.

When I was a child, I dreamed of becoming a hero when I grew up, and my daily tasks were mainly to punish evil and promote good, drink wine and eat meat. Now emmmmm, aside, I'm going to wash the dishes.

It's different, when I was a kid, I thought that as long as I took over the power from my father, I could command the company to be at ease. But now, my father's company went bankrupt and he was in debt, and my father was so angry that he had a cerebral hemorrhage and is still paralyzed in bed. I have really taken over the power from my father now, and then I work to pay back the money and treat my father.

The world is like a book, and every page has a different ending.

It's completely different, when I was a kid, I wanted to get to the top of my life with my own hands. Now, I have reached the pinnacle of my life with the few suites that my family demolished, which is completely different.

It's different, when I was a child, I felt that I must be happy if I married love, and money is dung.

When I grew up, I realized how love can last without bread and milk!

When I was a child, I always wanted to grow up quickly, and when I grew up, I would be free, and it was not until I grew up now that I realized how happy and free it was to be restrained when I was a child. Now life seems to be free, but in fact, it is trapped by invisible prisons everywhere, and there is no way to get out or escape.

It's different, when I was a child, I struggled with whether to go to Tsinghua University or Peking University when I grew up...

When I was a child, I felt that my life when I grew up should be carefree and able to take charge of my own life. But now, I can't even dominate my own pocket money, hey, I'm drunk!

In fact, I have surpassed what I thought when I was a child.

When I was a kid, I didn't dream of being an astronaut or a teacher, a doctor.

I just want to start a family and start a business, just open a thousand dollars a month.

Because at that time, the average person's salary was only a few hundred yuan.

So, I've now surpassed my childhood dreams.

When I was a child, I dreamed that I would be able to control my money when I grew up, but now that I have grown up, I have always been controlled by money.

We started out as little fairies who didn't eat the fireworks of the world, and then life turned us into foodies who can fry and cook.

I used to be very stupid and naïve, and it was easy to believe that others were deceived by my best friend, sixty or seventy thousand, at that time, I had only graduated from college for two years, and I saved money by frugality, and now I have my own business, I have a lovely son, although I am a single mother, but I am very happy, and my parents are all successful in my younger brothers and sisters, so I said thank you to myself ten years ago for those hardships that made me grow.

In the past, he was young and frivolous, strong in blood, full of a female man, with a bit of rebellious color, and more serious in case of trouble, but now, if he can endure it, he will endure it. It's good to get by in everything, there is no momentum, no ideals, and more is willing to accompany your family! Because we are slowly getting older, and our parents are slowly getting older!

Parents and children need to be accompanied!

After graduating, I joined the family education industry, and in the process of learning family education, I found out that my family of origin brought me a huge influence and the influence of my growth environment on me. So I'm looking for a change, and today I can share and speak in front of a lot of people, and I can also be very bold in telling my own growth story. My friends think I've changed a lot when they see me, and it's actually true, because I think I've learned a lot from homeschooling.

I'm a lot more cautious now. In the past, disputes were always won by fighting, but now they do not agree and no longer defend. I used to be afraid to do things alone, but now I feel more comfortable being alone.

In the past, I always liked to talk to people from the bottom of my heart, but now I always seem to have friends without a wall. In the past, when I was wronged and blamed, I would openly start a conflict and make a fuss, but now I am secretly determined to do better and slap others in the face with actions. In the past, I would easily like someone, but now I don't dare to be easily tempted until I am sure of the other person's mind.

Time changes our faces; Time changes people and things. Time has changed our mentality and state of mind, but what time can't change is the most genuine kindness in a person's heart. As long as we truly face the world, we will not feel lonely and cold.

In the past, I lived more heartlessly, I really don't know how high the sky is, so, just graduated, I was slapped by reality, I used to be really naïve and romantic, and now I really learn to be naïve and romantic, and say to myself, the only little innocence left, just keep it, leave a motto to yourself, knowing the world but not the world, is the greatest kindness.

The standard of living is now significantly higher than before, and there have been changes in food, clothing, housing and transportation.

Changes in life, now eat a variety of things, more styles, all year round want to eat anything, when I was a child, I ate home-grown vegetables, home-raised poultry, vegetables are planted in the open air, single variety, poultry are fed with food without hormone antibiotics, although the food is rougher, but the taste is better than now, at least safer, and now the food safety problem is worrying.

In terms of wearing, the clothes I wore when I was a child were all clothes made by a tailor, a piece of clothing was worn and worn, sewn and sewn, not seeking style, only warmth, and now they are all fashion-based, all kinds of big-name styles of clothes, the pursuit of style and style, but also to feel good.

In terms of living, the house I used to live in was a bungalow, the conditions and facilities were simple, I had to go to the bathhouse to take a bath, there was no place to take a bath at home, and there was only one TV in the electrical appliances at home, but now they are all high-rise buildings, the conditions and facilities have been improved, the home appliances are fully equipped, and all kinds of automatic electrical appliances are available.

In terms of travel, the bicycle that can travel in the past, can buy a tricycle with good conditions, now every family has a four-wheeled vehicle, and it is no longer a green train to sit far away, now it is a high-speed rail bullet train, there is no network when I was a child, and I can only use a BB machine to contact it, and now everyone has a smart phone, and I don't need to bring cash when I go out, and I can do it all with a mobile phone.

The times are advancing, now the children are smarter than before, the quality of education for all has been improved, it can only be said that the people's living standards will be higher and higher, the improvement of all aspects, but also brought some convenience, the people take food as the day, but now the food safety problem, it is indeed worrying, there is no safety before, although the medical conditions have improved now, or miss the taste of childhood.

The change is quite big, not only in appearance, but also in mentality and mood. I was the youngest in my family. As the saying goes, the emperor loves the eldest son, and the people love the youngster, so even in the mid-to-late 70s, when living materials were scarce, the food given to me by the family was good, so I grew chubby when I was a child.

Everyone loves it. Carefree.

When I was a child, I don't seem to have changed much from me now. When I was a child, my classmates hadn't seen each other for many years, and now people can call me by name, which can only show that there is really no change in my appearance from childhood to adulthood, and people say that the female college has changed 18 times. Alas, I haven't changed this.

Of course, there may be no change in appearance, but there is still a certain amount in personality. When I was a child, I was very shy, and when that kind of person just couldn't, I couldn't speak much, and now it seems to be much better. The main thing is that I may have experienced a lot and matured ideologically.

Well, when dealing with certain things, of course, the solution will definitely be different. When I was young, I was the kind of child who had the heart, and now I'm an adult, right?

How to make a difference in your own life.

The first point is to do things when you are sober.

Heard such a story. There was a guy who got a nice purple clay pot and kept it at the head of the bed every night. Once I knocked the lid of the pot to the ground, and after waking up, I was very annoyed, the lid of the pot was gone, what was the use of leaving the body of the pot?

So he grabbed the body of the pot and threw it out the window. In the morning, it was found that the lid of the pot had fallen on the cotton shoes and was undamaged. hated it, and smashed the lid of the pot with one kick.

When I went out, I found that the teapot that Pei Heng threw out of the window last night was hanging on ......the branch in good condition

There is a good saying, impulse is the devil.

When our minds are confused or emotionally unstable, the choices and decisions we make are often wrong or even outweigh the losses. If you had waited a few minutes and waited until you had calmed down and become sober and sensible, you might have had a very different result.

Acting impulsively will not only fail to solve the problem of jury in the trial, but will also bring huge and even irreparable losses and damage to oneself.

The second point is to read when you are confused.

I don't know if you have found that when people are incapable and inexperienced, there will always be a lot of confusion about human feelings and knowledge. At that time, you may not have a good teacher who can help you answer your questions, and there may be no good friends who can guide you, so you can only find a way out on your own.

Reading is the lowest cost investment in the world. You can absorb sufficient spiritual nourishment from the vast books to continuously improve and perfect yourself; You can also absorb superior wisdom from the vast books, broaden your thinking and pattern; You can also learn from the experience and ideas of your predecessors in the all-inclusive books, so that you don't have to take a long detour.

When you feel confused, you might as well pick up the book in your hand and start reading. Books may not be able to help you get out of difficulties and get lost immediately, but the process of reading books can help you avoid greater cognitive limitations and blind spots.

Hello, friend, what I want most is childhood If I am given a chance to go back to my childhood, I will say to myself, enjoy my childhood, childhood is really happy. I also think of a lot of things from my childhood.

I wanted to plow the field, walking barefoot in the field, holding an iron plough in one hand and a whip in the other.

Catch the obedient old scalper in front. The whip flicked into the air, and the sound of a clatter resounded through the field. That chic, that comfortable, that happy, don't exchange anything! The obedient and hard-working scalper is so energetic.

Rest assured, old fellow, the whip will never fall on you. Just dangle in your gaze and let you feel my brisk ballads. Look behind you, the ploughed fields are shiny and fertile.

After sowing, as soon as it sprouts, the ground is full of green, a field of vitality, and hope! If you go back to when you were a child, you and your friends went to the mountains to herd sheep and cattle.

Sheep and cattle were scattered on the hillside, and we took shade under the trees, beating and renting handbags, throwing sandbags, and lining up for a talent show. Recite an ancient poem about herding cattle, sing a song about the rising sun in the east, learn the barking of dogs and cats, see who learns more similarly, and who performs more excitingly. There are no prizes, no flowers, whoever wins, will be the captain of the squad, and everyone listens to him.

Cows and sheep grazing on the hillside, who performs the worst, go, see if the cattle and sheep have run away. The wild fruits on the mountain can be eaten, who is the worst, go, black, let's pick some wild fruits to eat. Hahahaha, no one is angry.

Be happy with each other. Winning or losing is a common thing.

Especially playing a game called Sorbet, Melted. Everyone cuts and cuts the bag hammer, who loses, who is the housekeeper to catch people, who catches, and who replaces him. The game begins.

Everyone scattered and ran away. The butler began to chase and arrest the people. Hurry up and catch it, and quickly say sorbet !

The housekeeper ran away to catch the others, and immediately said that he ran away. Sometimes after playing for half a day, the housekeeper of this way can't catch a single person. Scud's butler, catch one in a moment.

The housekeeper and Kai can change several times a day.

When it rained, we removed some tree trunks and branches, built a canopy, and the friends all went into the shed. Cows and sheep hid under cliffs. When I was a child, the mountains were our paradise all year round.

The spring shack is suspicious, and everyone plays hide and seek in the woods; In summer, enjoy the shade of the trees; In autumn, climb trees to pick wild fruits; In winter, cattle and sheep are herded on the mountain, and they sing along the north wind. If you go back to when you were a child, you still jump into the river with your friends, scoop celery, and squeeze grass vegetables. Intercept a few sections of the creek, scoop water with washbasins and broken buckets, and catch fish and shrimp.