What should I do if I encounter difficulties and find that I am not as strong as I imagined?

I always thought that I was very strong and able to carry it, but when I encountered difficulties, I was dumbfounded and couldn't carry it, what should I do?

Ask for help from others, with the help of external forces, give yourself confidence when you encounter difficulties, and if you can't help yourself, find someone to help, or find someone to talk to, and talk about your difficulties, even if it is just to encourage you spiritually, it is also to increase your strength. You can ask your parents, siblings, relatives, friends and friends for help.

Sometimes, you just need someone to comfort you, you just need to vent your frustration, as long as someone listens, it will be much better. There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, and there is no problem that cannot be solved in time. Let your responsible emotions out, and your relatives and friends will cheer you up, and your courage and strength will come.

Of course, if you have a backer, such as your own parents and lovers, to help you solve your difficulties, that is also a way. However, after all, people must learn to be strong and solve difficulties, and always leave difficulties to others to solve, then they will encounter more difficulties in the future, because if they do not have the ability to solve problems, some small problems will become difficulties.

If there is no one to talk to, we can look at inspirational stories, watch inspirational film and television dramas, and even see on the Internet how those people who encounter great difficulties in real life carry it through. These deeds and examples will also give us strength and confidence to carry through the past.

For example, we can look at how the epidemic in Wuhan was carried over, and how the medical staff in Wuhan carried it through the huge risks and pressures, knowing that no one flinched from the danger and moved forward. Aren't they difficult? Difficult!

But they carried it and in the end won a decisive victory. Wuhan was saved, and the whole country was saved.

In the face of unknown customs and difficulties, people can still be strong, compared with their own difficulties, it seems that it is not so difficult, there is nothing that cannot be overcome. Believe in yourself, give yourself a little strength, and don't give up easily.

Everyone will encounter difficulties, so when encountering difficulties, we must adjust our mentality and face life with an optimistic attitude, only in this way can we become stronger.

Even if you find yourself not that strong, you can still get through it. You can ask for help from friends and family, and with their company, you will find that life is not so difficult.

When encountering difficulties and feeling that you are not so strong, you can only grit your teeth to make yourself strong, and work hard to increase your strength and make yourself mature as soon as possible.

If you find that you are not as strong as you imagined, then you can seek help from others, or you can choose to encourage yourself.

When you encounter difficulties, you find that you are not so strong, so don't pretend to be strong, and ask for help when you should ask for help.

Then don't hold on, you still have friends and family, you can turn to them for help. If you really can't solve this problem, you can also try to take a different path, although life is difficult, but it is always full of hope.

If you want to be strong in the face of difficulties, the way is not to "endure" tears, but that your heart can really withstand it! If you are really strong, then you will not shed tears in the face of difficulties, instead of using your strength to "endure" tears. Your character is not strong enough, because you have experienced too little, you have taken on too little responsibility, and you have had too much smooth sailing.

Our generation of only children, parents spoil too much, help us bear too much, help us block too many difficulties, when difficulties come, we will always hide behind them, watch them solve, watch them bear. And when they grow old, and we have to bear many things ourselves, we are used to being afraid. No one is born strong and old, and strong people only know how to bear it after going through a lot.

To be strong, you have to know how to go through it. When the luck and pain really strike, it hurts once; The second time, maybe you'll be a little better; The third time, maybe you've learned to comfort yourself; Fourth, maybe you're starting to calm down......One day, when misfortune returns, you stop crying, but think calmly, smile and comfort those who are suffering as you are.

Writer Yang Chunzhi described that being strong is the nemesis of sleepy cherry blossoms.

In difficult times, if you don't grit your teeth and be strong, all your efforts will be half-hearted, and you must have the spirit of hard work at critical moments.